The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by americanexpress

yes but the question is, we don't always marry the one?

错的时间遇到对的人吧。。。

[queeniegal]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Last time, when divorce happens, seems to be always the guy's fault. Have another woman. Drink. Gamble. Violent character.

Now, I heard guy friend saying he fucked some married women. Then heard alot of cases woman does not perform their wifey duties, household chores and MOSTLY also sex part.

Nowadays woman seems to have forgotten.
Yes we guys have to support family financially, take care of family, take care of baby (contemporary husband),
But girls have forgotten they need to at least help, take more responsibities with kid AND AT LEAST DO SOMETHING IN THE BEDROOM.

Life before marriage and after is different. A matured girl will kw... before marriage u can be princess, no responsibilty, dad and mum sayang u.
After married u made vows to care for another extra person, which is yr husband. If u wan continue be princess, then DONT marry.

I believe giving and taking. If u only want to take only, then what the fuck?

Repeat the vow to your wife?

How many guys & gal violate their vows? There are not many people here who keep their vows... I know a guy before married plan to have a Fb even after his marriage..

Actually if your wife is a smart woman or at least talk with friend they should know must serve their hubby before they eat out...

Simple logic, when you are hungry not being feed you lookout..

This type of topic always going ard when I'm having ladies high tea, I'm surprise your wife friends nv discuss these stuffs.

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Things happen strangely the more you cling on something the more you won't have it... Once you let go... If it return it gonna be yours

wah sound like the perfect fairy tale love story leh sis

[asdfghjkl]

no joke but i hardly find any faithful men in this forum..

[The Stalker]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

no joke but i hardly find any faithful men in this forum..

here where got faithful men? he's either unfaithful or going to be unfaithful.

faithful men only surf facebook

[iamme0099]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Now, I heard guy friend saying he fucked some married women. Then heard alot of cases woman does not perform their wifey duties, household chores and MOSTLY also sex part.

Nowadays woman seems to have forgotten.
Yes we guys have to support family financially, take care of family, take care of baby (contemporary husband),
But girls have forgotten they need to at least help, take more responsibities with kid AND AT LEAST DO SOMETHING IN THE BEDROOM.

Life before marriage and after is different. A matured girl will kw... before marriage u can be princess, no responsibilty, dad and mum sayang u.
After married u made vows to care for another extra person, which is yr husband. If u wan continue be princess, then DONT marry.

I believe giving and taking. If u only want to take only, then what the fuck?

Totally agree with you. Almost all the housework done by me, I also have to work 5.5 days a week. Before marriage already is like this but thought things would change. So never marry thinking they will change, maybe change for the worst.

And no sex for a few months (nothing compared to some of the bros here, but come on, we are only entering our 30s this year), we should be in our prime. don't even need to think of having a baby. Else, I have to be maid and baby sitter at the same time.

[Darkside]

Originally Posted by tantan1234

Before we got married she everything ok.

Ask her to go a place- she said anything
Ask her what do u tink of girl who prefers bf with car- she said don't mind can take MRT


Now, changed. Every venue she decides. ANd now she wants either a house or a car.

I opened my eyes big liao. But she covers well

Sound like a PRC gal

[naughtyuan]

Originally Posted by JWNY

You may have married

- a one night stand
- a fling
- a wife or girlfriend of a buddy / best friend
- childhood sweetheart
- your boss / colleague
- a cousin
- matchmaked
- etc, etc

.....but is that person the one you loved most?

who cares to share their thoughts? married / divorced / singles can participate.

JWNY

I have been in 2 marriages. The first marriage was out to made my current hb angry which i loved him but he doesnt love me. The first marriage resulted badly with a miscarriage. Now i WON his heart.

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

no joke but i hardly find any faithful men in this forum..

yo..good girls are bad girls that dun get caught brudder?

[AgentSmith]

Originally Posted by naughtyuan

i have been in 2 marriages. The first marriage was out to made my current hb angry which i loved him but he doesnt love me. The first marriage resulted badly with a miscarriage. Now i won his heart.

不折手段 ！ 哈哈！

[Putin]

Originally Posted by The Stalker

faithful men only surf facebook

Hahaha, very true

[AmericanExpress]

Originally Posted by Putin

Hahaha, very true

some use Facebook and other social media as bootycall

[pulchritudinous]

Originally Posted by naughtyuan

I have been in 2 marriages. The first marriage was out to made my current hb angry which i loved him but he doesnt love me. The first marriage resulted badly with a miscarriage. Now i WON his heart.

That was confusing. You married first to spite current?

[WRX_STI]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Over time, we all will fall in and out of love, be it once, twice, thrice, we thrive on lust and thirst for desire.

This must be the best one line

[AmericanExpress]

Monogamy may be the only thing that remains essential to marriage. Because people no longer marry for economic, dynastic, or procreative reasons, as they did for millennia, monogamy means simply a legal commitment or vow to a primary partner, assuming some exclusive bond between partners?