Regret Marrying A China Wife?

[rudolf]

Bro Applepie,

Standing on the point of marrying a PRC gal, I would seriously advice you to consider as I am a living example in the past.

Be it rich or not, I would say the only difference between a local wife with PRC wife is the mindset of theirs is total different from singaporean.

In China, their living habits & singapore is totally different be it living standard etc. They would still bring their china thinking or mindset over to singapore & strongly believe in it even with regards of small little things. maybe for the first 1-2 months still on honeymoon mood but once she get in contacts with the outside world too much..u sure have headache de.

Days goes by, you 2 would have opinion difference & sparks will lit, finally become a quarrel like a daily meals. This happens to me when we are in name of man & wife...

No trying to biased towards them but some of my friends or colleague do face the same problem I had with their cheena wife.. I had enough of it therefore i walk out of it, living happily now but still bonk their nation ppl with no looking back..

Think twice before u sign the dotted line with PRC!!!!!!!

[QQBoy]

There is a very popular dating variety show in China 非诚勿扰. I recommend bros who are interested in marrying PRC girls to watch this show to understand how PRC girls choose their boyfriends. Here is one episode http://video.sina.com.cn/p/eladies/q...560502146.html

[sun814]

walao, u believed in this kind of variety show? they are directed in order increase ratings n attract attention, definitely doesn't represents most of the chinese.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by rudolf

Bro Applepie,

Standing on the point of marrying a PRC gal, I would seriously advice you to consider as I am a living example in the past.

Be it rich or not, I would say the only difference between a local wife with PRC wife is the mindset of theirs is total different from singaporean.

In China, their living habits & singapore is totally different be it living standard etc. They would still bring their china thinking or mindset over to singapore & strongly believe in it even with regards of small little things. maybe for the first 1-2 months still on honeymoon mood but once she get in contacts with the outside world too much..u sure have headache de.

Days goes by, you 2 would have opinion difference & sparks will lit, finally become a quarrel like a daily meals. This happens to me when we are in name of man & wife...

No trying to biased towards them but some of my friends or colleague do face the same problem I had with their cheena wife.. I had enough of it therefore i walk out of it, living happily now but still bonk their nation ppl with no looking back..

Think twice before u sign the dotted line with PRC!!!!!!!

Can you elaborate on the different ways of thinking for the brothers here. I think this would be useful for those brothers contemplating marrying a PRC gal. Thank you very much.

[sun814]

Originally Posted by rudolf

Bro Applepie,

Standing on the point of marrying a PRC gal, I would seriously advice you to consider as I am a living example in the past.

Be it rich or not, I would say the only difference between a local wife with PRC wife is the mindset of theirs is total different from singaporean.

In China, their living habits & singapore is totally different be it living standard etc. They would still bring their china thinking or mindset over to singapore & strongly believe in it even with regards of small little things. maybe for the first 1-2 months still on honeymoon mood but once she get in contacts with the outside world too much..u sure have headache de.

Days goes by, you 2 would have opinion difference & sparks will lit, finally become a quarrel like a daily meals. This happens to me when we are in name of man & wife...

No trying to biased towards them but some of my friends or colleague do face the same problem I had with their cheena wife.. I had enough of it therefore i walk out of it, living happily now but still bonk their nation ppl with no looking back..

Think twice before u sign the dotted line with PRC!!!!!!!

the use of the word "cheena" already tells me a lot about your biasness towards the PRCs.

[Chengdu dog]

From what I understand about PRC girls .. not all are that bad.

The good ones normally do not want to marry to aboard

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by qqboy

there is a very popular dating variety show in china 非诚勿扰. I recommend bros who are interested in marrying prc girls to watch this show to understand how prc girls choose their boyfriends. Here is one episode http://video.sina.com.cn/p/eladies/q...560502146.html

这些都是假的，都是电视台安排好的

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by rudolf

Bro Applepie,

Standing on the point of marrying a PRC gal, I would seriously advice you to consider as I am a living example in the past.

Should be ".... I would seriously ADVISE you to consider......".

"Advice" is a noun.

[GreenHouse]

Originally Posted by superacer

birds of the same feather flock together...

you are also a dreg,

no wonder you called yourself "idontknow" !

what else do you know ?

Yes, bro superacer.
I'm not a follower, but I supported your comments to this "idontknow" and drekman asshole.

[boy_penang]

bro applepie99,

end of the day, i think it doesn't matter if its a china girl or not.

it goes back to basic when courting a girl.

if it takes you so much effort, so much time, so much hardship to get to

know this girl, it actually pays off, compared to knowing her the easy way.



2 years is not really a long time. if she loves you & understands you, she will not push for any marriage if you're not ready.

so is it, the other way round.

having the mum to urge for a marriage it not a good thing.

does her mum always have a say in the things that she must or not do?

isn't it for her & you to decide when it comes to things like marriage?



don't take your previous 6years relationship as a excuse that time does not prove anything.

that is wrong. it is a one case thing, & you should be smarter, learning from your past mistakes & strive to look ahead & not look back.

when its time to marry her, you will know. you will know that you can really count on her, rather than asking us here in the forum.

That is when you are READY.

Besides, if she can hold on to you for a relationship (let's just say for another 2-3years) without complaning, what is another 20-30 years down the road?



my 2 cents,
B_P.

cheers.

[yunao]

How abt those china girls working in production line?

[casanovano]

Bro apple:
ask urself 1st... you say there is no different from you having a local or prc wife due to ur travel business trip than ask urself this.. if u married with her where is she going to stay..??? in singapore ?? for what half of the time you are not here... yes married her please if u love her... AND TEACH U A CLEVER WAY MARRIED HER IN CHINA I.E register her there.. in this way, u save a lot of trouble... she live there... things there are cheaper guess what?? anything goes wrong their law seldom can reach and affect ur asset here... another plus point is even u both not togather u still have ur single status here.... hehehehe because she is already there, she will not be affected by our singapore thinking complain non stop.... instead you gave her a status back home... easier to manage things..

Disclaimer: i only see my bro do this and happen to work out well for him.. so if u do not work well please dun blame you bro here i am also trying to be nice and help...

[Thelonius]

Originally Posted by yunao

How abt those china girls working in production line?

I have a very good impression on most of them. I find that they are very hardworking and thrifty. I once had a relationship with one and she always try to help me save money. When we go out, cannot take cabs, only buses and train. Cannot go to places with +++ to eat, only hawker centers and coffeeshops.

Come to my place to watch dvd but she end up cleaning sweeping and mopping my room. Really a good girl.

Cannot say that all are good but higher possibility of finding some good ones from those that are working in sg in the factories.

[yunao]

Originally Posted by Thelonius

I have a very good impression on most of them. I find that they are very hardworking and thrifty.

Cannot say that all are good but higher possibility of finding some good ones from those that are working in sg in the factories.

Totally agree with you bro, some of them working very hard and keep doing ot without resting and forget to mention some very chio.
I myself also cannot tahan keep doing ot somemore it at night shift.

[RealEstateGuy]

Those sound like good women. I'm sure they are not FL girls. Brothers, marry the gal who loves you more than you love her. Not the other way around. Put her though tests of her love for you and willingness to stand by you. Not her testing you all the time. A lof of the FL stand by you not because of you but because of what you have. Brothers be careful. Marraige is a major event in life.