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[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by queey

Haha thanks boss but don't assume she is a whore pls like you always said don't assume you are a guy too

I don't use assumptions. I use statistics.

[sammyboyfor]

Thailandforum.com • View topic - My Thai girlfriend cheated on me - please advise!!

Dear friends,

I have just learned that my Thai girlfriend cheated on me - and she is doing this since 6 months!!! She has treated me like an idiot. I met her one year ago during my holidays in Koh Samui and I thought it was love at first sight...how stupid I am. I have visited her four times since then and spent a whole lot of money to see her, to call her every day and so on. Now this other guy sent me an email (dont know where he got my email from) telling me I should step back.

What can I do? Shall I fight for her or just give up and let her go?? In fact I can't just give up, because I love her so much and wanted to marry her later this year....please help....please tell me what you think about this....

Thanks
Hugh

[sammyboyfor]

My best friends thai girlfriend is cheating on him


Cheating Thai Girlfriend

What to do when you find out your best friends Thai girlfriend is cheating on him. This is a very difficult question to answer. Before we get answer this difficult question lets look at the relationship your friend has with his girlfriend.
Different types of relationship with a Thai girlfriend
Holiday girlfriend

He arrives in Pattaya twice a year for a two week holiday, meets his girlfriend at one of the many beer bars, shares his holiday with his girlfriend at the end of the holiday returns home leaving the girlfriend in Pattaya. When he arrives home he calls his Thai girlfriend every week and emails her, dosent help support her by sending money and has no intentions of her visiting him in his home country.
Paid Thai Holiday girlfriend

He holidays as above, but when returns home, sends money to help support his Thai girlfriend and her family

In the above two situations, the real question is what type of relationship is it? No matter how you look at it, it is a holiday romance. He is even aware she is still at the bar and in Pattaya. When he returns home, she will continue to have fun and meet people in Pattaya and she will be looking for more men to give her money and finally her financial independence.

He holidays in Pattaya, stays in a hotel or in her apartment or his apartment while on holiday. Helps her with money and keeps in constant touch with her when at home. He has applied for or is planning on applying for a visa for her to travel to see him in his country. She no longer works in a Bar or Go Go bar.

The above situation is much more of a relationship and he would expect her to behave more like a Thai girlfriend.
Stories about the Thai bar girls

Every man than visits Thailand has heard the stories about the Thai bar girls and the tricks they play. 90% of these men, when in a relationship really believe that their Thai girlfriend is different. That she loves him and it is true love. No matter what you tell him about the Thai girlfriend, the chances are he will not believe you, will not wont to hear it and will tell the girlfriend what you have said.
Cheating Thai Girlfriend

There are many by standers in Thailand that watch their friends being made fools of, but are tired of being the bringer of bad news and being punished because of it.

The man being cheated on will not like what you have to say, and the chances are you could lose him as a friend, so tread carefully. No matter how he would react to the same news about a western girlfriend, he will react different to the news about a Thai girlfriend. Believe me I have seen this many times, and lost drinking friends over it.

A real true friend will listen to what you have to say , perhaps the problem in Thailand is -it is difficult to find a true friend but easy to find a Thai girlfriend.

[sammyboyfor]

Cheating Thai Girlfriends!

Thai Girlfriend…

Is your Thai Girlfriend Cheating on You?

Thai Girlfriend...

As soon as I arrived in Thailand, I came across her. The real treasure, the one I had been waiting for; the one who could see my real qualities. She was young, charming and interested in my welfare. She showed me love like I had never experienced before.

It has happened. You’re hooked and the reel is spinning.

You love her, and you are sure that she loves you. She has told you and even demonstrated to you many times during your short stay in Thailand.

Unfortunately, the chosen one, the love of your life may very well be very different from who you think she is.

Something is for sure: If you have met her in a beer bar, go-go or a massage parlor, it is more likely that despite her immature behavior and her sincere responses that deeply touch you, she is in fact an awesome manipulator.

She will know how to string you along to pity her and to make you feel guilty, until you feel miserable.

Move you to pity her:

When she starts to talk about her financial problems (or those of her family) – her mother or father being sick in Isaan; the son or the brother who has to go to school in Bangkok; the roof of her parents’ house that is leaking and need to be fixed…. Some time ago, the best excuse was the sick buffalo….

Make you feel guilty:

Asking you to give her this money in a devious way. Claiming that if you cannot help her, she will either have to return working in Pattaya (or where you met her), or she will have to find another farang. And placing the responsibility for all of these bills on you.

Some people call it ‘The Game’. And it is played in many various ways with the rules continuously changing, so that she will be the only one to know what they are.

In most cases, you will help her to come out of ‘hell’. Hell for you, but for her it’s often a paradise together with a gold mine. She will promise to you that she will stay in her room or even in her family home in Kon Khaen (Isaan), waiting for your calls or your SMS’s while watching TV. Once this affirmation has made its way into your brain, and together with all the evidence of her love for you during your stay, you will be able to return home, sad and depressed but confident that you have found, the right girl for you.

Unfortunately, for you, this word, she has already promised it to one or two other farangs who were both as gullible and as madly in love with her as you are.

She will then ask you to send money to help her, calling on your pity, as we said before (the motives given here are only examples, but there are many more variations…). You will send money happily on her first requests (like the other two, three or four farang, and each of you will do this at the same time, and this will make her a good income to add to her regular job).

Then there will come the time when doubt and suspicion pop up between the two of you. Two or three phone calls unanswered, or a strange noise (for a room or a home in the country…) in the background; like the din of Thai disco or the noise of a go-go. Or another surprise, the “brother” who answers the phone.

And here comes the time when you will feel guilty. If you can’t or don’t want to pay anymore, the blackmail will start. It will be because of you (because you don’t give her ‘the little money’ she asks you for – all farang are so rich!) if she has to return to work in ‘hell’ with all those bad farang who will abuse her. And if it is not enough she will tell you that she will be forced to find a (rich) farang who truly loves her – and her family.

But in that case, you will have already spent a lot of money and your heart will be wounded. You will have spent many sleepless nights, and your telephone bills will have jumped sky high.

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We have the skills and facilities to investigate (fidelity checks – Background Checks – Surveillance) and we are able to quickly ascertain if she is sticking to her word or if she has gone back to work, or even if she is lying to you in any other way.

We will be able to tell you if you are the sole farang in her live or if there are others.

Our “Private Eyes” will then be able to help you avoid all the heartaches, the expenses, and this bad taste that stays after the strange feeling of having been taken for a ride (one more).

Nobody wishes to take place in a game where the dice are loaded, so take action right now and get in touch with us.

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[sammyboyfor]

From Vietnam Veteran to Cuckolded Husband of a Cheating Thai Wife
By Martin Grant

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Thai Marriage Reality

"Joe's Story"

Joe ( this is not his real name) is a big brawny Vietnam Vet. I met him in the park where I go to exercise. Joe is rather loud, politically he is way to the right of Attila the Hun and speaks his mind quite forcefully. In fact he actually got himself thrown out of Thailand for insulting the King. When I tell you that a well known Thai TV personality was actually jailed for publicly referring to the King as " The Skipper", a reference to the Monarchs well known love of sailing, you will appreciate just how heinous Joe's crime was.

Joe receives an invalidity pension related to his time in the military because of the severity of his disability he is eligible for the maximum amount. I have no idea what the disability is he did not offer the information and I did not ask. His invalidity pension when combined with his social security entitlement means that Joe is a relatively wealthy man in Thailand.

Joe has been married to his Thai wife for just over five years. When he met her in Bangkok she told him that she worked in a factory. It took Joe three years to figure out that his wife actually worked in the sex industry. Now I do not think Joe is a stupid man but sometimes people are willing to let themselves be deluded, which is I think what happened in this instance.

Joe lives in an apartment block where his wife spends little time. He is convinced that she has a Thai boyfriend and that when she says she is going to get a paper and disappears for three hours she is in fact visiting her boyfriend. By his estimate she has had $100,000 of his money in the time they have been together, or more accurately not been together. Most of this money will have gone to her Family who live in Rural Issan.

"Why do you put up with it I asked him?" Joe thought about this for a while before he replied. " Because I still cannot believe that anyone can be this stupid, I cannot believe how stupid I have been but she gives a whole new meaning to the word stupid!!". Joe went on to tell me that he has had numerous Thai Women who are Married to American ex servicemen or are their widows explain to his Wife just how much money she will receive for the rest of her life when he dies.

In point of fact according to Joe there can often be a fairly lengthy delay from the time of her partners death up until his widow starts to collect the above mentioned pension. Joe had even opened a bank account in his wife's name where he had deposited 200,000 Baht to tide her over after he died. "When I checked this account Joe said ruefully she had emptied it!"

I explained my take on this behaviour as being absolutely typical of Thai thinking promises of wealth in the future cut little ice, it is what can be obtained today that matters. While agreeing with me up to a point Joe still professed his utter bemusement at the total lack of foresight or common sense which were indicated by his Wife's attitude.

Joe has not parted with his $100,000 quietly. By his estimate his Wife and he have been thrown out of most apartment buildings in Town because of the disturbance caused to the other residents by the severity and frequency of their quarrels over money. I imagine that what happens is that eventually his wife just wears him down to the point where he capitulates just to get some peace!! No one should underestimate the persistence of a greedy Thai woman in pursuit of a Baht!!

Joe's Wife has two teenage sons, as his stepchildren they are also eligible for fairly generous financial assistance from Uncle Sam. Rather sadly Joe told me that what he had started out wanting to do was to was actually help somebody less fortunate than himself. Instead he has wound up with a Wife who helps herself to his money on an ongoing basis, in-laws who spend that money as quickly as his wife can Filch it. And two step sons who sit around with the rest of the Family avoiding any type of work at all costs.

Joe has rather an interesting take on the workings of this particular Family. While it has always been my understanding that Thai families are so close knit because of the incredibly strong bonds which exist within the group. Joe believes that the family who are essentially bringing up his stepchildren are in fact using them rather like hostages. And that while they have charge of the children Joe's wife will continue to bring home the bacon!!

I think that Joe's theory as explained above is worthy of consideration. When you consider that the vast majority of Thai Women will have had at least one child at a very young age. While the mothers often move away to earn a living in the sex industry or whatever her offspring will inevitably be raised by the family. The fact that her parents have total control over her children may indeed act as a fairly powerful spur in the daughters willingness to obtain money from her hapless Western man!!

Joe told me that he has recently confronted the family. On a visit to the village he shouted at them (in English) in front of all their neighbours that they had seen their last Baht from him. The cause of Joe's anger was the appearance of a shiny new tractor which they had bought to harvest the rice. The explanation which is apparently always offered for the appearance of goods which have obviously cost a lot of money is that the Family have sold some land!! Just how much land do they have raged Joe, The truth is I paid for that tractor and every other dam thing they have!!!

What I found saddening about Joe,s story was that in spite of his volatility and the machinations of his wife he obviously still cares for her. " No one gives a dam about her," he said, "not her family, not Buddha, nobody!" When I left him Joe was talking about returning to live in America. I could not help feeling that here was a man who whilst obviously the author of his own misfortunes was more sinned against than sinning.

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[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by sub2lady

S$10 for 100+ minute talking time

What you actually mean is $10 for wasting 100+ minutes of your life.

[RealEstateGuy]

Sam, assuming these case studies are not fictional, how do the apply to Viet and PRC girls?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Sam, assuming these case studies are not fictional, how do the apply to Viet and PRC girls?

It makes no difference. As long as there is a wide disparity between the social, educational and economic status of the female and the male, alarm bells should be ringing. Seeking out cheap sex in poor countries in order to get value for money is one thing. Wanting to marry the providers is another ballgame altogether. It's just dumb.

For a successful union, men should seek out mates who move in similar socio economic circles. Whores from underdeveloped countries don't fall into this category.

[The_Chef]

Boss, that's alot of statistics....

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by The_Chef

Boss, that's alot of statistics....

No it isn't. It's merely the tip of the iceberg.

For every story that makes it to the internet, there are hundreds of thousands of similar stories that never see the light of day.

[dyelook]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

No it isn't. It's merely the tip of the iceberg.

For every story that makes it to the internet, there are hundreds of thousands of similar stories that never see the light of day.

yes...especially the happy ending ones

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by dyelook

yes...especially the happy ending ones

You've probably been reading too many Mills and Boone romances. Very few marriages have happy endings. When it comes to marrying whores, the odds are even worse.

[The_Chef]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You've probably been reading too many Mills and Boone romances. Very few marriages have happy endings. When it comes to marrying whores, the odds are even worse.

Be optismistic, not pessimistic.

For every sad ending, there are also many happy endings.
IF marriages are meant to end in divorce, why are there more marriages than divorces?

[sub2lady]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Hi bro,
Back to the subject, the calling card I use, gives me 16 hours at $8. The card name is Arz-E-pakistan. Give it a try.

My humble two cents.

Thanks for sharing bro, think that is the cheapest calling card in the market, how abt the quality ?

[RealEstateGuy]

Sam, then you are saying in SG society their is no successful union between rich and poor? Not sure I buy that.