Wife having Affairs - Page 2

YummyBear · #16 29-06-2006, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by fat29

Sista Yummybear,

Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding.

For your info, I'm a dude.

Anyway, understand where you are coming from, and I must admit you have managed to put senses to what would be my first reactions to the situation. I would probably not do what I have stated including Bro SImplyd's fifth step(even though Beo Simplyd's fifth step was very tempting to be tried out

). Lucky me, I have already been divorced and have no need to be bothered by the possibility of such an incident (not that it had happened to me.

)

asdfghjkl · #17 29-06-2006, 04:38 PM

see if u can tahan tahan lor.. if can, resolve it, if not then bo pian spilt.. u not thinking of fighting ba?

geckoSG · #18 29-06-2006, 04:42 PM

Err, purpose of this new thread?

asdfghjkl · #19 29-06-2006, 04:45 PM

he wants us to give him advice ma..

Castrol · #20 29-06-2006, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Hi bros, just wanna know what will you do and feel if you found out that your wife is having affairs. Worst, is that the other party happens to be your friends. Even worst when you found out that all the sexual activity was done raw...

go sit down at the bar counter, ask for a black label, drink it from the bottle, and the rest is easy...

onion_rings · #21 29-06-2006, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by yanki1

i cannot tahan it.

Guess no man in this world can tahan his own wife cheating behind his back...

eugene8tan · #22 29-06-2006, 05:22 PM

Thanks bros for all the advice. Got to know about her affair from her diary. Now my mind blur, blur....Her diary wrote details of all the affairs. Found out that she bonk 2 of my friends, one more from the chatline and another from her colleague's friend.

I must admit that my wife is pretty and sexy and I have always been proud to show off my wife but now.....haiz......

eugene8tan · #23 29-06-2006, 06:58 PM

From the time we are married, we had sex almost everyday. We never say no to either one when it comes to sex.

She started to have this fantasy when I introduced this friend of mine who is an Ah Beng. Dyed hair and tattoos. Remembered she got excited when meeting up with him and kept asking me about his background. And everytime when I want to meet this guy, she will always insist me to bring her along. She even said how cool he is and if there is a guy she would like to get laid, he will be on her 1st list.

I took her words as a joke as I trust her. That was only 1.5 years of our marriage. But I never expect she will take her joke and fantasy into reality.

I will share with all the bro here what she wrote in her diary.....Please be patient....

omni · #24 30-06-2006, 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by sgblackdevil

Wah you are the man......found out your wife having affair and having rax sex with your friend....you still have the mood to post here....

I dun think he meant he found out his wife is having an affair rather how the brothers in sammyboy will deal with when found out their wife is cheating on them.

geckoSG · #25 30-06-2006, 09:57 AM

Well, we'll wait for the contents of the diary to be released here...
Anyway, dun think too hard about it... Life gets on... btw, its good to be single again, more pussy without commitment!

winger_tag · #26 30-06-2006, 10:13 AM

Bro,

1st thing is to ask urself......do you still love her
2nd thing is to ask urself......can you forgive her
3rd thing is to ask urself.......can you put all these behind and start again

If your answer to 1 is yes, but answer to 2 is no, then you should find the best solution which is to go seperate ways.

If your answer to all the question is yes, personally i think you are kidding yourself, as no man will have such a big heart....to forgive and forget things like this.

If the both of you do not have any kids yet, i would suggest you consider things properly, otherwise once you have kids, things will be a lot more complex.....

Just my 2 cents worth........

Frankiestine · #27 30-06-2006, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Thanks bros for all the advice. Got to know about her affair from her diary. Now my mind blur, blur....Her diary wrote details of all the affairs. Found out that she bonk 2 of my friends, one more from the chatline and another from her colleague's friend.

I must admit that my wife is pretty and sexy and I have always been proud to show off my wife but now.....haiz......

Honestly, I am not going to be so kind to a woman who makes me wear the green hat..I make sure they hell pay for it...normally i am not a violent person but one unfortunate incident make me realise that if my possession are threaten, i will not hesitate to take drastic measures to protect it...

supercharm · #28 30-06-2006, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Thanks bros for all the advice. Got to know about her affair from her diary. Now my mind blur, blur....Her diary wrote details of all the affairs. Found out that she bonk 2 of my friends, one more from the chatline and another from her colleague's friend.

I must admit that my wife is pretty and sexy and I have always been proud to show off my wife but now.....haiz......

Bro i'm curios on how did you get hold of her diary???so as to say that she knows that you know all about it too??i guess you must be feeling very bitter right now.well things happen for a cause...look on the brighter side of life and keep your cool...if you still love her than you should talk to her and try to forgive her... i can asure you that you can forgive her but never can forget what she do to you.....so think wisely and decide on your next move..i'm waiting to read the content of your wife diary...and so do other bros here....

Acanthus · #29 30-06-2006, 01:43 PM

Bro,

i suggest you try to control the hatred building in you and settle this amicably with your wife. The most important question you should ask urself rite now is whether you can continue to have her as ur missus after this incident. To be fair to her, you also did bonk ard too(i'm only guessing since u r in SBF

)

Also understand that even if you forgive her, you will never forget...you will most prolly bring the incident up again when you quarrel in future.

if you decide that its the end, remember to keep the diary as proof and not let her destroy it. Its good evidence against her adultery and will help you tremendously in ur divorce case, especially if things get nasty.

Hope you think carefully over it.

HardCock · #30 30-06-2006, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by eugene8tan

Thanks bros for all the advice. Got to know about her affair from her diary. Now my mind blur, blur....Her diary wrote details of all the affairs. Found out that she bonk 2 of my friends, one more from the chatline and another from her colleague's friend.

I must admit that my wife is pretty and sexy and I have always been proud to show off my wife but now.....haiz......

This remind me of something that a fren of mine who always advise my bunch of frenz...dun married a sexy and pretty ger for u will suffer heartbreak in times to come...his reasoning...no man/woman can be satisfied easily...especially one with very good "tiao jian" (qualities)...a man/woman will definitely meet a better person throughout his/her life and that's when the temptation comes. If he/she cannot tahan the lure, a mistake will be committed. BTW, he is married to a average looking ger but a very nice ger, really help out at the household...very responsible. But he still plays the field sometime...feel quite bad for his wife...anyway, he decided to quit his playboy lifestyle after he knows that his wife is preggy...hope he's for real...