Regret raising son of wife's Ex.. How?

[hamsapkwai]

Some things are irreversible. You cant turn the clock back.

The child was already there in the original offer package, he didnt just materialize out of nowhere a la David Copperfield.

In life one has got to go into any commitment with eyes wide open. Once in you have to live with what you bought yourself into.

Tell your brother to grow up.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by joscklee

One of my bro married a PRC (divorcee with 7yo son) last year, now wife on LTVP+ and son on student pass.

Problems now:
1. the more look at this son, the more my bro thought how his wife got f++k thousands times by ex...
2. taking over wife's ex father duty (which some people scolded my bro stupid)

tell your bro to grow up.

[jj_jj]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

Some things are irreversible. You cant turn the clock back.

The child was already there in the original offer package, he didnt just materialize out of nowhere a la David Copperfield.

In life one has got to go into any commitment with eyes wide open. Once in you have to live with what you bought yourself into.

Tell your brother to grow up.

TS's bro likely didn't think hard enough abt this or he went in eyes wide shut or the great sex offered clouded his judgement.
A man has to live w/ his mistakes, sometimes forever.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

TS's friend was awared of the package deal. So Deal or No Deal and he made a choice to done deal.

I only pity those who was not told beforehand and only know of the package after their marriage I strongly believe there are many such cases

There is always a risk when you help to raise a step son/daughter and it is quite difficult to forget that he/she is not your biological child. Problems will surface when you have your own child. So please don't jump in to package deal if one do not have a big stomach and heart

[vietnam80]

Originally Posted by joscklee

One of my bro married a PRC (divorcee with 7yo son) last year, now wife on LTVP+ and son on student pass.

Problems now:
1. the more look at this son, the more my bro thought how his wife got f++k thousands times by ex...
2. taking over wife's ex father duty (which some people scolded my bro stupid)
3. wife and son spoilt and bad tempered
4. financially overstressed
5. now wife pregnant (hopefully is my bro's), still some worry on that

Any bro out there has solution to at least 'get rid' of wife's ex son?

bro, in the 1st place, ur friend was aware of the prescence of the 7yr old son, n since he decided to marry the prc, he shouldn't have thought of the some of the negative issues above-mentioned loh. he would have prepared himself n have the mentality that he is going to marry the prc, feed his son. unless now, ur friend has met another gal, no feelings for the prc and has enough n so he is deciding to leave her now loh, then i have nothing more to say liao

[adonis]

Your brother ought to be on high alert when his PRC wife attains S'pore PR status. Her true colours might emerge. He ought to transfer his assets n money to some one else he trusts. He ought to find out if his PRC wife is still seeing her exhusband in PRC. Get evidence of this. Good luck to your brother.

[<<totally>>]

I think there is a universal solution to whatever problems that your friend has. Tell your friend to climb onto the bed while the prc wife is there with her legs spreading wide open. Ask him whether the question he had in mind still exist.

Lolz. Do you know why your brother is able to think now? You may be surprised but that was what I discovered. Pregnant now, cannot keep the blood flow to the small head. Thus the big head has enough blood to see things in a slightly better vision.

[merlinlion3]

Get evidence also boh yong. As long as TS bro and wife ever stayed here for 6 months, then she is covered under Woman's Charter. Even with evidence of adultery, TS bro have to give his assets, pay the char boh maintenance and support her son until 18.

Check the Woman Charter sticky if u don't believe.

[joscklee]

Originally Posted by adonis

Your brother ought to be on high alert when his PRC wife attains S'pore PR status. Her true colours might emerge. He ought to transfer his assets n money to some one else he trusts. He ought to find out if his PRC wife is still seeing her exhusband in PRC. Get evidence of this. Good luck to your brother.

Many thanks to contributions from all Bros!

This part sounds scary.. my bro thinking going back wife's hometown with wife, wife ex's son and own kid (hopefully) sometime next year. Wife's ex husband will do something to my friend due jealousy, or worst wife and her ex conspire..

Let's say my bro can lun with them, any idea what is the chances of applying PR for wife ex's son?

Bro's wife actually is masseuse at Jalan Besar last time, kena caught and sent back (surprisingly can enter Sin now) Any idea her chance of getting PR?

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by joscklee

....my bro thinking going back wife's hometown with wife, wife ex's son and own kid (hopefully) sometime next year. Wife's ex husband will do something to my friend due jealousy, or worst wife and her ex conspire..

Let's say my bro can lun with them, any idea what is the chances of applying PR for wife ex's son?

Bro's wife actually is masseuse at Jalan Besar last time, kena caught and sent back (surprisingly can enter Sin now) Any idea her chance of getting PR?

Your friend like weather
One moment this and next that.
Sekali.... applied PR liao, come back here and seek: Re: Regret raising son of wife's Ex and applying PR for wife.. How x 2 ?
Better you sit down with him, take out a piece of paper and brainstorm cos he like a cruise liner passenger - At the bow scare of pirates and abaft scare of ghosts

[TritonR]

TS bro have to give his assets, pay the char boh maintenance and support her son until 18.


Correction, Ts need to support the boy till he turns 21

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by joscklee

Many thanks to contributions from all Bros!

This part sounds scary.. my bro thinking going back wife's hometown with wife, wife ex's son and own kid (hopefully) sometime next year. Wife's ex husband will do something to my friend due jealousy, or worst wife and her ex conspire..

Let's say my bro can lun with them, any idea what is the chances of applying PR for wife ex's son?

Bro's wife actually is masseuse at Jalan Besar last time, kena caught and sent back (surprisingly can enter Sin now) Any idea her chance of getting PR?

Wahaha..........playing with singapore fingerprint security system. More boom raids on the way... Ask him protect himself first cause he know nothing of the shit that is coming.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by joscklee

One of my bro married a PRC (divorcee with 7yo son) last year, now wife on LTVP+ and son on student pass.

Problems now:
1. the more look at this son, the more my bro thought how his wife got f++k thousands times by ex...
2. taking over wife's ex father duty (which some people scolded my bro stupid)
3. wife and son spoilt and bad tempered
4. financially overstressed
5. now wife pregnant (hopefully is my bro's), still some worry on that

Any bro out there has solution to at least 'get rid' of wife's ex son?

1. he married the woman out of free will
if he think of wife kenna fucked by ex, then dont marry, he is not forced to
Now he also fucked her then complain that she was fucked before, is BS
Furthermore she is FL/WL, she not only kenna fucked by ex, kenna fucked by many other people, see, suck, touch many LJs.

2. Same as point 1, willing buyer, willing seller, caveat emptor

3. Be a father husband and do what he needs to do, lead the family

4. Same for everyone in singapore

5. One bro said DNA, if he feel the wife so loose, then divorce, when he married her was she loose?

Seperate mother from son is inhuman statement because he only want the
pussy but not what came out of it is rubbish.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by joscklee

One of my bro married a PRC (divorcee with 7yo son) last year, now wife on LTVP+ and son on student pass.

Problems now:
1. the more look at this son, the more my bro thought how his wife got f++k thousands times by ex...
2. taking over wife's ex father duty (which some people scolded my bro stupid)
3. wife and son spoilt and bad tempered
4. financially overstressed
5. now wife pregnant (hopefully is my bro's), still some worry on that

Any bro out there has solution to at least 'get rid' of wife's ex son?

1. he married the woman out of free will
if he think of wife kenna fucked by ex, then dont marry, he is not forced to
Now he also fucked her then complain that she was fucked before, is BS
Since she is massage girl, she not only kenna fucked by ex, she suck, fuck, let many stranger suck, fuck, for money. I date one FL/WL as FB before. Dont ever believe they dont do everything for a price. Claim HJ/BJ only with clothes, most time is BS.

2. Same as point 1, willing buyer, willing seller, caveat emptor

3. Be a father husband and do what he needs to do, lead the family

4. Same for everyone in singapore

5. One bro said DNA, if he feel the wife so loose, then divorce, when he married her was she loose?

Seperate mother from son is inhuman statement because he only want the pussy but not what came out of it is rubbish. This deal is 1+1, no misrepresentation

He bought knowing what he buy

[Iemanishere]

Yes, it is sometimes sad to this things happening.. To the prc lady having a singapore man to help bring up a son or dauther is like a hitting the jackpot.. But sometimes we must not let our feeling get too much of us.. And that is what the singapore man is (good hearted) but we must all learn how to use that to good use..

Bro.. We behind you ... Cheers and all the best...

Dont think of getting raid of the son.. The man upstairs will bless him..