The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

its a watch with the words 'tian chang di jiu' engraved behind..the time is paused at our happiest moment

time paused at that moment,this is just so sweet..

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

bro..u not a loser.u hv not met the rite ger..i hv but yet i dun dare to do anything.tats more a loser rite?

bro,everyone i believe had and will been thru this bad patch,if u put it that way i am even worse,my last ex-of 3 yrs whom i mentioned in the previous posts got married that time and i didnt even want to go for the wedding.to me,the sight is just too unbearable for me at that point of time.

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

bro,everyone i believe had and will been thru this bad patch,if u put it that way i am even worse,my last ex-of 3 yrs whom i mentioned in the previous posts got married that time and i didnt even want to go for the wedding.to me,the sight is just too unbearable for me at that point of time.

Same here bro.. my 1st love invited me to her wedding next mth & i decline politely. My thoughts is, i do not want to show up as the loser, feeling stupid
to turn up as a ex-bf. wtf..

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

its a watch with the words 'tian chang di jiu' engraved behind..the time is paused at our happiest moment

bro, i bought my ex gf the same watch from Sovil et Titus last time....with the andy lau promo and poster some more...sighs brings back my memories too manz...

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

bro,everyone i believe had and will been thru this bad patch,if u put it that way i am even worse,my last ex-of 3 yrs whom i mentioned in the previous posts got married that time and i didnt even want to go for the wedding.to me,the sight is just too unbearable for me at that point of time.

i guess its the most ironical situation for all guys..to b invited to ex gf wedding..if she dun invite u..u feel upset..if she invite u..u dunno whether to go anot..we juz cant win either way

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

time paused at that moment,this is just so sweet..

to others..it wld seem dumb..buy a $300 watch juz to stop the watch..

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

bro, i bought my ex gf the same watch from Sovil et Titus last time....with the andy lau promo and poster some more...sighs brings back my memories too manz...

不在乎天长地久，只在乎成经拥有.

Memories last a lifetime. Thats why i got tat watch. I dun hv the power to stop the time to make tat moment last forever. Wat i can only do is to pause the watch at tat time

我很想爱他 但是眼睛在说谎 隐瞒比较容易吧 免得感情变的复杂

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

bro, i bought my ex gf the same watch from Sovil et Titus last time....with the andy lau promo and poster some more...sighs brings back my memories too manz...

不在乎天长地久，只在乎成经拥有.

Memories last a lifetime. Thats why i got tat watch. I dun hv the power to stop the time to make tat moment last forever. Wat i can only do is to pause the watch at tat time

我很想爱他 但是眼睛在说谎 隐瞒比较容易吧 免得感情变的复杂

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

不在乎天长地久，只在乎成经拥有.

Memories last a lifetime. Thats why i got tat watch. I dun hv the power to stop the time to make tat moment last forever. Wat i can only do is to pause the watch at tat time

我很想爱他 但是眼睛在说谎 隐瞒比较容易吧 免得感情变的复杂

ya man....tell u something weird abt my watch also...i got a pair also as mentioned...the time where my gf and me broke up...the watch stop a few weeks later also....im still holding on to my half of the stopped watch......sighs.....well tats tat manz....life still goes on man.....hope u got my advice to u earlier too bro....

btw: thanks for yr pts manz...appreciate it, cheers

[owen10]

well i guess for some guys, sometimes it's more of an obligation.

like an army fren who married his gal cos he made her pregnant. fr what i know he does not really love her 100% (mayb 70% lah) as he had anthr gal which he fancied much more. furthermore he was not really into marriage at such an early age (26) but was forced by d gals' parents.

got anthr fren, he n a gal fren had been close frens for many years. he loves this gal a lot but they cant b togthr cos of a diff in religion. this gal, a christian would nvr accept some1 outside her religion n which he's a buddhist.
in d end he got married to a gal he knew thru SDU. quite contentedly married but of cos he confessed he was always still thkg of his poly mate.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

ya man....tell u something weird abt my watch also...i got a pair also as mentioned...the time where my gf and me broke up...the watch stop a few weeks later also....im still holding on to my half of the stopped watch......sighs.....well tats tat manz....life still goes on man.....hope u got my advice to u earlier too bro....

sometimes i wonder whether titus watch really got feeling of its own..my frd told me somethin abt her titus watch also..it was given to her by her ex on the 1st day they got together and on the day they broke off..the watch stop..it was only 1 yr plus..by right..the battery wun run out so fast..well..sometimes mayb the world works in a way we will neva understand..

got ur advice liao..mayb i shld really carry it out..after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by GLHunter

Same here bro.. my 1st love invited me to her wedding next mth & i decline politely. My thoughts is, i do not want to show up as the loser, feeling stupid
to turn up as a ex-bf. wtf..

Imagine...everyone whispering, while looking at you..."I thought that's the groom?".....

JWNY

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

bro, i bought my ex gf the same watch from Sovil et Titus last time....with the andy lau promo and poster some more...sighs brings back my memories too manz...

i bought one Sovil et Titus for my 1st love too. its very "in" at that time.
but only got 1 pc. coz 1 pcs is already 100 plus & its considered expensive to me at that time. its during my bday. i think i got nothing, but stupid enough not to feel anything abt it.

Think back, those were the "blind" days..

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

sometimes i wonder whether titus watch really got feeling of its own..my frd told me somethin abt her titus watch also..it was given to her by her ex on the 1st day they got together and on the day they broke off..the watch stop..it was only 1 yr plus..by right..the battery wun run out so fast..well..sometimes mayb the world works in a way we will neva understand..

got ur advice liao..mayb i shld really carry it out..after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

I think tats the magic in life tat people talk abt, the connections that no words or anything in the world can explain....things happen for a reason and a purpose perhaps, so its really up to individual to do the necessary actions after tat.....

trust me, its for the best tat u pour yr heart out and tell her the truth, be it a fairy tale happiness ending or a tragic turn of events...at least you wont have any regrets when u grow old and in yr lying in your death bed thinking to yourself...wat if , wat if i would have done things differently...............

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

sometimes i wonder whether titus watch really got feeling of its own..my frd told me somethin abt her titus watch also..it was given to her by her ex on the 1st day they got together and on the day they broke off..the watch stop..it was only 1 yr plus..by right..the battery wun run out so fast..well..sometimes mayb the world works in a way we will neva understand..

got ur advice liao..mayb i shld really carry it out..after all i got nothin to lose now..do also die..dun do also die..might as well go down in glory rite? in other aspects of life.i usually very decisive but when it come to affairs of the heart..i think i more wishy washy than woman in a jewellery shop it took me 5 mins to think of the significance of buyin tat watch and 5 min to choose it..but it took me more than 1 yr to decide whether to tell her i like her..haha..btw come to think of it..she already noe tat i like her but now its for me get a official rejection from her..haha

I think tats the magic in life tat people talk abt, the connections that no words or anything in the world can explain....things happen for a reason and a purpose perhaps, so its really up to individual to do the necessary actions after tat.....

trust me, its for the best tat u pour yr heart out and tell her the truth, be it a fairy tale happiness ending or a tragic turn of events...at least you wont have any regrets when u grow old and in yr lying in your death bed thinking to yourself...wat if , wat if i would have done things differently...............