Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[stillgottheblue]

Originally Posted by volcano

Vietnamese usually tends to believe in their own people...but sad to say..most of the time is a mistake..

last time my wife also like to say..."no lah...this who say this and who say that...which is better and where is better"

until i got to tell her...i only trust my own eyes and not this who and that who...and i am ur husband...u just listen to me can le...

This attitude seems like our Singapore aunties. Always "this who says", "that who says"...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by volcano

it depends on which kind of girls u know..

if the girls are WL and in need of money..yes,they will jump on foreigners bcos chances for rich VN guys to marry them is almost zero.

but if the girls come from rich family..they seldom marry foreigners regardless of their age.

only girls from country side tend to marry early..girl from country side usually marry before 20 years old..but not for girls in big city like Ho Chi Minh..girls in HCMC tend to marry when older as their thinking is different from girls in country side.

Agreed. Rich families dun want their daughters to marry foreigners.
To them only the poor marry foreigners for money.

[damong777]

very informative thread...i just spent 3 hours going through..

nice to learn about another country's culture...u nvr know when it comes in handy

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Go walk walk find new girl. You old man want to find young girl, Chee bye!

This sentence be careful .... there are some old man here out there cobstantly hunting for young 'chim'

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Historically old men always like young women, nothing strange or wrong with that. I'm not young either, hahaha...

i prefer a hot 7-8/10 30yr old than a plane jane 5/10 18yr old...some guys are fixated abt getting young girls and dont care abt her face

[johnthan00]

I saw a few replies to bros fr more senior bros abt viet scene is that proceed with care and caution when dealing with VB. As mentioned quite often in this thread, VB are quite cunning and with a motive (although not all, mostly. I guess)

Got a scenario, i happend to my gd friend. I seconded with what most bros here say, that is procced with care n caution, treat everything said to them as one ear in one ear out. Hear 1st only, use eyes to see n brain to analyse then believe 50% the rest 50 is to protect urself. This is wat i told my friend. But oddly enough, long story short, he met at a local ktv the chat a bit didnt really go out while in sg. Shortly he flew over to hanoi to meet her, together with me. Her gal seems quite ok, didnt chop my friend, paid for most food n drinks while we were there. He slept at her house while i stayed at hotel. Subsequently, he visited her a few more times. Same thing happen, most of the expenses paid by her gal, (or i should said all). Even air ticket also paid for, the gal just want my friend to visit her more often. (btw my friend not andy lau or with a extra long dick, i see his dick b4 la) Subsequently, this girl want my friend to marry her and they will settle in hanoi. My friend is wondering if he really struck gold this time round? Btw this gal is pretty.

To me, i can see that this gal really love my friend. (or i should say i sense not see, although i dunno all their stories but fr wat i know) there wasnt money involved in their relationship, never once did the gal ask any money fr my friend. how should say? He really struck gold this time? Ha... experienced bro, any advise?

PS: I merely cut n paste this extract. I told him i lzay to type ur story n i dunno how u wan to put this across, so dun say its mine story but use friend as smokescreen... Ha Ha

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by johnthan00

I saw a few replies to bros fr more senior bros abt viet scene is that proceed with care and caution when dealing with VB. As mentioned quite often in this thread, VB are quite cunning and with a motive (although not all, mostly. I guess)

Got a scenario, i happend to my gd friend. I seconded with what most bros here say, that is procced with care n caution, treat everything said to them as one ear in one ear out. Hear 1st only, use eyes to see n brain to analyse then believe 50% the rest 50 is to protect urself. This is wat i told my friend. But oddly enough, long story short, he met at a local ktv the chat a bit didnt really go out while in sg. Shortly he flew over to hanoi to meet her, together with me. Her gal seems quite ok, didnt chop my friend, paid for most food n drinks while we were there. He slept at her house while i stayed at hotel. Subsequently, he visited her a few more times. Same thing happen, most of the expenses paid by her gal, (or i should said all). Even air ticket also paid for, the gal just want my friend to visit her more often. (btw my friend not andy lau or with a extra long dick, i see his dick b4 la) Subsequently, this girl want my friend to marry her and they will settle in hanoi. My friend is wondering if he really struck gold this time round? Btw this gal is pretty.

To me, i can see that this gal really love my friend. (or i should say i sense not see, although i dunno all their stories but fr wat i know) there wasnt money involved in their relationship, never once did the gal ask any money fr my friend. how should say? He really struck gold this time? Ha... experienced bro, any advise?

PS: I merely cut n paste this extract. I told him i lzay to type ur story n i dunno how u wan to put this across, so dun say its mine story but use friend as smokescreen... Ha Ha

this sounds unbelieveable in the 100+ or so girls i have met for coffee etc, some were daughters of gold shop owners, lawyers, accounatnts, down to poor shop sellers, NONE ever paid for my expenses, the most they did was go dutch..the ONE that did pay for my coffee and lunch after 4 dates gave me sob story how someone broke into her office and stole 10k usd..when i blur blur well that was the end of thats.
So from my quick assessment, is that this story is incomplete, your assessment of things is not same as my, ie yoru pretty is my ugly, your all expenses is my token gestures etc etc, or this is just a blatant attempt to troll, or this is someone verbalising some fantasy of theirs. Im my opioonion the story is VERY suspect and doenst fit within the "laws of physics" of vb behaviour

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

this sounds unbelieveable in the 100+ or so girls i have met for coffee etc, some were daughters of gold shop owners, lawyers, accounatnts, down to poor shop sellers, NONE ever paid for my expenses, the most they did was go dutch..the ONE that did pay for my coffee and lunch after 4 dates gave me sob story how someone broke into her office and stole 10k usd..when i blur blur well that was the end of thats.
So from my quick assessment, is that this story is incomplete, your assessment of things is not same as my, ie yoru pretty is my ugly, your all expenses is my token gestures etc etc, or this is just a blatant attempt to troll, or this is someone verbalising some fantasy of theirs. Im my opioonion the story is VERY suspect and doenst fit within the "laws of physics" of vb behaviour

mc...here again I have to fully agreed with you...when i read the story I wanted to reply...then again after checking this is a new account with 5 posts...this story is definitely too good to be true and i just couldn't be bothered...never in my 7 yrs travel to Vietnam had I met such a gal who willing to do so...

I heard of one fren who I was knew met a doctor who willing to pay his ticket and hotel just to fly to hanoi to bonk her...same thing talking about marriage and migrate to live overseas...not going to live in Vietnam or Singapore...but then a few months later...he told me the doctor gal dumped him and he back to status quo...again I dun trust the story and maybe like what mc said is a fantasy...

[johnthan00]

Well, this is me replying, not my friend. maybe u had not experience it b4 in ur 100+ dates with VB but that doesnt mean it doesnt exist in this world. I should say my friend is rather "blessed" with gals, most of the gals he dated seems to genuinely love me or like him rather than for material needs, be it prc or vb.

If acc date n posts to be determine credibility of posts then it is rather naive. This acc is created in 2012 but with few posts, it is still under moderation btw. To dismissed it as a post without credibility then its really one sided. Not everyone who frequent this forum posts a lot or participate in the forum actively. For me, i dun really tcss in the forum, i merely read thru n no seniors with powerful rating or points knew me (so no one can vouch for my credibility, even forum such as sbf need to have elitism exist?) there r many "lurkers" out there who read silently just like me but only post when interesting things happen or personal experiences can be rendered help to others just like my other posts for sugar babes.

[johnthan00]

If posts and joined date is the key to a story or life experiences here then i would suggest those with few points and no power and those without powerful bros here to skip this forum. As what they post here will not be greeted with the same respect and credibility. Or i should say i need to tcss with all fellow users of sbf 1st and gain enough points n reputation b4 i speak my mind abt some things or life experiences or i would deem to be a clone or a newbie with fantasy.

Elitism at its best even in sbf...? (hello its a sex related forum, not a social political forum)

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by johnthan00

Well, this is me replying, not my friend. maybe u had not experience it b4 in ur 100+ dates with VB but that doesnt mean it doesnt exist in this world. I should say my friend is rather "blessed" with gals, most of the gals he dated seems to genuinely love me or like him rather than for material needs, be it prc or vb.

If acc date n posts to be determine credibility of posts then it is rather naive. This acc is created in 2012 but with few posts, it is still under moderation btw. To dismissed it as a post without credibility then its really one sided. Not everyone who frequent this forum posts a lot or participate in the forum actively. For me, i dun really tcss in the forum, i merely read thru n no seniors with powerful rating or points knew me (so no one can vouch for my credibility, even forum such as sbf need to have elitism exist?) there r many "lurkers" out there who read silently just like me but only post when interesting things happen or personal experiences can be rendered help to others just like my other posts for sugar babes.

you post your "story" and ask for opinions...i and h88 express ouu disbelief at your story, just like i would express my disbeliefe if you told me you are a time traveler...you dont dont like our answer then dont ask for peoples opinion..i would have answered the same whetehr you have 1 post or 1000 posts...if you want to believe in fairy tale and u wnat to wait for the easter bunny then fine, but dont express annoyance or dont expect me to also wait for the easter bunny when i DONT because im a intelligent adult male.
btw IF YOUR "FRIEND" is blessed with girls he would have nothing to do with ktc or ktv girls..i am rather unblessed with girls and i have NEVER dated a ktv girl or any whore.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by johnthan00

If posts and joined date is the key to a story or life experiences here then i would suggest those with few points and no power and those without powerful bros here to skip this forum. As what they post here will not be greeted with the same respect and credibility. Or i should say i need to tcss with all fellow users of sbf 1st and gain enough points n reputation b4 i speak my mind abt some things or life experiences or i would deem to be a clone or a newbie with fantasy.

you can post whatever you like...nobody will care anywhere...so what kind of response you preferred to hear...to say we supported and believed this incredulous story of yours...haha....I will still not believe...too good to be true...you can continue to be in fantasy island...

[chanyboy]

Happy New Year, my frens!

[intelcore3]

I think it is the lady who thinks she hits a gold mine and making an investment to mine it out. This is not unheard of... A KTV girl makes a lot of money can make the investment. Similarly a Geisha, wants to buy herself into real love and respectability ....

They don't have time, they have money. If a guy can buy a woman , why can't they (their way of reason ...) , their show of "love" because they are disadvantaged being in their trades. So they want to start with an upper hand to level the playing ground in their game of love. These life stories may be few but enough around ...they are "tragedies" and sadness because they have such low probabilities of ending well. They do inspire tragic novels don't they ... the Geisha world will probably be well told.

[Singkieu]

Originally Posted by johnthan00

...For me, i dun really tcss in the forum, i merely read thru n no seniors with powerful rating or points knew me (so no one can vouch for my credibility, even forum such as sbf need to have elitism exist?) there r many "lurkers" out there who read silently just like me but only post when interesting things happen or personal experiences can be rendered help to others just like my other posts for sugar babes.

Elitism aside, can you tell me how you think your previous post about 'your friend' renders 'help' to others?