The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[foursquare]

Originally Posted by frivolous_ami

Gals really not easy to understand. I zi dong disappear precisely cos she married. Now really wondering wtf happening to her? Any comments?

sometimes doing the right thing feels wrong?

[Filza]

I only have one lifetime, no point spending my lifetime when i know she is not the right one.

However life always go against our will but I will choose to divorce no matter what and wait for the right one.

[Alf1977]

Originally Posted by frivolous_ami

Used to like this gal a lot. She got married not long ago. Didnt keep in touch also cos someone's wife liao. Then she suddenly sms me say havent hear from me for long time and how ve i been. :/

I was thinking last time 6 mths to 1 yr never keep touch she also bo la sa. :/ i reply sms ask her how she is and she didnt respond liao.

Gals really not easy to understand. I zi dong disappear precisely cos she married. Now really wondering wtf happening to her? Any comments?

Maybe u replied her too late then she found another guy to go out le...

Sometimes married women may seek revenge outside if they know their husbands are fooling outside... Just playing tic for tat... So guys who fool outside or call prostitutes must be able to take it when wives being fuxk by other guys or call gigolos..


If a man really love his wife, why would he go n fuxk other woman?


Love is so fragile!!! But in order not to hurt yourself,we must always learn to love ourselves more than we love our gfs/wives cause when breakup/divorce/quarrels time, we won't suffer much.


Just maintain our appearances n even if our partner leave us, we can find other partner easily.

[owl888]

Sometimes got to be realistic. Look at our PM, do u think he's still got feelings for his current wife HC?

I can bet that he still loves his ex-wife most. But life moves on........

[frivolous_ami]

Originally Posted by foursquare

sometimes doing the right thing feels wrong?

Sometimes do anything also seems wrong. Qian jing liang nan. Somehow i think do nothing should be the right thing. Dun wan to appear on papers for wrong reason. Haha

[frivolous_ami]

Originally Posted by Alf1977

Maybe u replied her too late then she found another guy to go out le...

May be. I a bit cold hearted too, prob also cos i was bz courting another gal at that time. You could right. Thinking about it, there is no loss still. Forest is green. Plenty of trees.

But what i dont quite understand is why she would sms me after her wedding and its for no apparent purpose. At least, i would expect her to ask if i would be free to go for her house warming. Mei shi san bao dian. A bit strange. May b i thinking too much.

[Alf1977]

Originally Posted by frivolous_ami

May be. I a bit cold hearted too, prob also cos i was bz courting another gal at that time. You could right. Thinking about it, there is no loss still. Forest is green. Plenty of trees.

But what i dont quite understand is why she would sms me after her wedding and its for no apparent purpose. At least, i would expect her to ask if i would be free to go for her house warming. Mei shi san bao dian. A bit strange. May b i thinking too much.

Bro, there are plenty of reasons why a woman will msg you.. Maybe she is not hinting on extra activities .. Just that she us bored n want to find any guy for company/for a drink/chat coz her hubby not free or she really want to find revenge for her hubby's wrong doing...

Anyway women are meant to be played... I wont be surprised if she call/SMS u in these few weeks. Women are unpredictable creatures but if you know their patterns/weak spots/likes, it's really not that difficult to conquer her. That is why there are silly girls who will use all her hard earned money n give to guys they barely know.

[frivolous_ami]

Precisely. Cant tell whats in their mind. Better steer clear i feel. Skali turn around with a powerful sting. Can die siah. :'(

[zunbo]

Originally Posted by owl888

Sometimes got to be realistic. Look at our PM, do u think he's still got feelings for his current wife HC?

I can bet that he still loves his ex-wife most. But life moves on........

that is a very loaded question for thought

[LovePotion]

Originally Posted by talismanicme

They like to mess us with our hearts. It's always this case.

I learn from one of my customer. He told me this also and in order to prevent ourself from getting hurt we should...

1st)Throw money on the girl
2nd) Throw false hope
3rd) Throw in our real feelings

The reason why we hurt so badly and got messed up because we throw in our real feeling first.

The reason why many married to those that they dun loved most is because before they reach the 3rd step, they already closed to deal and got married.

if they reach the 3rd step, i believe the current gal will overtake the previous one

[iPhone]

Originally Posted by LovePotion

I learn from one of my customer. He told me this also and in order to prevent ourself from getting hurt we should...

1st)Throw money on the girl
2nd) Throw false hope
3rd) Throw in our real feelings

The reason why we hurt so badly and got messed up because we throw in our real feeling first.

man's weakness is more apparent than his strength?

[TheHornyDevilz]

Sometimes when we touch, the honesty's too much, and I have to hold my heas and cry...

[High till Dry]

this thread still alive huh? haha

[callmebad]

This is very normal.
The one you loved most is not the one you married.
The one you loved most may not love you strong enough to be your spouse.
That's why you can see a lot of sad sex stories, one night stand, extra-marital affairs.

[d'Artagnan]

Originally Posted by callmebad

This is very normal.
The one you loved most is not the one you married.
The one you loved most may not love you strong enough to be your spouse.
That's why you can see a lot of sad sex stories, one night stand, extra-marital affairs.

i think question is why? ironic - no love y marry? if knew doomed from beginin