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[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by kaypohkia

Yeah very true.

I watched a psychology video before that shared in healthy relationships, both parties give and take close to equal such that no one is keeping score, in the sense 'transactions' take place but it all balances out nicely.

And so the 'giving' part works, because when one gives, the other gives also.

Only when one party is entitled and takes too much, then the giver will start to feel resentment.

its all about reward and benefit.

if you are someone who has enough power, status, finance, that the woman who cheats will lose more than she can get outside, she will stay faithful

but if she doesn't mind losing you, or not find you interesting anymore and something outside seems attractive, given the right temptation, they will cheat and leave.

[Tonson1]

Damn shiok bro

[LooksLikeJesus]

Originally Posted by norib

Just turned 28. I spent most of this past year traveling and meeting girls, mostly in Thailand and Vietnam. Some cute girls, but I can fuck and forget, whatever. Later in July arrive in Bangkok and meet beautiful ML. I try to forget but keep seeing her every day. Now I can't move on. Want to stay and date her now. But have to leave for work and may not come back for at least 1 year. Thinking about quitting and try to find job in Thailand instead, but it's stupid I think. Brain dun wanna waste future earnings just to see her, but heart wants stay with her. I have savings to live on another 1 year no problem. maybe try to find job in 1 year, if can't find good one, maybe have to forget lah.

Any woman in this service are to be fuck and forget. Sammyboss also said so. Even if you've rich parents. Their material needs are simply not sustainable.

[yyy12369]

Dear bros, just wanna seek your opinions here…

Has been visiting various ML for quite awhile already but never had a regular…
Recently, more frequent w one viet ML and kinda more of a regular with her now and has been wechatting along the way..

Today she shared she lost $300… she said she took $400 out, but after that lost $300, only left $100… she say money is for her to give family when going back Vietnam in Jan… kinda weird story in my opinion…

Well, she didn’t ask me for money (maybe thats her next step)… just sharing she very sad and want to cry etc..

For the experience bros out there, how true is this in your opinion?
Is this how they operate? Play the pity card first? 😅😅

[chinacuntlover]

Once pay off the FL girl fee for coming sg, with her sobbing
Regret until now.

Go read massage section, where samsters calculated massage girl easily out earn many silliporean

[EtherC]

Are you looking for s3x or love?
Do you see yourself able to marry the girl and bring her into your family & friend groups?

Once you start paying outside of the exchange of services , it becomes a personal relationship. From my experience in the forum & IRL it seldom ends well because you are giving the girl a monetary reward for doing nothing. She holds power over you once you give & the sob stories will keep coming. Until you break out of it after suffering enough financial loss supporting the "imaginary problems". Most Vietbu are tougher than you think.

Good luck , cheong safe & Merry Xmas!

Originally Posted by yyy12369

Dear bros, just wanna seek your opinions here…

Has been visiting various ML for quite awhile already but never had a regular…
Recently, more frequent w one viet ML and kinda more of a regular with her now and has been wechatting along the way..

Today she shared she lost $300… she said she took $400 out, but after that lost $300, only left $100… she say money is for her to give family when going back Vietnam in Jan… kinda weird story in my opinion…

Well, she didn’t ask me for money (maybe thats her next step)… just sharing she very sad and want to cry etc..

For the experience bros out there, how true is this in your opinion?
Is this how they operate? Play the pity card first? 😅😅

[Naka_Timo]

Originally Posted by EtherC

Are you looking for s3x or love?
Do you see yourself able to marry the girl and bring her into your family & friend groups?

Good luck , cheong safe & Merry Xmas!

Upped you +162 to hit 1000 points.

[AgentX87788]

Everyone got their soft spot. Dont be too hard on yourself