How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[polarbearz]

Wah. All the stories that are coming out. Power!

[Scorp888]

Originally Posted by chenzong

Bro Scorp, I won't try to persuade you any further, but I want to quote 2 experiences of friends close to me. And in both cases, the women are not even "night women" but "normal everyday Chinese girls".

The first is an angmo friend of mine who married a Chinese girl. They have been together for 2 years before they got married. It was another 6 months of marriage before she got her Australian PR. She immediately demanded a divorce. My friend was absolutely shattered.

The second is a businessman friend of mine, and he is...listen here...mainland Chinese. They had a kid of together and everything was fine until he lost his business. She left the family without a word and refused any attempts to get in touch with her.

Chinese women can plan and scheme for years to get what they want. And marriage means nothing to them except for a piece of paper and legal rights. I am sure there are exceptions, but if any one of us wants to play the toto and win big, sure, but the stakes are higher than any lottery in this game.

After 8 years in China, I have "seen through" the women here. We Singaporean men are easily skinned alive because the Chinese women know how to make us feel like a man (something our Singaporean women used to have to learn from their Malaysian "sisters"). I married a Singaporean who saw first hand how the Chinese are like and have adapted to preserve and keep her marriage (I am so blessed!).

Please try to keep a level head despite the extreme KC skills the Chinese women have!

Thanks very much again for sharing your thoughts and advice bro chenzong.

I can now totally understand why there's a growing pool of "sheng nu" in China. I've even seen videos of their women proudly singing "no money, no fangzi, no bmw, no marriage!".

It's a money world. What's the future like for their men who don't have $$$? It's a pity. Their women are so much more charming then ours.

[Scorp888]

Originally Posted by lovetogive

Bro Do_You_BJ,

Your friend's story is also what I experienced about PRC gal. They seems so real and relationship can be ongoing for years but we don't seems to believe it's not real when we are in it.

I am in my early 40s and have been chioning KTV for 10 over years. It is the last 3 years that I am stuck to a regular Hubei meimei. In our 1st and 2nd year of relationship, I will bring her to all the KTVs that I go, every 2 -3 nites a week. During the 3rd year of our relationship, I will see her at her house and she will prepare dinner. I still go out chionging but did not bring her along. I did not BY her and she is still working.

Recently her WP expire and she went back. As it is harder to exxtent WP nowsaday, she probably have to wait for another 6months before she can try to apply.

The issue here is that she did not inform me the date she went back and I am unable to ctc her, as she did not leave any china number. I am very sure she is not attached in China but cannot understand why this sudden lost of communication with her. To them 3 years in a relationship is really worth nothing.

In your friend case, she can also abandon the kids, so mine is just a small case.

Will get over this and start chionging hard again. It is just that cannot believe 3 years of relationship meant nothing to them and they can just stop contacting us overnite.

Unbelievable is the only words, as when we are together, they made you believe you are the only one in their heart but this changes overnite.

Hope this will further warn all our Bros to be careful and never be Kc'ed in the nite scene.

bro lovetogive,

Sad to hear that. Can't imagine how with a 3-year love-sex-bf-gf relationship, the woman didn't even bother to discuss with you details of when she's going back, where and what she'll be doing, how to keep in contact, and all that.

At least my CQ gf taught me how to use QQ to stay in touch, and even suggested use video call by QQ to keep phone bills down. That was only for 2 wks when she's away. Now she's back.

[Scorp888]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

From there, u will be able to piece up everything & most importantly, check her phone or install tracker software.
9 out of 10 chances r u will find out something u never wish u did!

bro DO YOU BJ,

I share your skepticism and cynicism. That's why I started asking bro WB about for his advice.

I've also been thinking of putting a tracker software in her iphone, the one that not only gives location but also can copy and send sms msg for me to monitor. Any idea how i can do this?

[fallen.angel]

Originally Posted by Scorp888

bro DO YOU BJ,

I share your skepticism and cynicism. That's why I started asking bro WB about for his advice.

I've also been thinking of putting a tracker software in her iphone, the one that not only gives location but also can copy and send sms msg for me to monitor. Any idea how i can do this?

There’s lots of JB iphone apps that do just that. One of them here:
http://www.mobilespytool.com/

All you need is her JBed iphone. Some apps can even track whatsapp and photos that they take.

but my question is why? Why bother? Why do you want to prove that she’s genuine? Or why do you want to prove that she’s a cheat?

To each his own, and I can’t speak for all guys out there, but I ask myself what am I looking for?

Faithfulness? Honesty? Someone who is not in it for my money? True love?

My answer to all the above question is: “No”. We just want to distress. A temporary getaway from reality. Some little excitement.

I just pay for my good time and sex that I enjoy. End of story.

Enjoy liao, go home take care of your family - that’s my priority. Take care of yourself and your family first.

I just allocate a certain amount of money and a certain amount of time, and then that’s it. Maybe go GL, or some FL, bonk a local or overseas starlet/model once a while. That’s it. Enough ECA for me.

We always blame them for being cheaters. But honestly, we also cheat mah. And they know very well that they will not get our priority in life, they know that every night we go home to our loved ones, they know we will not divorce our wives and marry them. They know we will not give them everything or all (or most of) our money/time. So why do we expect them to give us their priority/faithfulness?

[Scorp888]

bro fallen.angel

Totally agree with you. Family come first. Put aside some budget for ECA, tabao outside to keep ourselves happy. Never bring tabao home.

Well, those women out there are in luck. They no need to feel upset when i go home. They can get priority, because me is single and available.

[fallen.angel]

Originally Posted by Scorp888

bro fallen.angel

Totally agree with you. Family come first. Put aside some budget for ECA, tabao outside to keep ourselves happy. Never bring tabao home.

Well, those women out there are in luck. They no need to feel upset when i go home. They can get priority, because me is single and available.

Well Bro Scorp888, those women are NOT in luck. The fact that you are single and have more free time, they can't earn extra and have to be extra careful not to let you find out their multiple income streams! Believe me, they actually prefer married men!

We guys get KCed and die miserably not because we are inexperienced in the KC game... we fall because we tell ourselves: she's different from the rest.

Maybe you don't believe or is hard for you to accept, but I personally know a PRC woman married to a Singaporean, have 2 boys, one of them already Pri 1, but becos she complains the husband doesn't earn enough so she come out to work. In KTVs, where else? Very soon, she's got so many customers, buying her gifts, sending her to n fro work, sexy messages. She use to sleep in the same room with my gal, on the same bed. When I go to my gal's place for sex, she will wake up and go out to do her stuff, eg., shower, wash clothes, cook lunch for us.

My gal used to have a bf who is single n loaded even when we were together. She dumped him like the plague after a few months. Why? Amongst other undesirable traits Bro WB had repeatedly warned us about, this guy, being single, also with intentions to marry her, had too much free time so he followed and track her. Big no no for these gals.

[coper99]

but my question is why? Why bother? Why do you want to prove that she’s genuine? Or why do you want to prove that she’s a cheat?

well said,!! she should b e 1 who is constantly checkin on u,n not e other way round mate,!

[Scorp888]

Originally Posted by fallen.angel

Well Bro Scorp888, those women are NOT in luck. The fact that you are single and have more free time, they can't earn extra and have to be extra careful not to let you find out their multiple income streams! Believe me, they actually prefer married men!

LOL. Guess you're right, bro fallen.angel. I have more time than most married men now to track her. Now I must find a way to put a tracking software in her iphone so that i'll know even more about her secrets. Must confirm early if this is bao chiak, then can abandon ship before it's too late.

Damn. From all the bros' experiences here, look like every PRC gal is a fking prostitute - regardless of what job they're in - whose only motive is $$$. I am more determined now to find out if this CQ gal is also the same, and if so, dump her quickly. I must find that tracking software real soon.

[besafe]

I think I have mentioned this before, and some brothers actually pmed and cursed me.
Some years back, I met a beautiful prc lady at the ktv. At that time, she told me that she already had a singaporean boyfriend. We had sex practically every week. Eventually, she told me that she is marrying her boyfriend, and so we decided to go our ways. About a year later, I received a call from her and we met for drinks, and then eventually ended in a hotel room. She was by now married and bore him a child. Our secret tryst went on for some months, until I finally put a stop to it. Why? She even wanted to bring her child with her when we are going to makeout. From what I understand from her is that after the marriage, the honeymoon ended. She felt neglected and wanted some companionship and sex.
Why I tell this story? Because, it can or may happened to you too.
So if you re in love with a ktv girl. Please be prepared to keep the romance burning.

Will I sleep with another man's wife again?......... I hope not. I easily succumbed to temptations.

Cheers and good night.

[lovetogive]

Originally Posted by Scorp888

LOL. Guess you're right, bro fallen.angel. I have more time than most married men now to track her. Now I must find a way to put a tracking software in her iphone so that i'll know even more about her secrets. Must confirm early if this is bao chiak, then can abandon ship before it's too late.

Damn. From all the bros' experiences here, look like every PRC gal is a fking prostitute - regardless of what job they're in - whose only motive is $$$. I am more determined now to find out if this CQ gal is also the same, and if so, dump her quickly. I must find that tracking software real soon.

Bro Scorp888,

You can download MobileMe from whatsapp on her phone. Only applicable for iphone. Register an email, as you need to use that to set up this in her iphone. You also load this software onto yr PC, or phone. All you need is enter the email and password you will b able to see her location, if her phone is on.

Be warn, you will the tendency to check on her very frequently and disrupt your own routine. Like many bro had said, feel loved, made love, have fun and stay that way. Let what is to happen, happen naturally.

I fully agreed with what Bro fallen.angel had said, they know we can't give them everything, therefore won't stay committed to us. By deciding to come Singapore, they have made up their mind to better their lives. My PRC GF had told me that marriage to them is just a process of life, they can be happily married, still love another man and also milk money from other man. The luckiest man I presume should be the man they love, but this guy must not be meddling with their businesses, which quite a lot of guys cannot handle this when they are KCed.

Just my 2cents worth of opinion.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Yes, DNa all matched no errors.
Procedure was done by my bro who operates in Mt E Medical Ctr!

If I were ur fren, I would definitely get the kids back to SG.

Originally Posted by chenzong

Nope, returned to China. I may be coming back to Singapore for good. I got the short end of the politics here in China, and have been forced to resign.

Welcome back!

Originally Posted by chenzong

Bro Scorp, I won't try to persuade you any further, but I want to quote 2 experiences of friends close to me. And in both cases, the women are not even "night women" but "normal everyday Chinese girls".........................

Please try to keep a level head despite the extreme KC skills the Chinese women have!

Ths for sharing, bro.

Originally Posted by Scorp888

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I can now totally understand why there's a growing pool of "sheng nu" in China. I've even seen videos of their women proudly singing "no money, no fangzi, no bmw, no marriage!".

It's a money world. What's the future like for their men who don't have $$$? It's a pity. Their women are so much more charming then ours.

I'm not sure the average PRC woman is more attractive than the average SG/M'sian Chinese woman. There r so many more of them...

Originally Posted by fallen.angel

There’s lots of JB iphone apps that do just that. One of them here:
http://www.mobilespytool.com/

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Do QQ video chat w/ her using iphones unexpectedly can also reveal a lot, hahaha.

Originally Posted by fallen.angel

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We guys get KCed and die miserably not because we are inexperienced in the KC game... we fall because we tell ourselves: she's different from the rest.
Maybe you don't believe or is hard for you to accept, but I personally know a PRC woman married to a Singaporean...............

My gal used to have a bf who is single n loaded even when we were together. She dumped him like the plague after a few months. Why? Amongst other undesirable traits Bro WB had repeatedly warned us about, this guy, being single, also with intentions to marry her, had too much free time so he followed and track her. Big no no for these gals.

KC them but dun get KC-ed urself.

Originally Posted by Scorp888

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Damn. From all the bros' experiences here, look like every PRC gal is a fking prostitute - regardless of what job they're in - whose only motive is $$$. I am more determined now to find out if this CQ gal is also the same, and if so, dump her quickly. I must find that tracking software real soon.

Not all PRC gals, but certainly many, many of them r just fxking whores, IMHO.

Originally Posted by besafe

I think I have mentioned this before, and some brothers actually pmed and cursed me.
Some years back, I met a beautiful prc lady at the ktv.............She was by now married and bore him a child. Our secret tryst went on for some months, until I finally put a stop to it. Why? She even wanted to bring her child with her when we are going to makeout. From what I understand from her is that after the marriage, the honeymoon ended. She felt neglected and wanted some companionship and sex.
Why I tell this story? Because, it can or may happened to you too.
So if you re in love with a ktv girl. Please be prepared to keep the romance burning...........................

Hi bro,

Ths for sharing.

At least 50% of married women hv had or will hv extramarital affairs. Among the very attractive ones, I would say more than 80% of them hv had or will hv sex outside marriage.

I shun married women n will never fxk one regardless of how beautiful n sexy she is.

It's my code of conduct.

But, I know married women r the easiest to fxk. Most of them r hungry for attention n sex, haha. My frens in Gotham City used to tell me their exploits w/ married women, mostly MILFS in their 30s n late 20s.

Ever heard of Mark Cunningham?

Originally Posted by lovetogive

...........................The luckiest man I presume should be the man they love, but this guy must not be meddling with their businesses, which quite a lot of guys cannot handle this when they are KCed.
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IMHO, the luckiest man is one who is rejected, in the beginning, by many chio SYTs of his type, but who eventually manages to fxk all of them n get them addicted emotionally n sexually. He gets their pussies because of his sexual confidence n self mastery n he has no KC for them.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[fallen.angel]

I realize there are singles out there so what I said about not giving them anything more than I’m willing to give, in monetary or non-monetary terms, and therefore not expecting anything more from them, that’s just me. Call me jaded but you enjoy their company and the other stuff but you don’t sacrifice your life/family. Last thing people like us want is a sticky gf who will threaten to cut herself if you don’t give her enough attention right? So I don’t really care what she do behind my back… I always use the exact words my gal used on me last time: 你有你的生活，我有我的生活。

But for the singles who genuinely wants to marry a PRC gal, then I’ll leave it to the experts here to give their take. I’ve just seen and heard enough to draw my own conclusion.

[fallen.angel]

Originally Posted by warbird

Do QQ video chat w/ her using iphones unexpectedly can also reveal a lot, hahaha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB!! Miss you much much!! Yes, in fact there are more than 1000 ways to catch them, LOL! And its so easy! I just can't be bothered! Sometimes, I feel that I can become a very outstanding detective and through the years, you also learn how to be a better liar yourself, and protect yourself. Hahaha!! :P

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by warbird

If I were ur fren, I would definitely get the kids back to SG.

Guru, she dumped the kids wif my friend & they're here in Sinkapore!
That's y, can dump husband still ok but dump the kids like it was never her's is absolutely unbelievable!
Tat's Y, scary shit man these women!