Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha, so it doesn't pays to say "sorry, correct me if i m wrong", got zapped 3 points from someone. then i should say KNN!

sorry to hear this.. i am not the one i can assure.. so coincidental i got 3 balls also.. lol.. i up you back when my power restores.. thanks for your opinion too..

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by Uniman

If she got powerful relatives or family that is true. Of cos if SG lades also got powerful relatives or family here then they also dont want to go other place

All the ladies needs $$, just some use the $$ for family or for good, other just love the $$

on the contrary, that china girl i am talking about is richer than me.. in fact she has her own biz.. lol.. so cheating my money is definitely not her agenda.. but still, many pple would think she is after the PR status.. of cos, i am slightly concerned about this.. but she insists she doesn't want to come over.. so i also dunno to believe or don't.. after marrying her, end up she want to come, can i say no? lol..

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, I suggest you find out more about her. I guess that would take place as the relationship evolves? I thought for all these gals its normal for the BF to shower them with money for living and gifts to keep her happy? With the men to women ratio being so out of balance, ask yourself why she is not trying to get a better deal out from you? You say its love but is it really love?

hi bro realestateguy.. she is definitely not one of those who expects guys to shower her with this and that.. at least when i went out with her all these time, i had a hard time trying to pay for things.. most of the time she would fight to pay, a couple of times she managed to pay before i realise, and a couple of times she rather go dutch then let me foot the bill.. like i mentioned earlier, i am quite assured she is not one of those waiting to be kept.. i am just confused about having a long-distance relationship..

[Cerberus]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

on the contrary, that china girl i am talking about is richer than me.. in fact she has her own biz.. lol.. so cheating my money is definitely not her agenda.. but still, many pple would think she is after the PR status.. of cos, i am slightly concerned about this.. but she insists she doesn't want to come over.. so i also dunno to believe or don't.. after marrying her, end up she want to come, can i say no? lol..

Wow! I would marry her and move to China. Develop my career there with her help. Sillypore getting difficult to stay liao.

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by Cerberus

Wow! I would marry her and move to China. Develop my career there with her help. Sillypore getting difficult to stay liao.

that's what i thought initially.. but how to really give up my everything here? my family and friends.. so not easy for me to stay long term there also..

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, I don't have a bias against anyone. I'm just trying to help you reason and process your decision process and give you some thoughts collected from stories I have heard, read and experienced. If you want to zap me for helping me it shows me that you dont like the possible truth. The truth hurts sometimes but its better to know right? Zapping me doesnt make me flinch. My life is not based on how many points I get on a sex board. If someone is proud of their 1000 points on this board (with all due respect to the boss of this board), then I think you are focusing on the wrong thing.

[hardpoke]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, I don't have a bias against anyone. I'm just trying to help you reason and process your decision process and give you some thoughts collected from stories I have heard, read and experienced. If you want to zap me for helping me it shows me that you dont like the possible truth. The truth hurts sometimes but its better to know right? Zapping me doesnt make me flinch. My life is not based on how many points I get on a sex board. If someone is proud of their 1000 points on this board (with all due respect to the boss of this board), then I think you are focusing on the wrong thing.

?? bro.. u read properly.. i never said you bias.. nor have i said your opinion is bad or what.. why would i zap u? you mistaken ler..

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

on the contrary, that china girl i am talking about is richer than me.. in fact she has her own biz.. lol.. so cheating my money is definitely not her agenda.. but still, many pple would think she is after the PR status.. of cos, i am slightly concerned about this.. but she insists she doesn't want to come over.. so i also dunno to believe or don't.. after marrying her, end up she want to come, can i say no? lol..

Ya i know lot of China Mimi dont like SG, the weather, the life and so on, so it is difficulty to say, but have u visited her in China, and visited her parents / family? If yes maybe true, if no or she dont want u to visit her family then a big Q mark

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by Cerberus

Wow! I would marry her and move to China. Develop my career there with her help. Sillypore getting difficult to stay liao.

U should be to get the China PR is much much more difficulty than getting the SG PR hehe. I think China Govment outsmarted the SG Govment, you really need to be some figure or talent to get the China PR

[Uniman]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

that's what i thought initially.. but how to really give up my everything here? my family and friends.. so not easy for me to stay long term there also..

Bro After u got a wife there, and several mistress there also if can, then u will forget all u have here easily lao hehe

[Witzer]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

.. at least when i went out with her all these time, i had a hard time trying to pay for things.. most of the time she would fight to pay, a couple of times she managed to pay before i realise, and a couple of times she rather go dutch then let me foot the bill.. like i mentioned earlier, i am quite assured she is not one of those waiting to be kept....

Bro hardpoke, my ex who is a local is a demure accomodating lady who is financially independant. When I go out, she would defer to me when paying for meals or entertainment. She is not a spoilt lady or anything, she would always do stuff for me eg buy pants and clothing for me when she is out with her friends.

What I want to say is that, it is SOP for the guy to pay when couples are together but your companion has tried to pay her share or somethings even the whole bill. Don't you think she is trying too hard, and wonder why ?

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by hardpoke

?? bro.. u read properly.. i never said you bias.. nor have i said your opinion is bad or what.. why would i zap u? you mistaken ler..

Someone else did. Brother, I got no enemies on this board. I'm only trying to help. I cant go back and reread all the threads, focus on things that advance me not points on this board. Im only trying to help the OP and someone attacked me. But its meaningless and I dont place high value on the attack nor willing to put up the energy to respond. The only thing I will do is try to help by reasoning with people. If it was not you then applogies brother.

[pary]

Hmm..we talked about women from China, SG etc.

How about women from Malaysia? Maybe there's a higher % of finding someone from MY that is less $-minded, with more realistic expectations...?

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by pary

Hmm..we talked about women from China, SG etc.

How about women from Malaysia? Maybe there's a higher % of finding someone from MY that is less $-minded, with more realistic expectations...?

One of my good friend said Msia women is almost the same as SG women both are fxxk up personality.
Most of them find pinos, thais & viets as wife.

In short.. most of my friends like non-chinese women

They said non-chinese (SEA) are much less $$$-minded even when some of my friends lost their jobs during economy downturn.
Their foreign wifes (non-chinese) stand by them. They even said if foreign women (SEA) choose you because of love not your job or your money unlike Chinese women (SG, Msia & PRC)

[coach]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

In short.. most of my friends like non-chinese women

Just curious, do they need to change religion, renamed to be called like "Ali Mahmud", before get married?

how abt their kids, also need to follow the religion ??