Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[tonberry]

go gym ....tone ur body and vent ur frustrations....

go jog...train stamina

[cupid128]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Well I am only know in buaya PRC girls, so if i want to go buaya the largest pool of PRC at one location i can do that is at GL.

Haha can go city plaza and chinatown where PRCs go to shop ...

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by cupid128

Haha can go city plaza and chinatown where PRCs go to shop ...

Chinatown is a big no no for me, my workplace is at there.

Can't possibly me eat & shit at the same place...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Well Bro I am no longer young I am in my early thirties and that the more reason I shouldn't behave in this way. I am not acting my age. Sian...

Young does not mean age! It's more tuned towards mental maturity.
A 20yr old PRC can outwit almost most local gals at 30yrs old.
That's call mental maturity not age!
Else, how they can con people to be like, in your state hahahaha

[DO_YOU_BJ]

If you luv something, set it free.
If it doesn't come back, hunt it down n kill it!
Y this phrase????? It'll be the best test to prove what's real & wat's not.

You have posted so much but no comments will enter your head...you r waiting for the 1, just 1 agreement post & you'll capitalize on it.
You r a sinking ship that refuses to acknowledge the water gushing in but still wanna sail the high seas.

Let me tell you the conclusion.
Something is gonna happen soon, how soon, we usually less than a year when she finds investing in you is bearing no fruit.
Then you'll will see.

The worst part of your path is:
If money gone, still can earn back, but once scar on heart, the memories will torment you for quite a long time.
I have a bro who went thru wat you went thru, 1.5yrs passed liao, he's still an emotional wreck.
He'll never be the same again.
Honestly, what he was doing then plus thing he said and tots etc, is like you photostat!
Same shit, different story only.

I just pray you are as brave as you r now to post your downfall like you are asking all these questions that clearly shows any lao jiao that you "DOOMED!"

Remember me my young "DOOMED" friend, for when the time comes, I pray we will meet cos I would luv to see your own creation!

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

If you luv something, set it free.
If it doesn't come back, hunt it down n kill it!
Y this phrase????? It'll be the best test to prove what's real & wat's not.

You have posted so much but no comments will enter your head...you r waiting for the 1, just 1 agreement post & you'll capitalize on it.
You r a sinking ship that refuses to acknowledge the water gushing in but still wanna sail the high seas.

Let me tell you the conclusion.
Something is gonna happen soon, how soon, we usually less than a year when she finds investing in you is bearing no fruit.
Then you'll will see.

The worst part of your path is:
If money gone, still can earn back, but once scar on heart, the memories will torment you for quite a long time.
I have a bro who went thru wat you went thru, 1.5yrs passed liao, he's still an emotional wreck.
He'll never be the same again.
Honestly, what he was doing then plus thing he said and tots etc, is like you photostat!
Same shit, different story only.

I just pray you are as brave as you r now to post your downfall like you are asking all these questions that clearly shows any lao jiao that you "DOOMED!"

Remember me my young "DOOMED" friend, for when the time comes, I pray we will meet cos I would luv to see your own creation!

You got your point there I am sort of like digging my own grave with a sense of tiredness but am still digging away.

Maybe I shouldn't post comments again since I am doing "selective listening & replying" to comments I like to hear.

Am still holding on to the hope everything turns out ok and keeping my emotions in check during the time she not around.

This would be my short term goal for now.

For relationship with PRCs, do not give them benefit of the doubt .... any suspicious thingy ... straightaway break it off ... dont make the night longer and have more dreams ....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

You got your point there I am sort of like digging my own grave with a sense of tiredness but am still digging away.

Maybe I shouldn't post comments again since I am doing "selective listening & replying" to comments I like to hear.

Am still holding on to the hope everything turns out ok and keeping my emotions in check during the time she not around.

This would be my short term goal for now.

Bro.... HOPE is not part of the equation here.

Once you sober up, you need to realise that ALL and I mean ALL depends on you and how you think.

Like me, I love my GF but we lead normal lives away from each other because we understand that this is part of our r/s. We are lovey dovey at times and mushy even but we dun harp on the separation, we juz enjoy communicating in watever way we can and look forward to seeing each other when possible.

But if one fine day, we realise that we cannot be together, then I will leave her. We will still be friends but I dun want to hold her back.

Please go see a shrink if you can't keep your emotions in check, else it will make life miserable for both of you.

Disclaimer: This is assuming that she really likes you hoh.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro.... HOPE is not part of the equation here.

Once you sober up, you need to realise that ALL and I mean ALL depends on you and how you think.

Like me, I love my GF but we lead normal lives away from each other because we understand that this is part of our r/s. We are lovey dovey at times and mushy even but we dun harp on the separation, we juz enjoy communicating in watever way we can and look forward to seeing each other when possible.

But if one fine day, we realise that we cannot be together, then I will leave her. We will still be friends but I dun want to hold her back.

Please go see a shrink if you can't keep your emotions in check, else it will make life miserable for both of you.

Disclaimer: This is assuming that she really likes you hoh.

Maybe I do need to go see a shrink I am getting this kind of extreme mood swings on a daily basis.

From what you have told me yesterday bro am trying hard not to let all this negative emotions of mine affected her.

Can't say I am making progress but am trying.

Guess this account for my mental maturity which I believe many bros here think I am seriously lacking of.

[colins]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Maybe I do need to go see a shrink I am getting this kind of extreme mood swings on a daily basis.

From what you have told me yesterday bro am trying hard not to let all this negative emotions of mine affected her.

Can't say I am making progress but am trying.

Guess this account for my mental maturity which I believe many bros here think I am seriously lacking of.

I've been thru this stage, bro, mood swings and everything in your life gets affected. Seriously when I look back, everyday in this state is a wasted day in my life. Although if I really want to, I can marry my shenyang gf, the thought of it is just too wonderful, esp like those days we spent together in sg. But 2 things always come to my mind, trust and background. These 2 things make or break any relationship even if she is by your side everyday. When 2 person come together, they not only need to love each other, they must also be compatible, or at least NOT incompatible. We love each other, but out thinking are so different. Likewise, in your case as well. You have to be practical, even force yourself to, if you want a future.

Of cos my ex blamed me, and she blame me so much that now she is starting her own singing career in Japan (something she said she would never do becos she want to wait for me), she said she wont give me any chance to be even her friend.

Sometimes love wins, but most of the time you got thinking for yourself first.

Hopefully you can treat this as a test for your maturity, rather than discuss and judge your current 'age'.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Look at it this way.
You know how you're affected by it already.
If I was her, I'd be happy like F!
I got you wrapped around my finger liao.......mission accomplished.

Think about it, to deep in it, emotionally attached to it, i understand but....wait.....part of you liao...ya ok accepted but again......
If you got a tumor in you, yeah, its part of your body too but hey, you gotta remove it or it'll eat into you like it's doin now.

Pls do not stop posting cos it you read back from post 1 to date, you will see your slow demise & confusion in postings.
It's all penned down.

[colins]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Pls do not stop posting cos it you read back from post 1 to date, you will see your slow demise & confusion in postings.
It's all penned down.

Yeah, thats right. You are really getting from happy to confused and now sad. And thats after your reunion with her. Something must have happened la, maybe if you share it, you might feel better.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by colins

She blame me so much that now she is starting her own singing career in Japan (something she said she would never do becos she want to wait for me), she said she wont give me any chance to be even her friend.

So she a singer huh bro......
No worries....
PRC stints......basically they will come SG or Taiwan or HK or Japan......standard SOP
No factor, it's trademark to put the blame on you and make you feel like a dick at the end of it all so they can fly away scott free........dun even accept the last statement....

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by colins

I've been thru this stage, bro, mood swings and everything in your life gets affected. Seriously when I look back, everyday in this state is a wasted day in my life. Although if I really want to, I can marry my shenyang gf, the thought of it is just too wonderful, esp like those days we spent together in sg. But 2 things always come to my mind, trust and background. These 2 things make or break any relationship even if she is by your side everyday. When 2 person come together, they not only need to love each other, they must also be compatible, or at least NOT incompatible. We love each other, but out thinking are so different. Likewise, in your case as well. You have to be practical, even force yourself to, if you want a future.

Of cos my ex blamed me, and she blame me so much that now she is starting her own singing career in Japan (something she said she would never do becos she want to wait for me), she said she wont give me any chance to be even her friend.

Sometimes love wins, but most of the time you got thinking for yourself first.

Hopefully you can treat this as a test for your maturity, rather than discuss and judge your current 'age'.

Practical as in? Or force myself to do what?

Can't really visualize what you are advising me bro...

Got acute case of impaired seeing & hearing due to tunnel vision...

[Rattler]

I think the main gise of all recommendations is can lift up must be able to let go also .... so dont brood on her move on ..