Hanging Flowers Joints

[unclesammi]

Originally Posted by roamersg

Yup that's her. Did you or other bros sit with her and learn more about her? Am curious, as I will hang her in the future, but don't think I can afford to even think about going any further. DC seems like a very expensive place to support a singer. When I saw her in the show and once before, both times someone hung $1000 on her. Singers standards for 'friendship' must be very high, and some seemed to be strong enough performers they probably don't need to da bao to hit their targets comfortably

If you want to hook up with a singer, better chose a smaller joint. some not so popular ones along tg pagar are a steal if you got the time to go recce.

[mansgp]

Originally Posted by roamersg

Yup that's her. Did you or other bros sit with her and learn more about her? Am curious, as I will hang her in the future, but don't think I can afford to even think about going any further. DC seems like a very expensive place to support a singer. When I saw her in the show and once before, both times someone hung $1000 on her. Singers standards for 'friendship' must be very high, and some seemed to be strong enough performers they probably don't need to da bao to hit their targets comfortably

I don't think I will reveal more about her but what I can say here is please stay away. Many patrons, myself and the friends around me included, have the tendency to think that we are old, seasoned, and sensible enough not to fall into any relationship with singers. To a singer whom we like or admire, we start with small "flowers" like $100 - $200 and will gradually increase the amount once you get to know the singer better, either out of gallantry, sympathy, jealousy, love, or ego-boosting. I am seeing this happening all the time, even to regulars who had patronised HFJs for many years and met many gals.

If I am not wrong, her income last month exceeded $25k. Unless you can afford to outdo those men and hang that kind of "flowers" every month, spending $100 - $200 per visit on any of the DC's singers will only land you with a “帅哥你来啦！“ and “你先坐一会儿我有事忙待会儿再过来陪你” and off she goes to trap bigger fishes and probably will come back to chat a few words with you prior to her next performance on stage. A few crowns ($1k and above) hung will grant you the "privilege" to have a couple of meals with them. Any further development will really depends on how deep your pockets are.

My advise to you is to sit back, enjoy their performance, and do not hang any "flower". In generally, majority of these singers are not as simple or innocent as what you perceive them to be.

Otherwise, take the advice of unclesammi and go to smaller joints. You will not be as badly burned as in joints like DC.

[hamlinlau]

Singers, KTV girls, FLs. they are all here for one reason. To earn $$$. If you are not special then you have to pay for her time.. No different from any other business where invest time and money thru entertainment to get the business... Sometimes your investments bear fruits sometimes you realized you are taken for a ride cos that chap ended up giving the biz to your competitor.

So we go KTV and HFJ to chill, meet people, throw some $$$ away for some cheap thrills. We are somewhat special to these singers of KTV gers when we (naturally) fall into the respective catogories.

1. We become a regular contributor to her, the biggest contributor gets the highest proportion of her working time.. the good looking but not so rich might get slotted in for a dinner or 2. The 100 below might get a smile.

2. Next tier belongs to the useful ones.. those who run erands for her, her personal chauffeurs, meal delivery men. This category still have to pay out some $$$ but sometimes get to attend a dinner or movie

3. The sellected one (or few) who gets to hug her when she's having pms, takes her out for dinner when shw's not working. Once elected these catogory will not have to invest but will receive some genuine dividens from her. NOTE: Some of the shareholders at Tier1 get to be here as well.

4. Highest tier - The elite one(s) she ngiaks while she's working here. These guys are like the CEOs of WS! They just reap the rewards. Some even get financial support from the girls. Those at level 1 helping the singer to provide for the elite Level 4 !! And of cos some Tier 1 shareholders do get to sleep with the singer but merely a transaction on most occasions?

And the Food Chain goes on.......

[Looksee]

Originally Posted by hamlinlau

And the Food Chain goes on.......

well said.....

guess i'm tier -1.....always leaves b4 they start singing.....

[hamlinlau]

Originally Posted by Looksee

well said.....

guess i'm tier -1.....always leaves b4 they start singing.....

same same... still waiting to be promoted

[XiBeiSong]

Originally Posted by unclesammi

Good news to all HFJ beer drinkers.

Starlight at Cuppage level 5 is having a special event tomorrow from 6pm to 9pm. What so great about it?

1 table you just have to pay 30nett for free flow of beer and mixers. Imagine you got 6pax. Each pay $5 drink till you drop. Better than coffeeshop. Still got singers and meimei to see. Most importantly you will not be ask to fork out $ to hang flower.

U mean tonite or? Sounds good a deal. Will try to ask my colleagues along but I think they have other plans. So may just pop by alone to look see.

[roamersg]

Originally Posted by mansgp

To a singer whom we like or admire, we start with small "flowers" like $100 - $200

Yup, was thinking of hanging just as 'thanks' for performance, but warning taken and I'll stick to just a chat and then move on

Originally Posted by mansgp

If I am not wrong, her income last month exceeded $25k.

WOW!

Originally Posted by mansgp

spending $100 - $200 per visit on any of the DC's singers will only land you with a “帅哥你来啦!

Ha ha, indeed have heard that!

Appreciate advice of seasoned HFJ person. As I mentioned, I ended up supporting a singer at a smaller joint, and it really is absurdly expensive even at stds below DC, so I'm actually glad she just left, even if her company was fun. Again you're right, easy to say "I'll just hang some flowers b/c she's cute and fun to talk to" and then you get emotionally involved and out goes your money. And of course it's purely a commercial relnship for them, best you get is wonderful acting so that GFE feels right

[roamersg]

Originally Posted by hamlinlau

Singers, KTV girls, FLs. they are all here for one reason. To earn $$$. If you are not special then you have to pay for her time..

Completely agree. One of the nice things of the visa running out is makes it easy to end the friendship and move on, easier to remember it's just a commercial relnship with an actress

Originally Posted by hamlinlau

We are somewhat special to these singers of KTV gers when we (naturally) fall into the respective catogories.

And the Food Chain goes on.......

Great taxonomy, and all too true!

[aicheongmai]

Originally Posted by unclesammi

Dun bring any female along la. Si beh outcast leh.

Hahaha.. No choice.. She die die want to come.. She dun come.. I can't go ley...

Originally Posted by otur

am i a female??

Bro Otur.. Not you lah.. Unlcesammi is referring to me.. Hahaha.. Sorry for the misunderstanding..

Originally Posted by unclesammi

Aiya, not saying you la. Got 1 cha bor now stick to him like leech. kekeke.

[aicheongmai]

Originally Posted by unclesammi

Good news to all HFJ beer drinkers.

Starlight at Cuppage level 5 is having a special event tomorrow from 6pm to 9pm. What so great about it?

1 table you just have to pay 30nett for free flow of beer and mixers. Imagine you got 6pax. Each pay $5 drink till you drop. Better than coffeeshop. Still got singers and meimei to see. Most importantly you will not be ask to fork out $ to hang flower.

Yo Bro, thanks for everything.. Had a wonderful evening there..

[BulleYe]

Originally Posted by aicheongmai

Yo Bro, thanks for everything.. Had a wonderful evening there..

just wake up or just cum back?

[aicheongmai]

Originally Posted by BulleYe

just wake up or just cum back?

Juz came back...

[BulleYe]

Originally Posted by aicheongmai

Juz came back...

haha...
that must be usual routine after supper + sending + ......

[mansgp]

Originally Posted by roamersg

Yup, was thinking of hanging just as 'thanks' for performance, but warning taken and I'll stick to just a chat and then move on

Originally Posted by roamersg

Appreciate advice of seasoned HFJ person. As I mentioned, I ended up supporting a singer at a smaller joint, and it really is absurdly expensive even at stds below DC, so I'm actually glad she just left, even if her company was fun. Again you're right, easy to say "I'll just hang some flowers b/c she's cute and fun to talk to" and then you get emotionally involved and out goes your money. And of course it's purely a commercial relnship for them, best you get is wonderful acting so that GFE feels right

I am not a seasoned HFJ patron and neither have I played the field for long. In fact, I am still in a relationship where the financial and emotional strain is taking a toll on me. The frequency of my visit to support my gal led me to see and hear many things other patrons are ignorant of, including closet secrets too sensitive to be made known to even amongst the singers themselves.

It is because of what I see and what I hear that I am urging you not to get too close to the gal you mentioned. However, the decision is yours to make and I really hope you can just accomplish your objective and move on.

[aicheongmai]

Originally Posted by BulleYe

haha...
that must be usual routine after supper + sending + ......

Yesterday 3 sessions... Hahahaha...

Cheong with bro unclesammi, dv, ito, darke, carebear, kongfuzi and cx75... Go Starlight, then C21, then JBL. No supper coz ger not well. Send her home after last session.

Chat with her till 5 plus at her place.. then come home...

You coming back on Monday?