Wife who neglected husband and lost interest in sex

[kukuchai]

Any bros out there in 40s and wife avoiding to have sex, also almost neglected to perform their duty as wife to pamper the husband?
I have been facing this issues for 2-3 years ever since we have kids, really tired of it. Many things crossing my mind, go out Cheong which there are plenty of option, find another mistress…..many times women blame men for being disloyal however, now I start to understand why many still doing it.

[Sunwon]

Originally Posted by kukuchai

Any bros out there in 40s and wife avoiding to have sex, also almost neglected to perform their duty as wife to pamper the husband?
I have been facing this issues for 2-3 years ever since we have kids, really tired of it. Many things crossing my mind, go out Cheong which there are plenty of option, find another mistress…..many times women blame men for being disloyal however, now I start to understand why many still doing it.

Better to sit down and have a nice honest chat with her..

BTW, before that, she high, med or low in liking sex? Then the answer may be there

[wokesterism]

Originally Posted by kukuchai

Any bros out there in 40s and wife avoiding to have sex, also almost neglected to perform their duty as wife to pamper the husband?
I have been facing this issues for 2-3 years ever since we have kids, really tired of it. Many things crossing my mind, go out Cheong which there are plenty of option, find another mistress…..many times women blame men for being disloyal however, now I start to understand why many still doing it.

Thanks for sharing.

[forbe]

Originally Posted by Sunwon

Better to sit down and have a nice honest chat with her..

BTW, before that, she high, med or low in liking sex? Then the answer may be there

Agree with you.

[dreamgal]

Have a chat with your wife and give her sometime.

[talkshow]

Most women near menopause will have sex drive decline.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by kukuchai

Any bros out there in 40s and wife avoiding to have sex, also almost neglected to perform their duty as wife to pamper the husband?
I have been facing this issues for 2-3 years ever since we have kids, really tired of it. Many things crossing my mind, go out Cheong which there are plenty of option, find another mistress…..many times women blame men for being disloyal however, now I start to understand why many still doing it.

This forum was created precisely for husbands in your position.

Please proceed to book one of the lovely ladies advertised here or go to the Geylang section to peruse the legal fuck options.

[fangy]

Originally Posted by kukuchai

Any bros out there in 40s and wife avoiding to have sex, also almost neglected to perform their duty as wife to pamper the husband?
I have been facing this issues for 2-3 years ever since we have kids, really tired of it. Many things crossing my mind, go out Cheong which there are plenty of option, find another mistress…..many times women blame men for being disloyal however, now I start to understand why many still doing it.

Go to Geylang. Wham bang thank you ma’am

[VietnamAirliner]

Originally Posted by dreamgal

Have a chat with your wife and give her sometime.

Agree with you. Communication is the correct way.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by VietnamAirliner

Agree with you. Communication is the correct way.

That won't help as the wife will communicate the fact that she has lost interest in sex while the husband will emphasise his need for sex. Nothing will be said that actually helps matters.

[donut88]

That's why now I believe that wives need to be alot younger than the hubby.

By my calculation, she shld be 10 years youngers.

Women's bio health is different from men. They suffer from childbirth, menopause issues later in life.

Many will have menopause by 40. Men at 40 are still very active. Then how? What we expect the hubby to do?

Actually I always suspect wives know that hubby will somehow eat outside. But they just don't wan to talk about it.

It's just common sense. They know they not interested in sex anymore. And they will start to wonder how the hubby will cope. And it's common sense that they know the hubby will find an outlet somehow. It's a open secret that wives don't want to talk about it.

My own example. Wife 3 years younger. no longer keen coz of menopause issue. All my FBs are 10 years younger. And they are still v active. And they like my age because of maturity and security.

So it draws my conclusion and belief about ideal age gap for married couples.

[prizzi_65]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

That won't help as the wife will communicate the fact that she has lost interest in sex while the husband will emphasise his need for sex. Nothing will be said that actually helps matters.

I am in such situation for the last 20 years. Our sex life became very little after we had children. Last 15 years at least a few time a year. Last 5 years maybe once or twice a year. Over these 20 years, my view on the matter has changed.

In my 40s and early 50s, I still have the interest while hers was diminishing. I could not really comprehend. I tried different methods to engage her. I do become frustrated.

In the last 5 years (late 50s), I am beginning to understand from her standpoint. As she ages, it was very easy to get urinal infection. A few times we do the deed, she end up with an infection. It caused her to resent the act. Not that she don't love me, it is barriers. As I get older now, I sort of lost interest in the matter too. Given our physical states, we no longer can enjoy the occassion too frequently. These last two years, I do not even attempt to initiate the deed. Not I don't love her. Not I eat outside (too expensive). Similar we have 'moved' onto a different level in our relationship. I no longer feel frustrated about the thought of 'begging'. I truly understood why she is not interested. In recent months, she tried to initiate one. I silently declined by focusing on other things (I want to watch a movie, my excuse).

Last time is she want, I give. Now it become until the point when the deed is done only when BOTH of us wants it.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by prizzi_65

I am in such situation for the last 20 years. Our sex life became very little after we had children. Last 15 years at least a few time a year. Last 5 years maybe once or twice a year. Over these 20 years, my view on the matter has changed.

In my 40s and early 50s, I still have the interest while hers was diminishing. I could not really comprehend. I tried different methods to engage her. I do become frustrated.

In the last 5 years (late 50s), I am beginning to understand from her standpoint. As she ages, it was very easy to get urinal infection. A few times we do the deed, she end up with an infection. It caused her to resent the act. Not that she don't love me, it is barriers. As I get older now, I sort of lost interest in the matter too. Given our physical states, we no longer can enjoy the occassion too frequently. These last two years, I do not even attempt to initiate the deed. Not I don't love her. Not I eat outside (too expensive). Similar we have 'moved' onto a different level in our relationship. I no longer feel frustrated about the thought of 'begging'. I truly understood why she is not interested. In recent months, she tried to initiate one. I silently declined by focusing on other things (I want to watch a movie, my excuse).

Last time is she want, I give. Now it become until the point when the deed is done only when BOTH of us wants it.

I've been around long enough to realise that men need an outlet for the sexual needs. Wanking helps but ultimately periodic real sex is a prerequiste to preserve the mental health of the male species.

When the authorities and the spouses make it next to impossible for men to get regular fucks the whole country suffers a loss of productivity and innovation, violent crime rises while family relationships deteriorate to the point where innocent children suffer too.

[rajjnu]

This is a common problem few years after marriage and having kids in most cases and only solution is to enjoy outside food in moderation while maintaining harmony in the family at the same time.

[jgosh80]

Communication only works in textbook theories.

If a woman has no sex drive, u tok until lanjiao drop off also no use. Only make the wife angry, defensive, agitated, upset or piss off.

I totally agree no point talking to wife cos only worsen the situation. It a very common scenario in most sporean households especially with sporean women. Maybe the younger gen girls diff and they more open and enjoy sex but definitely the female millennials and above are generally quite sexless.