The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Romeo and Juliet......

JWNY

there u go.i mentioned one in a million and this is one gd example.let's see if there is a miracle of a two in a million.

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by JWNY

I told him: "Ship in harbour is safe....but ship is supposed to sail"

JWNY

personally like this quote.. it's so true..

[OceanEleven]

People from different walks of life have different perception of life but one thing remains the same though, is the endless passion to pursue for something better, further, higher. Time and again, we are left pondering with many “what if”, it typically signified the infatuation for wanting something that are yet to be in our possession. The magnitude of such desire is in proportionate with one’s character and status.

Again, when we get what we want, we simply do not spend enough time to assimilate and appreciate what we have now. We are always taking what are offered and refuse to budge or to make an effort to look beyond the cover. Most of the time we are paranoid and hysterical about what we want, what we can get rather then stopping for that few minutes, to feel, imagine and sense who is in our arms. Leaning to come to terms with yourself will go a long, perhaps not as thrilling as getting someone new but definitely more fulfilling.

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by JWNY

Romeo and Juliet......

JWNY

but romeo is only 16 and juliet is only 14 in the story...

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Again, when we get what we want, we simply do not spend enough time to assimilate and appreciate what we have now. We are always taking what are offered and refuse to budge or to make an effort to look beyond the cover. Most of the time we are paranoid and hysterical about what we want, what we can get rather then stopping for that few minutes, to feel, imagine and sense who is in our arms.

beautifully said,in summary humans are never easily satisfied and always wanting something more & better without any thoughts of appreciating what's there at the present moment.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Again, when we get what we want, we simply do not spend enough time to assimilate and appreciate what we have now.

In the world today, people say "I love you" too often, I tend to believe that one can be in love more than once, maybe, three or four at most, but there can be only one true love in this world, and many tend to misinterpret that. Many people are insecure, but this shows that people want to be loved, that is what the goal of everyone in the world is, to be loved, whether it be by family, friends, or more importantly, a significant other. But the reason people take love for granted is because they want to truly believe they are in love so that they can feel, although it may be false, that they have fulfilled a dream. But in some terrible cases people have taken "love" for granted because of subconcious wrong intentions, such as to have sex with the person using the excuse of "I thought it was love." People will take love for granted in order to pretend to fulfill a lifelong yearning.

Many always want what they can't have, it's very "human nature". They get out of love thinking they could find it in the exact way they want it to be, usually assuming it would be easy to find "love" again. People think they will be happier, when yet they can never be satisfied.

Lastly, maybe in the past, they may have been hurt and they continue to carry the emotional baggage from one relationship to the next.

JWNY

I not trying to be the "good guy" but 1 advice is just love one if they deserve to be loved and don't make mistake by going outside to eat. Life is once and there is no turning back. Game still can revert to saved game state.

[-itr-]

Originally Posted by giggz83

i like this verse very much.

after my gf left me .. i felt a lot. i really did a lot of mistakes .. but all is but too late.

we live once only .. yes!!

so .. bros, if u really wanna knw this babe so much .. go! if you think changing to another job can really bring ur career to another level .. go! if you think u wanna try mlm or real estate .. go!

we only live once .. paiseh or not, to hell with it!!! .. if not, there might not be a chance anymore.

why regret? since life's so short.

just my 2 cents worth.


changing jobs or career switch, bro.. it ain't as easy as u think.

Y? coz i left my former MNC sales job coz i thot was Damn f**kup as i 'm

always being pick to do the dirty shitjob. and frankly, my colleague did much

more than me in the job scoop, also complained abt leaving.

but in the end, she choose to endure and stayed.

as for me, i left coz, i always think, got leg , hand and brains,

scare cannot find a living?

sigh.. i regreted not taking her advise to endure as.. since we have worked

and established our base, why change your working environment?

its stressful..

which i'm goin thru now..

so.. this life 's short theory.. may not be right afterall..

just to pour out my experience..

no flames..

peace.

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by -itr-

changing jobs or career switch, bro.. it ain't as easy as u think.

established our base, why change your working environment?

so.. this life 's short theory.. may not be right afterall..

I tend to agree...

work related...many places would be similar, if not worse...the grass is always greener on the other side.

But in circumstances, if the current job has not much room for development and $ is stagnant...the biggest risk...is not taking one

JWNY

[JWNY]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

but romeo is only 16 and juliet is only 14 in the story...

age is relative bro...

JWNY

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

beautifully said,in summary humans are never easily satisfied and always wanting something more & better without any thoughts of appreciating what's there at the present moment.

v true.. guess humans are selfish in general.. always thinking of own pleasure & happiness 1st.. to the extent of hurtin others to achieve it..

promise myself that i'll tell myself to appreciate those around me everyday..

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Spud_Boy

I promise myself that i'll tell myself to appreciate those around me everyday..

that's nice.Wish u well.

[Spud_Boy]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

that's nice.Wish u well.

thanks, bro..

also hope all bros to always remember to do the same too.. even after all the fun u may have out there, nothing beats being the warmth & comfort of ur loved 1..

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by Spud_Boy

thanks, bro..

also hope all bros to always remember to do the same too.. even after all the fun u may have out there, nothing beats being the warmth & comfort of ur loved 1..

while we are still thinking who we loved most, how we loved most, think back, is it "Yi Xiang Qing Yuan"? If yes, is it really that fatanstic afterall?

[giggz83]

Originally Posted by -itr-

just my 2 cents worth.


changing jobs or career switch, bro.. it ain't as easy as u think.

Y? coz i left my former MNC sales job coz i thot was Damn f**kup as i 'm

always being pick to do the dirty shitjob. and frankly, my colleague did much

more than me in the job scoop, also complained abt leaving.

but in the end, she choose to endure and stayed.

as for me, i left coz, i always think, got leg , hand and brains,

scare cannot find a living?

sigh.. i regreted not taking her advise to endure as.. since we have worked

and established our base, why change your working environment?

its stressful..

which i'm goin thru now..

so.. this life 's short theory.. may not be right afterall..

just to pour out my experience..

no flames..

peace.

no prob bro, no offence taken. but sorry to hear about your plight.

but, it doesnt make sense to just change a job without any planning. and since you change job, might as well do your best ..

during my NS period my encik always tell me .. you want you do your very best, if not you wouldnt want to even start it at all.

though easy said than done. but since, you're out. why not give your best shot at your new job, rather than looking back and feel sad?

sorry if i may sound blunt .. thats how i felt.

anyway, good luck to you bro!