Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by hitman69

N u think all the guys are like singapore guys so good to them meh!??

SG guys very good meh???

[hitman69]

Originally Posted by naemlo

SG guys very good meh???

香港人无情，台湾人无耻，新加坡男人善良纯情有同情心

[hitman69]

we alway go geylang n joo chiat do charity, no good meh.

[Sha_Gua75]

Been Busy These Few Weeks But.........
Tmr Shall Be My Vietnam Customary Marriage In HCMC

Finally The Busy Preparation Of Marriage Is Going To Be Over Soon

ps: to bros who going to tell me that marriage is the start of trouble...keep to yourself...everyone know that

[jnudes]

it's a pity that some singaporeans particularly the low income earner are rejected by local singaporean girls. They may consider Malaysians instead. Much nearer and easier to understand one another.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jnudes

it's a pity that some singaporeans particularly the low income earner are rejected by local singaporean girls. They may consider Malaysians instead. Much nearer and easier to understand one another.

hmmm.. should i take your statement positively or negatively?

Not all singaporean man who marry Vietnamese gals comes from low-income group. There's a terrible misconception that as long as you marry a vietnamese gal, you have bought her from the matchmaking agency. This is terribly wrong. There are many Vietnamese spouse in Singapore that are married to high income and highly educated singaporean man. I have several real life cases.

(1) Vietnamese lady married to Singaporean man. Singaporean man's family the largest shareholder of regional logistics company. Singaporean man educated to Masters level in Australia. Now GM of the logisitcs company, earning in excess of S$250,000 per annum. Stays in Condo, drives new Merc SUV, 3.5L

(2) Vietnamese lady married to Singaporean man. Singaporean man Doctorate in Finance from top UK University, now businessman plying the region. Earn in excess S$150,000 per annum. Drives new 3.2 L SUV.

(3) Vietnamese lady married to Singaporean man. Singaporean man engineer in MNC. Degree holder. Earns a normal salary of around S$60,000 per annum. Vietnamese wife working in private school's marketing, earning around S$25,000 per annum. Stays in 4 room flat and drives a 3 year old 1.6L sedan.


The main thing is that these couples are happily married. Although there are also many vietnamese ladies married to poor singaporean chaps, but we shouldn't just equate Singaporean man with vietnamese wife as `poor and uneducated'

And these couples met somewhere by themselves and is no way linked to matchmaking agencies. Times have changed, its not the singaporean man kanna rejected by singaporean ladies, but its the other way round now. Many Singaporean man have rejected the idea of marrying local singaporean gals after some bad experiences with them.

[SingViet]

GARANG WOMEN
Mum of 3 kicks one woman and breaks another's nose with beer mug in pub brawl

SO VICIOUS, SO THIRSTY FOR REVENGE
SHE bashed a woman's face with a beer mug at a pub, breaking her nose.
By Tay Shi'an

23 March 2008
SHE bashed a woman's face with a beer mug at a pub, breaking her nose.

But that wasn't enough for this Vietnamese mother of three.

Lam Thi Tuyet Hang, 34, also cornered another woman with several others and kicked her repeatedly.

The injuries 'Slam Lam' caused were so serious that district judge Shaiffudin Saruwan described the attack as 'vicious' and 'deliberate'.

He jailed the Vietnamese woman for 12 months for the pub violence.

Lam, who is married to a Chinese Singaporean, has been living in Singapore since 2003.

She is now out on bail, pending an appeal.

According to court papers, the attack happened in October 2005 at about 11pm at a pub along Guillemard Road.

Lam and her victims, Ms Alice Heing Ty, the assistant manager of the pub, and Ms Tran Thi Be Tu, a Vietnamese national, were there to attend separate birthday parties.

Sometime during the night, a dispute broke out in the crowded pub.

Lam and Ms Tran got into a heated argument outside the toilet, according to pub owner Sam Lee.

Lam scolded the victim and pointed her finger at her forehead. When Ms Tran pushed her finger away, the fight started.

Even when Ms Tran tried to run away, Lam and several other people in the pub pursued her. As she fled, she kept screaming 'people want to beat me' in Vietnamese.

When she slipped and fell, she was kicked in the leg, back and head by her attackers.

Mr Lee, who witnessed the fight, said he also saw one of the assailants throw a chair at Ms Tran.

With the help of Ms Heing and a customer, they then tried to break up the fight.

That's when the accused used a beer mug and hit Ms Heing on the face.

Ms Heing said she was stunned by the attack.

Reeling with pain, the victim fell to the floor with blood on her face.

Despite this, she was hit more than once.

Police officers arrived and stopped Lam as she was trying to leave the scene.

The doctor who tended to Ms Heing said her nose was broken in more than two places, and she was bleeding from the nostril.

She suffered a large bruise and a cut on her nasal bridge, and multiple bruises on her forehead and the back of her head.

Ms Tran suffered light bruising and superficial abrasions over her body.

At the end of the trial, Judge Shaiffudin said he had 'no hesitation' in accepting the prosecution's version, which he felt was more compelling and logical.

He said: 'Together with a coterie of friends, (Lam) had hunted down Tran and then kicked at her when she was defenceless and helpless.

'If not for the intervention of Sam Lee and his pub manager, Tran might have suffered more serious injuries.

RELENTLESS

'Not satisfied, the accused was relentless in her quest for revenge.

'She followed Tran into the pub and when her way was barred by Alice, she deliberately and intentionally attacked Alice with a beer mug twice on her face and head.

'The extent of the injuries suffered by Alice, on the part of her body targeted by the accused, demonstrated the viciousness of the accused’s attacks.'

Lam could have been jailed up to 10 years and fined for voluntarily causing grievous hurt, and jailed up to two years, or fined up to $5,000, or both, for voluntarily causing hurt.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by jnudes

it's a pity that some singaporeans particularly the low income earner are rejected by local singaporean girls. They may consider Malaysians instead. Much nearer and easier to understand one another.

Bro,

if u r low income there is a high chances that the malaysian gals will reject u as well.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Many Singaporean man have rejected the idea of marrying local singaporean gals.

this is very true.

[AlanPHD]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Been Busy These Few Weeks But.........
Tmr Shall Be My Vietnam Customary Marriage In HCMC

Finally The Busy Preparation Of Marriage Is Going To Be Over Soon

ps: to bros who going to tell me that marriage is the start of trouble...keep to yourself...everyone know that

My hearty congrates to you bro Sha_Gua.

[leelite]

dumb question from me. lol. pls bare with me=) bros, i recently went to ktv royce at tajong pagar and met this viet gal. she is those kind acc guest oni. cos i went a few times she always after work go home slp. asked her out for once after her work. me with 2 more friends with her and her 2 friends plus another msian guy(known to be the mamasan's friend). went over to dragon fly but left quite fast cos we din manage to get a table. then after that suggested ecp for some drinking(the msian guys' birthday) then supper at mac.
I think i am sort of liking her more and more now. ofcos she is gorgious and nice but i liked the feeling she gave me. she was always beside me when we are out and also innitate to hold my hands. like a normal couple and stuff.
i dont tink she's doing those to attract me to go back to the ktv or gv her tips cos she didnt asked me to patronise the ktv or any money. she even asked me out with her but i was busy so cant.

bros any feedbacks to me on wad i should do? First time meeting with this kinda situation. thanks man=)

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by leelite

bros any feedbacks to me on wad i should do? First time meeting with this kinda situation. thanks man=)

Live on with your normal life. Takes her as another ger who passed by u.

[hitman69]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Been Busy These Few Weeks But.........
Tmr Shall Be My Vietnam Customary Marriage In HCMC

Finally The Busy Preparation Of Marriage Is Going To Be Over Soon

ps: to bros who going to tell me that marriage is the start of trouble...keep to yourself...everyone know that

All the best.....

在此祝天下有情人终成眷属

不管有多苦

[SingViet]

Bro Hitman, the MTV makes it sounds like marriage is going to be really very very tough

[FL Lover]

It does not matter much if you are just looking for fun at the MTV or pubs.... afterall, you are just another paying cutomer. y bother so much on whether your gal is true to you or just leeching you? As long as you do not overspend or ganna KC until your life is upside down.

But if you are considering her as a life partner... then you need to think twice. Like most gals who are here for a quick buck, their purpose is to get as much $$ as possible. If you want a good viet ger, you might have better luck elsewhere other than JC or Geylang.

Anyway, the purpose of TS is to seek for advice on viet life partners. Guess in every marriage, it still goes down to the same principle. GIVE IN, UNDERSTAND AND TOLERANCE to one another will ensure the marriage works.