How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[Hooters666]

Bro Warbird

cannot help it but this is damn good story to start the weekend!

I like that part about JR having couple secs of gao chao and VO looking down. I can just visualized that scene there n then!

Again I am learning heaps from this thread as I said 1plus year ago. I don't have much to contribute as I have no success stories on conquering young attractive ladies. So far I have some success with mother hens only but would like to progress to the next stage. I tried on a 26yo CD chick for months playing appearing and disappearing act but no in roads into her pussy. She has hot body though not c cupper n a very lively personality. I think she went home liao.

Anyway I am not giving up on playing this game.

Best of Health n fuck well!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by warbird

Dear Mr. Chairman,

Actually the "WANT" part is not always true for me.

I love negotiating n bargaining n paying below market value for anything n everything including pussies of my type.

If a gal asks for 10K a month

My Humble greetings and Salutations Guru, actually, after reading this above post over & over & over again, I do see a "WANT!"
Why?
I want to BY you = Want
How much do you want to be BY = Want
She then asks for 10k
8k can or not = Nego = Want

Yes Guru, we have cheong together several times & we both know darn well we do have different approaches towards the same matter.
Thus, we're the captain of our ship's & we reserve the right to whichever way we choose to steer them.

As you know me, I will:
Every month how much --> Come with me
She only has room to answer YES or NO and nothing else entertained.

Different strokes for different strokes ya bro WarBird.
Most importantly is that we, get the pussy and KC the shit outta them hehehehehe

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Just like most bgr date, except that I have to pay her $200 at the end; to cover her "losses" on a otherwise busy ($$$) Friday night at the ktv.

As per your earlier post bro:

Originally Posted by goodpartner

except that I have to pay her $200 at the end; to cover her "losses" on a otherwise busy ($$$) Friday night at the ktv.

This already proves that she uses the word "FRIEND" as a shield to protect her from having to give anything and also proves that she sure ain't no friend

Originally Posted by goodpartner

so I like to think she like my $200 more than the others.

Actually, you already know everything bro.
I sense a war of heart vs mind here.
All I can tell or advise you is:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己

[Big B]

Hi goodpartner,

I think it is very important to understand what you want out of the relationship. What works for others may not work for you.

If all you want is pussy, by all means, be the alpha male that both WB and DYBJ described. Its easy because there are limited emotions involved (mainly lust). You clinically access what is required to bring about the desired outcome and JUST DO IT. If you fail, so what? There's always the next woman to practice on.

I suspect that when these sifus meet a truly desirable lady (someone they might fall in "love" with), they exercise formidable self control and convince themselves that the girl is just another piece of meat. By doing so, rampaging hormones and emotions are brought quickly under control.

Techniques such as focusing on a woman's negative points is a skill designed to help bring about this outcome. In fact, by not caring, you will not fall into the trap of behaving like a love sick puppy. And yes, a woman greatly desires a macho man who takes charge - especially if she thinks she can't have him.

Such emotional self mastery is difficult to completely achieve. On the flip side, I believe that when you do reach such a stage, your abilty to love with wild abandon becomes irrecovably lost and you will never find a soul mate. This is because you will never allow yourself to pour everything you have into a relationship.

By way of background, there are "good" working ladies worth chasing (women who have been forced into doing what they do for whatever reason). These are extremely rare BTW.

Even when you find one, a woman work works in this line for more than 4 months will eventually:

1) 疲倦不堪 and succumb. It is not easy to be good when you are surrounded by temptation (as in easy money).

2) 心变得冰冷 - As in, what they do is also strictly business for them. We use strategy to KC them, they use strategy to maximize their earnings (and they can be absolutely ruthless in this).

Based on Sifu DYBJ's analysis, I do not believe your WL fits my definition of good. Please feel free to unleash your inner alpha!

GL!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Actually I'm not sure if you all are aware, a great opportunity has arrived for bro goodpartner.
My suggestion is:
The next time you go out with her, yes be a gentleman and pay for the so called expenses.
But, when you part, dun pay her!
If she asks, rebutt her back using the words from her mouth!
I TOT WE FRIENDS?
Friends come out must pay fee one ah?
Like that where got friend?
If she starts to make a fuss, better still......
Use this to shove the whole topic aside BUT still dun pay.
别谈钱了，谈钱伤友情啊
Then wish her goodnite.

I tell you, she sure LL nothing to say back except give you a black face, which to me, is a good sign, cos it shows that she already acknowledge you wake up already and she will know, it's time to either give or find a new cow to milk

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Big B

Such emotional self mastery is difficult to completely achieve. On the flip side, I believe that when you do reach such a stage, your abilty to love with wild abandon becomes irrecovably lost and you will never find a soul mate. This is because you will never allow yourself to pour everything you have into a relationship.

Very very good post, kudos to you.
Yes, you're right & also wrong.
For the single male, it's DEVASTATING to master such an ability.
But, for married men, it's a blessing cos you will have less headaches to deal with i.e the other one

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

So either way you look at it bro, you're either damn lucky or damn sway cos she prolly said the same shit to that guy who's giving her the 5-8k

Yep, agree.

That's why I have reservations, so not to end up being another sucker.

Just continue to have fun with her will do.

[goodpartner]

Wah lau Eh... So much attention on my story from all the shifu here! Very pai-say but appreciate all the comments, especially those direct & blant ones. Don't reply also cannot liao.... LoL

Originally Posted by Big B

Hi goodpartner,

I think it is very important to understand what you want out of the relationship. What works for others may not work for you.

Frankly, I didn't start off with an end in mind. Just one of the regular & usual KTV sessions (almost weekly) to celebrate life's little successes and reward ourselves given any reason to celebrate. Then bump into one that's somewhat "different" (ya right, self-KC word spotted) from the others.

Won't say I have even 1% experiences of the experts here, but am not a rookie in the commercial sex/GFE world either. Again, I'm in for the challenge she indirectly put up. No, I won't pay her $2K for ST directly, it's just different from spending $2K over time to "buy" her trust and submit herself to me for "free" eventually - that's probably my goal here. Of course, like in placing a bet in gambling, only when I have that feel (confidence) then I'll make that bet. It's just impossible to define that "feel" that Player will win

If I loose, so what, I would have enjoyed the journey and gained more experience. This is one scenario where the journey is more important than the destination. My principle with girls is that they MUST like/love me more than I do to them, even for commercial pussies. If I don't get that "feel" (spiritual affinity) that is created in a moment, buying the body with cold hard cash is just not as sextisfying in comparison. I get more "high" having mind-fucks than the physical thingy.

Originally Posted by Big B

Such emotional self mastery is difficult to completely achieve. On the flip side, I believe that when you do reach such a stage, your abilty to love with wild abandon becomes irrecovably lost and you will never find a soul mate. This is because you will never allow yourself to pour everything you have into a relationship.

This one I agree. I won't wanna go there either. I like romance and love the feeling of falling in love. There will be pain & sorrow, but hey any fun & laughter will be sweet too - isn't that what life's about? Nothing excites me more than having sex (even commercial) with someone whom I know like me more than just my money. Make sense?

Originally Posted by Big B

By way of background, there are "good" working ladies worth chasing (women who have been forced into doing what they do for whatever reason). These are extremely rare BTW.

Even when you find one, a woman work works in this line for more than 4 months will eventually:

1) 疲倦不堪 and succumb. It is not easy to be good when you are surrounded by temptation (as in easy money).

2) 心变得冰冷 - As in, what they do is also strictly business for them. We use strategy to KC them, they use strategy to maximize their earnings (and they can be absolutely ruthless in this).

Based on Sifu DYBJ's analysis, I do not believe your WL fits my definition of good. Please feel free to unleash your inner alpha!

GL!

I heard of this 3-4 month thingy before; the pussy I'm dealing with now is fresh as far as I can tell, so yes I need to do the "closing" asap before it's stale or when one of the expert here BY her....

Will reply the other posts directed to me soon.

[Big B]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Very very good post, kudos to you.
Yes, you're right & also wrong.
For the single male, it's DEVASTATING to master such an ability.
But, for married men, it's a blessing cos you will have less headaches to deal with i.e the other one

Touché mon ami. Point well taken.

My comment was directed at goodpartner whom I suspect is still single and definitely not at married men.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Big B

Touché mon ami. Point well taken.

My comment was directed at goodpartner whom I suspect is still single and definitely not at married men.

Please refer back to his post a day ago.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Frankly, I'm just a bored, single, with plenty of time and some stash for playing that's all. Sex drive also lowered with age liao....

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro, before I begin my post, I've been informed that my reply to you yesterday is a bit harsh???????

If it was, please accept my most humblest apologies as it was not my intention.
If at any 1 point you feel you've had enuff of me, just say it, not only will I not freak or go crazy, but I will accept your decision as well as still maintain that respect that everyone is their ship's own captain.

Esteem bro DYBJ, NOT at ALL lah.
Although I never chiong with you guys b4, I'm familiar with how chiongsters think and give advice.

If any words that I felt harsh to me, I'll rebuke for sure if I've grounds.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

My theory is very simple, though many may not accept, but hey, I've yet to meet a failure. Maybe bcos I know when to pull the plug.

Tonight's escapade is totally a WIN to her.
Why?
1) She earned that 200 bucks
2) She didn't have to drink 跑台 and risk meeting jerks or colour wolves
3) She was brought to a night out of relaxation and R&R

For us to be players, not that I'm saying you're not, we must learn to tune our brain like theirs, then we will be able to read and anticipate every move they make and all the strategies they use and why they use them.

No kidding, that's EXACTLY what is happening.

I'm fully aware of it as well, and in fact, I was the one who is (act) "gentlemen" enuff to offer her this amount upfront on the phone. Imagine, if I don't, hehheh... it won't be just this amount... That will do away any negotiation that'll spoil the night when parting. An above average chick like her can make more butterflying around on a friday night.

Frankly, what have I got to loose too? I saved the cost of the room, cost of inhaling 2nd-hand smokes, drinks which I don't really like, etc.

I think we're heard of so many guys who are more crazy about these pussies; they will literally book rooms EVERY night just to have a chance to be with them. That's what she told me too!

It's ONLY fair that when I play, I don't take (too much) advantage. People here to make a living after all I know. R&R, I also enjoy. Plus I add on to her emotional bank account for me with this "gentlemen" act.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

As WarBird knows, my style is more of a MCP extreme, even at havelock & I'm sure you may even have heard of my rep there.
WarBird can be my witness.

Why are we here in this forum?
To discuss and to brainstorm on how to get the meat in the shortest time and the least $$$$$ invested.
But, many things need not be asked between gal & guy, sometimes it has to be initiated and all it takes is for someone to take the lead.
I saw your link & nope, I was not aware of the other post until you shared that link.
So my post last nite to you was based on all things equal.

Ya, right very extreme.... LoL
Nope, never been to havelock before, in fact the only time I ever met up with chiongsters in SBF deliberately was 4 years back overseas in DG.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Lonely you may be, bored you may be and read back what you posted.
You already justified all your activities with her, bearing in mind that this tree has bear no fruit for you.

As a bystander, i won't call friend cos i dunno u, i can read between the lines and say confidently, this is no WL to you in your eyes since a while ago.
Strongly suggest you do a refresher on what you wanted in the 1st place and focus on achieving it and not stray too wildly in the realms of KC.

Your posts, I can sense truth, so I can say, you're a nice guy and it's a good trait but be warned, WLs LOVE such people.
Be nice to deserving people but learn to put your foot down and say, ok, now this is the situation and we must blah blah blah!
Be the captain of both your boats if you want to see results.

Honestly, I can also sense your sense of being in limbo everytime after you send her back and pay her for her social escort services.

Well, like i said, we're our own ship's captain and I wish u all the best & hope you bring her to shore real soon!
Hope i didn't prick a nerve this time & if i did, apologies.
If u know me in person like WB does, you'll know the way I am in real life also sama sama, no BS, chop chop to the point whether offensive or not.

Cheers

I'm a lone ranger chiongster la, so yes always lonely.
Thanks for the compliment that I'm a nice guy

Ya, outside I look like one sheep where all WL will think they can swallow me in one glup that kind... that's where I try (and learning how) to play this "weakness" into strength.

Just waiting for these predator WLs (whom I like) to cum after me, so I can turn them into a prey! The hokkien says quiet dog can bite people to death...

Please continue to share your valuable knowledge and (s)experiences here!
Will love to meet you guys some day in the distant future!

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

For the single male, it's DEVASTATING to master such an ability.

Originally Posted by Big B

Touché mon ami. Point well taken.

My comment was directed at goodpartner whom I suspect is still single and definitely not at married men.

Yeah! I'm SINGLE and still available!
So the Extreme MCP style not suit me huh?
No wonder I read already also feel a bit... eh... extreme... and uncomfortable to implement.
But still very good knowledge to keep in mind as I don't plan to be single forever!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Yeah! I'm SINGLE and still available!
So the Extreme MCP style not suit me huh?
No wonder I read already also feel a bit... eh... extreme... and uncomfortable to implement.
But still very good knowledge to keep in mind as I don't plan to be single forever!

I am what I am and was and is still wat i am.
I use extreme MCPism towards WLs but not to my wives.
You may be well armed but if you dunno when to use them, then you're quite hopeless.
I use that to protect myself and the interest of my family and at no time the WLs.

All i can say is, when you're at war, you wear your armour and carry your weapons.
When you're in enemy territory SITUATIONAL AWARENESS 150%
When you're at the safety & comfort at your own home, yes, you stand down.
But when you confuse them both as STAND DOWN mode and CONVINCE yourself that it's alright.
Thus 膀胱者请
My closing and last post to this matter to you bro is:
黑是黑，白是白
你要把黑说是白
这是你的全力
可是你忘了
黑还是黑，白还是白

I am quite sure this is not the 1st issue I've commented before and if i recall correctly, the response is still the same.
Enjoy yourself bro, and if you claim you don't intend to be single forever, then what the heck are you wasting your precious time wif a WL?
Looking for the right candidate in that arena?
I wish you all he best.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

... and if you claim you don't intend to be single forever, then what the heck are you wasting your precious time wif a WL?
Looking for the right candidate in that arena?

Hmm... don't get how it relates.
Bro, let's just say that I'm not always single in my marital status

Just delaying the committment till I play enuff (aka waste enuff time)
Actually, not thinking of any paper work even if it happens.

Have you had life experiences where your marital status transit from one to another before?
Bro, surffice to say that I've been there, done it and got some T-Shirts.

Different life stages, need different approaches. I think that's the point. That I understand.
Good for you on using different style on different people, too.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Hmm... don't get how it relates.
Bro, let's just say that I'm not always single in my marital status

This I'm sure bro

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Just delaying the committment till I play enuff (aka waste enuff time)
Actually, not thinking of any paper work even if it happens.

As long as you can still get a hard on, you'll never have or play enuff la bro.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Have you had life experiences where your marital status transit from one to another before?
Bro, surffice to say that I've been there, done it and got some T-Shirts.

Sorry, I've not walked that path.
I only got 3 wives under 1 roof currently & no.4 is getting her PRship in May.
That's about all the itsy bitsy experience I have with making women live and work for me adding to that little stash of mine and still go out and play legitimately.
Apologies from a lack of experience newbie noob.

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Different life stages, need different approaches. I think that's the point. That I understand.
Good for you on using different style on different people, too.

The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!!
As per line one in my siggy