The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 118

fusion1984 · #**1756** 16-07-2012, 10:34 AM

Hi bros I didn't marry the one I love the most but instead she is the one whom I feel can last the longest. Think of it this way if we were to marry the one whom we love the most we will give into their request all the time and if things don't work out won't that be shitty

Castrol · #**1757** 16-07-2012, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by fusion1984

Hi bros I didn't marry the one I love the most but instead she is the one whom I feel can last the longest. Think of it this way if we were to marry the one whom we love the most we will give into their request all the time and if things don't work out won't that be shitty

we marry the women for various reasons.
but remember - no matter how good she looks.. how sweet she is.. how huge her tits are.. somebody, somewhere, is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.

wehehehe · #**1758** 18-07-2012, 02:36 PM

hmm just wondering how do you know which woman you love most?
Using the scenario of 2 or more girls drowning in the rivers, who will you save first?

babystraw · #**1759** 19-07-2012, 01:20 AM

actually isnt being the one that love you most the best? being a giver will always be the one tat is hurt then the reciever

daring70 · #**1760** 19-07-2012, 08:05 AM

bro, you're a wise man, i wish i did the same

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Originally Posted by fusion1984

Hi bros I didn't marry the one I love the most but instead she is the one whom I feel can last the longest. Think of it this way if we were to marry the one whom we love the most we will give into their request all the time and if things don't work out won't that be shitty

fusion1984 · #**1761** 19-07-2012, 10:09 PM

Hi bro saw one of our brother post if tw girl were to fall into the river who will you save first(if from my brain it's my wife)(from my heart of course is the one whom you love the most)

zunbo · #**1762** 29-07-2012, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by fusion1984

Hi bro saw one of our brother post if tw girl were to fall into the river who will you save first(if from my brain it's my wife)(from my heart of course is the one whom you love the most)

save first but can save both..hehe :d

theUnforgotten · #**1763** 29-07-2012, 07:33 PM

Bump thread!

Btw I just add my thoughts, "marriage is a journey, not the destination" personally I don't think having that piece of paper called the "marriage cert" defines one love to another .

I will marry or live with the one I feel most comfortable with and to share a life together, it most likely won't be the one I love the most but it be pretty darn close.

zunbo · #**1764** 06-08-2012, 08:05 PM

Men can be as vulnerable to making these mistakes as women. Older people aren’t exempt either. Regardless of age or gender, the desire to marry, to have a constant partner, and to share a life is a healthy one. However, a wedding that’s a mistaken solution to personal or couple problems won’t guarantee a happily-ever-after marriage. That requires a union of two complete and whole adults who love each other deeply, unselfishly, and respectfully and who share a commitment to keep their wedding vows. Only then can a bond be created that withstands life’s challenges and deepens over time. Possible?

Baalthaczzaar · #**1765** 06-08-2012, 10:05 PM

The one you love the most, might not be the one who love you the most.
The one who love you the most, might not be the one you love the most

Love is afterall just love, must also take other factors into consideration...like compatibility in characters, money and many many more. Sometimes, you do not just marry one person, you marry the family...

iPhone · #**1766** 01-12-2012, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by senja88

why asked such rhetoric question, bro? ppl come here to tcss and share escapade.

anyway, for the record, i leave my miss love at home and bring mr lust with me when go chionging. to me that is clear enough.

Sorry bro I emo lah. I want to marry right!

HCKing · #**1767** 01-12-2012, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by zunbo

Men can be as vulnerable to making these mistakes as women. Older people aren’t exempt either. Regardless of age or gender, the desire to marry, to have a constant partner, and to share a life is a healthy one. However, a wedding that’s a mistaken solution to personal or couple problems won’t guarantee a happily-ever-after marriage. That requires a union of two complete and whole adults who love each other deeply, unselfishly, and respectfully and who share a commitment to keep their wedding vows. Only then can a bond be created that withstands life’s challenges and deepens over time. Possible?

sounds good but IMHO not possible, as everything in this world will change.

feelings will change, ppl will change, nothing stays forever.

even if u dont change, doesnt mean she wont change, which is y i still believe that love is fated.

asdfghjkl · #**1768** 01-12-2012, 03:51 PM

members here rather marry their love but not mutual or someone they dun love but the wife love dearly..

deludedgal · #**1769** 01-12-2012, 10:49 PM

define love?

kengohchien · #**1770** 02-12-2012, 12:21 AM

love fades after marriage.

if you marry someone you dont love, you have a lifetime to learn to love the person. and in the end, love just fades off to a mutual need for companionship.

Maybe we should all not marry the one we love for fear that marriage erodes the love.

love doesn't last forever.