Is it ok to fuck around if your wife/gf dont give u sex?

[beck7777]

morally i feel its wrong but then how many of us bro here keep to that? regarless of having wife/gf anot, we still tend to fxxk around.. and wife not giving u enough sex is just another reason to make us feel better.. i'm no saint.. i admit i do fxxk around when i'm attached.. but us guys feel its ok as long as wife/gf dun find out and we not having affair..

1 thing i find it funny is we guys can fxxk around and go home and treat it as nothing happened.. when ganna caught, most of us still managed to get the forgiveness of our other half.. but imagine is us guys can satisfy our girl and she fxxk around.. somehow we cant forgive them..

just my two cents.. cheers!!!

[nic_h]

I guess its up to individual to think whether its ok or not to fuck around.
Its a question on morales and needs. Morally we all know its wrong but sometime needs can over rule everything.
So its like the devil and angel in u fighting out.
Most of the time.... pple will subcumb to the devil.
So as long as u still love ur wife... make sure u wipe ur mouth properly before u go home. N dun ever use real feelings on WLs or flings.

[newbadass]

No, it's not OK.
And no amount of excuses will make it OK.

As men, if we want to do something wrong, then be man enough to admit that what we're doing is wrong. But wrong or right, when did it stop anybody? Want to do it, just do it. No need to look for excuses. We're men. That alone should be enough.

End of the day, moral values have no place in a commercial sex forum. So fuck around all you want - any answers you get here should make no difference.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by newbadass

No, it's not OK.
And no amount of excuses will make it OK.

As men, if we want to do something wrong, then be man enough to admit that what we're doing is wrong. But wrong or right, when did it stop anybody? Want to do it, just do it. No need to look for excuses. We're men. That alone should be enough.

End of the day, moral values have no place in a commercial sex forum. So fuck around all you want - any answers you get here should make no difference.

bro it is my honour to quote your whole post. thumbs up, cheers and bottoms up!

[Penetrator3]

My mind will say it's perfectly fine, my heart will say no, it's so unright.

I myself have a gf of more than 2 yrs, things started out like u are in heaven, having sex every other day, the car, the toilet, in the wild, my house, her house, everywhere, i even have her cuming thrice in a night on a sex marathon

things became mundane after that, first it's once a week, then twice a month, then once a month, and now it's been 8 months since we last had a good shag together. She's busy, she's tired, she's not in the mood, we've been quarrelling so she cant get physical with me. blah blah blah. All that shit.

On my part, it was ok to lun for the first 2 months. After that, the devil came out and i started going back to my GL ways. To justified my actions, i told myself it's no feelings involved so it's alright. If i start screwing other gals out there then i'm a bastard. Right now, i'm just paying to make myself feel better. It's sad, but i refer it to as smoking, drinking and even buy a new handphone that kind of adrenaline rush. $$ makes my world go round.

damn, i love this gal. i just hope things work out soon. if not.... who knows in the near future. i just miss those days. then again, it's not all about sex..... but IT DOES involve sex.

[K123456]

want to f around make sure:
1) don't get cought
2) remember to go home
3) don't get attached out side

[john99]

No point debating whether this is right or wrong. If you want to do it, just be man enough to accept the consequences.

But if you are only Bf/Gf and you have problems getting sex from your girl, think you better relook at the relationship carefully. Sex within a marriage can be routine and mundane and with kids along the way, all passion will be out of the window.

Most wives will close one eye if there is no emotion involved and no late night phone calls from the other party but not many men can withstand the many tricks on offer from the 'pretty SYTs".

[Sorin^^]

Maybe can get a fleshlight or those silicon dolls to satisfy first. Like that won't feel guilty. Plus, If she finds out, then she will wonder why i prefer to fcuk a doll to her. Then she will change for the better. Hahaha!

[KLHungry]

My first post in this thread. Forgive me if I am wrong.

It boils down to which perspective you want to look.

Morally = Wrong.

Biologically = Questionable.

To few brothers who say to change host seat or be in their shoes, it is entirely wrong. This is because the husband dont get enough sex or not at all at home. Then they resort to f**king around. IF the husband dont provide enough sex, then only it is relevant in this case.

Only saying this because the last time i had sex with my wife is 2 years ago. It was like 5 minutes after all that (half an hour at least) foreplay. All types of excuses you can find in the book, she had already used them all. And the final ultimatum to me is that she is having a phobia of sex. No, she was not raped or anything of that sort. She wont see a councillor. She wont do anything about it. and "No,there is nothing you (the husband) can do to change that."

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by KLHungry

Only saying this because the last time i had sex with my wife is 2 years ago. It was like 5 minutes after all that (half an hour at least) foreplay. All types of excuses you can find in the book, she had already used them all. And the final ultimatum to me is that she is having a phobia of sex. No, she was not raped or anything of that sort. She wont see a councillor. She wont do anything about it. and "No,there is nothing you (the husband) can do to change that."

Understandable. But still wrong.
As a man, I sympathize. I might fuck around if I were in your shoes. But there is no running away from the fact that it is still the wrong thing to do.

But so what?

Must everything we do be right? Nobody can be right all the time what....
If what you are doing is wrong, then so be it. Everybody happy can already, right?

whatever it is, when 'eat' outside, be prepare for the worst to happen.

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by newbadass

Understandable. But still wrong.
As a man, I sympathize. I might fuck around if I were in your shoes. But there is no running away from the fact that it is still the wrong thing to do.

But so what?

Must everything we do be right? Nobody can be right all the time what.... If what you are doing is wrong, then so be it. Everybody happy can already, right?

Ooi... You already posted 3 lengthy posts. It's tiger time.

[ct75]

Marriage is not about just sex contrary to what many here may say. Those who question my qualifications, i was a cheongster and have gone there done that and done almost everything and tried every kind. In short a horny bastard.

But when it comes to a proper real relationship be it a bf gf or a marriage that has love and feelings involved. It's more than about sex.... Its about feelings, committement, trust and the general togetherness between two people.

Sometimes we ask ourselves how do we get the sex we want? By simply pulling her pants off and ramming it in? Or through foreplay and all.... actually that's where we are all so wrong.... we are looking at the wrong place....

Good sex with a girl that you love starts right from the moment you wake up in bed, shower, have breakfast all the way to the night.... or maybe if a more demanding one till the weekend.

What do I mean? She expects to be respected, loved and cherished and then when she is satisfied, she will give everything she has to you. But fail to do that.... you will get the Im tired... cos how do you allow a man that you have negative feelings or no feelings for to touch you? Girls are different from guys, they are more emotional rather than physical.....

Sex.... we can get it anyway just by paying for it.... but seriously are you happy with that at the end of the day? Why do we see posts about people who say about WLs who give that "GF feeling" and sure return to fuck? Besides u are risking picking up something..... its really a dangerous playground out there.....

I wouldnt say if its right or wrong to eat out... but just think about what I said before doing so....

[Marlborolgt]

Bro...
I think i face the same problem with u..but not so jia luck lar..
When she is my:

GF- We F**K almost everyday..
Real Steady- Once or twice a week (after some small gifts and lots of foreplay by me)

Wife- Not yet married, but i presume things will get worst..

I'm also confuse of wheather is it alright to F around even now when we r not married..My Mind say NO! only commercial sex yes..My heart wants to cheong out to compete with All SBF bros and becomes:
SBF SuperIdol..hahaha

[obelisk]

Originally Posted by Marlborolgt

My heart wants to cheong out to compete with All SBF bros and becomes:
SBF SuperIdol..

so wad will u get when u become SBF SuperIdol??
a contract from GL CAT40 houses that allows u to fuck as and when u wan???
or sponsorship for every bonk??? <--- i wan this one