Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[aczeta76]

Btw, she is barred from entry for ONLY 3 years... hengz not 5 years.

Going to book Jetstar later for 16 May to either 18 or 19 May..see how after discussing with her lah

[colins]

Cool man, bro aczeta, so fast meeting her liao. Meanwhile, do take care and try not to think so much.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

Cool man, bro aczeta, so fast meeting her liao. Meanwhile, do take care and try not to think so much.

Ya.. we already planned for it before she left but she confirmed it after she reached home and called me..

Sent her friend off on Sun morning and this friend was telling me that my MM feels for me, it is juz that she is too young to make up her mind and keep to it... another 2 or 3 years and she should be more ready for commitment.. (who knows, we may go holidaying in NanChang to visit this friend end of the year.. our 1st holiday away from either's home... see how lah)

Anyway, read this on my 51.com... How poignant and true?

最难过的时候,就是和自己所爱的人分手,自己嘴上说说不在乎,以后会找到更好的.上班的时间里,跟本没有时 间去想,可是一到晚上一个独自的时候,脑子就会开始回忆两人在一起开心的那段日子..唉,人是永远无法了解 自己.

It has been less than 2 days yet I miss her. Dun want to call her yet as I am hoping that this short absence from each other will bring us closer..anyway, she is home so she knows how to have fun and pass time.

So life will be very different from "Zhan Jie" in SG... At least she is out of this line for good (I hope)

[colins]

Going on a holiday sounds good to look forward to. Of cos you will miss her, its only 2 days, I guess 2 weeks later you'll still her. Give her a call la, the short absence part is 'overloaded' with thousands of miles already.

Let me share this with you. Hope you see that distance is still not the lowest point in a relationship.

The furthest distance in the world
世界上最遥远的距离
Is not between life and death
不是生与死
But when I stand in front of you
而是 我就站在你面前
Yet you don't know that I love you
你却不知道我爱你
The furthest distance in the world
世界上最遥远的距离
Is not when I stand in front of you
不是 我就站在你面前
Yet you can't see my love
你却不知道我爱你
But when undoubtedly knowing the love from both
而是 明明知道彼此相爱
Yet cannot be together
却不能在一起

The furthest distance in the world
世界上最遥远的距离
Is not being apart while being in love
不是 明明知道彼此相爱 却不能在一起
But when painly cannot resist the yearning
而是 明明无法抵挡这股思念
Yet pretending you have never been in my heart
却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
The furthest distance in the world
世界上最遥远的距离
Is not when painly cannot resist the yearning
不是 明明无法抵挡这股思念
yet pretending you have never been in my heart
却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
but using one's indifferent heart
而是 用自己冷漠的心对爱你的人
To dig an uncrossable river
掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠

[aczeta76]

How true... haiz..

Been playing the fields for the last 4 years and never tot I will really fall for someone in this line till I met her.

Distance is not an issue... true love is...

Well, monday is over soon so let's cheer up lah

[哀兵必胜]

Wow bro, abot fast for you to amke a trip there, tot at least maybe 5-6 months separation first ....

[aczeta76]

We were discussing this for a while.. Cannot wait 5-6 mth lah, then we would have cool down too much.

Visit her after 2 weeks and then we will see how we adjust to being together as BF/GF in this new "r/s" and how to move ahead.

At first, she was asking if I could visit her every other month but then I not enuff leave mah so not choice muz look at weekends only loh. (Wanted to TT her money each moth actually but then she said NO, save it to visit her more often)

For this round, she wanted me to visit her before June so this is best slot loh.. vesak day holiday..Anyway, with the Olympics.. will not be travelling there again till maybe october or November or maybe December to celebrate her b'day

[gniwgonwk]

Bro aczeta76,
Hope that all is well with you and your plans to visit your loved one are all in place.

Hope that you and her have an enjoyable trip, but do remember that pickpockets are aplenty in Zhuhai and take care!

[aczeta76]

Thanks bro.

My trip delayed till end may minimum as got death at home.

Noted on the pickpockets, my MM will 'protect' me...hahaha

[ziyi]

My condolences to you bro ... hope you find what you looking for ...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by ziyi

My condolences to you bro ... hope you find what you looking for ...

Thanks bro..

[azzaro23]

Dear bros out there...

Going to tell you a same old story with a slight different twist. By the way story the lead actor is me. Story goes I meet PRC girl fall madly in love with her in 3 short weeks. I am totally smitten with her. Problem is she didn't come on to me at all. I am the one that falls heads over heels with her. Bought her small gifts not too much to consider she chop cai tou on me. Sometimes I am also too much, i would find way & means to get her to accompany me so she cannot earn $$$. Reason is the thought of she getting touch by other mens I would go siao but i cannot afford to bao her for the whole period till she go back home. Spent endless nites in a week waiting at back alley of kopi tiam drinking beers alone just to make sure she is ok & i can get to accompany her.

Anyway i be go with her back to her hometown in 6 weeks time to see if the things she told me about herself is true. At least once & for all I can know she is true to me & if i can marry her. Also dont know how to survive 6 weeks of knowing she need to work. think i go siao 1st. wake up think of her till go sleep also think of her, seriously affecting my work & social life....

On second hand, this is my 1st time travelling to china alone, kinda of worry for my own saftey also.

Bros what advice can you give me this love smitten fool?

[azzaro23]

Dear bros

Going to tell you all a story that happen to me..

Got to know a PRC 3 weeks back. Totally smitten & in love with her. Can't go without a day not seeing her. But she is not type that treated me like cai tou. In fact I am the one who chased after her.

Me so siao over her until I can go down everyday to find her just to prevent her from taking on other customers. I can't bear the thought of other men touching her body. I can even sit at back alley of kopi tiam drinking beer alone just to wait for her to finish work so i makes sure she safe. Also send countless sms to her on a daily basis.

We also share a lot of romance time together and from the look in her eyes & the things she told me she fallen in love with me also and we are planning a trip back to her hometown in june to see for myself if the things she told me is true. Really hope it turns out to be true as I got intention of being with her.But really sacred what happen things doesnt come true over there & 2nd thing this is my 1st time traveling alone to China & I am also worry about my personnel safety over there.

Bros any advice for me? kinda of desperate for a solution.

[gniwgonwk]

Great that you have found someone in your life. But do take things easy.
It'll still be a while till June so you should just enjoy whatever time you have with your friend in the meantime before you rush off to your friend's home.
Otherwise you should take control instead and make the travel arrangements, take a tour somewhere in China, etc. instead so that she is not the person making the travel arrangements - to be on the safe side.

[azzaro23]

thanks gniwgonwk bro for your adivce, actually I am the one who suggested i go back with her on this trip to visit her & I am touched to say she didnt say no and she suggested that I stay over at her apartment to save $$$. (Maybe it is a plot to squeeze $$$ out of me?)

Anyway she will be planning to bring me to see her family and do some sightseeing. Maybe it is my 1st time over there & i am going alone with her so kinda of like exciting & worried. just really hope it turns out all well. Just hope I don't into another statics for the growing number of con sillyspore men.

6 weeks more to go, must learn to control my emotions if not think i end up at woodbridge...