Happily Married Man/Ladies Not Surfing SBF

[urgg]

Originally Posted by PPGirl

hmm not necessary facebk can track.. unless anyhow give facebk email/acct to others.
my facebk only for personal frds n not from ppl i know from forum or elsewhere.
Back to topic. Thou we are not married but we known each other thru d outings here

"Why you should join this forum: Unlike facebook and twitter where you can be tracked down and exposed, this forum respects your anonymity like no other. As long as you do not reveal your identity, nobody knows who you really are." <<< I copy this under 'Notices' haha..

Oh.. know each other during outing organise in SBF, good to hear that. Anymore couples who know each other in SBF?

[porscheclub]

Married couple surfing here

She enjoys the stories section & porn so as long as I keep the little birdie to her exclusively, she closes one eye

[IamNinjaTurtle]

Great Thread!

[shazai]

Agreed with all the bros here saying man is still man always looking for new excitement regardless happily married anot

[jng1103]

Life can be dull without a little bit of 'fun'

[MoJoe313]

Originally Posted by urgg

My thots..

Happily married criteria,

-Have a cute, lovable, caring, understanding, sexy wife
-Adorable kids
-Financially incline
-No wife & in-law problem
-LAST BUT NOT LEAST, SURF SBF AND......

Anyone qualify?

Actually, I do. I dated her for 10 years. Married her for 15 years. Amazingly, she gets prettier, hotter and sexier every year (check my posts). Still got young man approach her for her number. We have many adorable kids. Financially ok. No in law issues. I will add one more criteria - she is a capable career woman too.

We text each other 10 to 15 times a day with occasional love messages. Date every week. Still giggle and laugh at each other daily. Exercise by holding hands to brisk walk. I know it sounds bizarre. Very happily married. Yet I surf SBF.

Sex is to be enjoyed with one's spouse (surprise?). I see nothing wrong with surfing this forum to check market situation or discuss sex matters. I may view nudity or porno - I am a man after all but I have no interest in cheating on her or ruining my beautiful family.

[urgg]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Actually, I do. I dated her for 10 years. Married her for 15 years. Amazingly, she gets prettier, hotter and sexier every year (check my posts). Still got young man approach her for her number. We have many adorable kids. Financially ok. No in law issues. I will add one more criteria - she is a capable career woman too.

We text each other 10 to 15 times a day with occasional love messages. Date every week. Still giggle and laugh at each other daily. Exercise by holding hands to brisk walk. I know it sounds bizarre. Very happily married. Yet I surf SBF.

Sex is to be enjoyed with one's spouse (surprise?). I see nothing wrong with surfing this forum to check market situation or discuss sex matters. I may view nudity or porno - I am a man after all but I have no interest in cheating on her or ruining my beautiful family.

Bro, you the man!

Happy 2015 to all! Those married, wish u a woonderful 2015 with ur family! those not married, screw more and think wisely b4 u decide to settle down!

[MdmVodka]

Originally Posted by urgg

Read the thread from bro parrot "Do you regret marrying?"

Saw a post by bro lanpar "one must be mindful that the general populace out there do not surf sammyboysexforum but are happily married and they could possibly form the great majority who have no chance to state their views in this forum."

I myself is not a happy man after marriage. Reasons should be 99.99% similar to all the bros out there who are not not happy in their marriage also.

Any happily married out there who is surfing SBF? Share your views!

I am pretty sure my husband and me are both happily married.

Well, let's just put it this way... Even if you have a wife who is the world's hottest and prettiest woman, you will still stray and want others


It's just.... human's nature.

[MoJoe313]

Thanks Bro Urgg.

Not sure if I can agree with Sis MdmVodka. Not all men stray. I don't.

Lets be practical about some things. Don't mind me sharing. Every marriage needs work. I don't get to my state by being "lucky". There are some strategies to it.

For example, on MdmVodka's point on straying, I never put myself in a situation where I am alone one on one with a pretty girl. I see many foolish married men lapping up any opportunity to do it. To feel good, to boost his ego, to score.....etc. When romance happens with the girl, he goes down that slippery road of messing up his marriage. I have never heard of an affair that ends well. It takes wisdom to avoid it altogether. So I never lunch alone with a young pretty colleague or drink alone with a woman who is going through a rough patch. Find someone else's shoulders, not mine.

Other concepts include NEVER put money above relationship. Many couples make this mistake of quarrelling over money. Buy too big a house lah, spend their life slogging to repay mortgage lah, always money not enough lah, always quarrelling over money till see each other also sian. Silly, if you asked me.

Then, there are kids issue. You really can't expect your wife to handle 3 kids everyday and at the end of her day, to be enthusiastic about having sex with you, can you? I step in often to help handle the kids AND BECAUSE I am a man, after handling the kids, I will still find it within myself to be interested in sex LoL. The point being, help her out with the kids. You two are in it together.

Which brings me to my next point. Men and women are built differently. Men are built to need sex. I have a male rabbit. All he wants to do is to hump the female rabbit. He was created such. So are we men. Women, on the other hand are built to need love. Once you and your partner understand this concept, managing your marriage should not be too difficult.

[urgg]

Originally Posted by MdmVodka

I am pretty sure my husband and me are both happily married.

Well, let's just put it this way... Even if you have a wife who is the world's hottest and prettiest woman, you will still stray and want others


It's just.... human's nature.

Mdm, Im pretty sure ur happily married and having great sex life too!
I personally duno u but i have read your threads and posting.. seems like u and hubby have great mutual understanding..

Hope that ur relationship stay this way throughout! Cheers!

P/S: Go and post more pics.. many guys waiting haha

[urgg]

Sometimes unhappy marriage is not always due to sex issue.. there are so many problems! maybe it only apply to me.. however, i have learn to close one eye, open one eye.. dun wanna make things too difficult for myself..

[Stud00]

Once upon a time, i was happily married/"attached".. now i am single..so i m back in here..

[urgg]

Originally Posted by Stud00

Once upon a time, i was happily married/"attached".. now i am single..so i m back in here..

Bro, should i congrats u or...?? Anyway welcome back!

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Actually, I do. I dated her for 10 years. Married her for 15 years. Amazingly, she gets prettier, hotter and sexier every year (check my posts). Still got young man approach her for her number. We have many adorable kids. Financially ok. No in law issues. I will add one more criteria - she is a capable career woman too.

We text each other 10 to 15 times a day with occasional love messages. Date every week. Still giggle and laugh at each other daily. Exercise by holding hands to brisk walk. I know it sounds bizarre. Very happily married. Yet I surf SBF.

Sex is to be enjoyed with one's spouse (surprise?). I see nothing wrong with surfing this forum to check market situation or discuss sex matters. I may view nudity or porno - I am a man after all but I have no interest in cheating on her or ruining my beautiful family.

Originally Posted by MoJoe313

Thanks Bro Urgg.

Not sure if I can agree with Sis MdmVodka. Not all men stray. I don't.

Lets be practical about some things. Don't mind me sharing. Every marriage needs work. I don't get to my state by being "lucky". There are some strategies to it.

For example, on MdmVodka's point on straying, I never put myself in a situation where I am alone one on one with a pretty girl. I see many foolish married men lapping up any opportunity to do it. To feel good, to boost his ego, to score.....etc. When romance happens with the girl, he goes down that slippery road of messing up his marriage. I have never heard of an affair that ends well. It takes wisdom to avoid it altogether. So I never lunch alone with a young pretty colleague or drink alone with a woman who is going through a rough patch. Find someone else's shoulders, not mine.

Other concepts include NEVER put money above relationship. Many couples make this mistake of quarrelling over money. Buy too big a house lah, spend their life slogging to repay mortgage lah, always money not enough lah, always quarrelling over money till see each other also sian. Silly, if you asked me.

Then, there are kids issue. You really can't expect your wife to handle 3 kids everyday and at the end of her day, to be enthusiastic about having sex with you, can you? I step in often to help handle the kids AND BECAUSE I am a man, after handling the kids, I will still find it within myself to be interested in sex LoL. The point being, help her out with the kids. You two are in it together.

Which brings me to my next point. Men and women are built differently. Men are built to need sex. I have a male rabbit. All he wants to do is to hump the female rabbit. He was created such. So are we men. Women, on the other hand are built to need love. Once you and your partner understand this concept, managing your marriage should not be too difficult.

U r one the luckiest man bro treasure it n let it stay n grow

[MoJoe313]

Thanks bro loneyheart. I will treasure it.