Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

1) A viet holding LTSVP wants to seperate/divorce her husband because he is ill treating her. I presume that this LTSVP pass will immediately be cancelled once this is done and that she has to return to Vietnam immediately.

2) If after divorce, what are a chances of getting another LTSVP and/or PR if she re-marries another Singaporean? She has another Singaporean bf who intends to marry her after her divorce is official.

3) The implication of all these is that supposing she loves "life in Singapore better than in Vietnam", does it mean that she has to tolerate her husband ill treatment?

1) not clear what you want to ask...you meant after divorce...yes the LTSVP will be cancelled...

2) Depends on the merits of her divorce...high chance she will not get another LTVSP...this woman will not be welcome to sinkie...may takes up to 3 years for the divorce...

3) if she can prove that her husband beat her...then this is criminal and state will prosecute the husband on her behalf...

I think she has another bf that's why all these bs stories of ill treatment...her real motives to file for divorce...

Just my 2 cents worth...

[ansonsohna]

According to her (and her friends as well). Her husband does not give her any money at all and she had to live on scraps (and charity provided by her friends). He also scolds and shout at her often to the point that it becomes unbearable for her.

Because of all these, she has to seek another person to take care of her (carrothead?).

But all things considered, Singapore still offers her a better life than in Vietnam. She is afraid that with divorce, the LTSVP pass will be cancelled and she has to live Singapore IMMEDIATELY. (She want to work and earn a little money first then return home - if life becomes intolerable).

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

According to her (and her friends as well). Her husband does not give her any money at all and she had to live on scraps (and charity provided by her friends). He also scolds and shout at her often to the point that it becomes unbearable for her.

Because of all these, she has to seek another person to take care of her (carrothead?).

But all things considered, Singapore still offers her a better life than in Vietnam. She is afraid that with divorce, the LTSVP pass will be cancelled and she has to live Singapore IMMEDIATELY. (She want to work and earn a little money first then return home - if life becomes intolerable).

If what she say is true,then is another sad case for a vietnamese spouse.The LTVP sponsor was her husband,so if the divorce case was file,chances of her going back is high or immediately but if she has a very solid reason to stay here,they might extend or give her few months of visa but she CANNOT WORK.

She told u life here is better,almost all of them who came from poor family will say so but if she want to work,she have to take the risk of working illegally and if get caught,she will be denied coming in next time

she seek another person as a carrot cake to take care of her,so i bet she might not be as pity as what she told u since she is doing something bad behind her husband back even before they start the divorce which i deem as she have a 'motive' of coming here.Maybe u just heard one side of the story only

[Honey Boon]

i will forward my resume to your email later ..... do consider me

Originally Posted by jackbl

I always remember this golden advice from you. Even I know alot, I need time to be there and take care of it then I will run a biz.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

i will forward my resume to your email later ..... do consider me

me too. i can do many roles for your biz. from chauffeuring to quality controlling...

[Honey Boon]

walao .... like that you also want to "fight" with me

ok la... you take first la

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

me too. i can do many roles for your biz. from chauffeuring to quality controlling...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by ansonsohna

According to her (and her friends as well). Her husband does not give her any money at all and she had to live on scraps (and charity provided by her friends). He also scolds and shout at her often to the point that it becomes unbearable for her.

Because of all these, she has to seek another person to take care of her (carrothead?).

But all things considered, Singapore still offers her a better life than in Vietnam. She is afraid that with divorce, the LTSVP pass will be cancelled and she has to live Singapore IMMEDIATELY. (She want to work and earn a little money first then return home - if life becomes intolerable).

i am not being bias, but she shouldn't have a bf so fast, even before divorcing her husband. From the looks of it, it seems that she has a bf and wants to divorce from her husband as the bf seems to be a better catch than the husband.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

me too. i can do many roles for your biz. from chauffeuring to quality controlling...

quality controlling as to ???

[volcano]

Originally Posted by Golden question

she seek another person as a carrot cake to take care of her,so i bet she might not be as pity as what she told u since she is doing something bad behind her husband back

that's the reason why i don't feel like answering the question when i saw it.

from my point of view,this gal actually thinks that she has found herself a "yao qian shu" and will be living like a "tai tai" in Sinkapor.

once dreams shattered,she is finding other ways to fulfill her dreams....

if her husband really treats her like a thrash and ill treat her,will she have the freedom to go out as she likes and eventually meet the "carrot head"........and still have time for them to develop relation.

i hope what i think is not true,but at this moment,she looks just like a black sheep to me.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Why she borrow and you pay? I warned my wife before, don't go borrow from loan sharks for her family and ask me to pay, i will never pay.

Same Same .. me too ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

few years ago when i first went vietnam my first vietnam friend,a man,told me open internet cafe is good business,later another of my wife friend told me open a resturant sell pho is good business.

Lucky my wife told me,dont throw your money in vietnam,is very difficult to own money cos evrything i dont know

Everything is Good Business in Vietnam ... as long as you got $$ to help flush their Saigon River

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i am not being bias, but she shouldn't have a bf so fast, even before divorcing her husband. From the looks of it, it seems that she has a bf and wants to divorce from her husband as the bf seems to be a better catch than the husband.

Originally Posted by volcano

that's the reason why i don't feel like answering the question when i saw it.

from my point of view,this gal actually thinks that she has found herself a "yao qian shu" and will be living like a "tai tai" in Sinkapor.

once dreams shattered,she is finding other ways to fulfill her dreams....

if her husband really treats her like a thrash and ill treat her,will she have the freedom to go out as she likes and eventually meet the "carrot head"........and still have time for them to develop relation.

i hope what i think is not true,but at this moment,she looks just like a black sheep to me.

我也有同感.

I think she just trying her means to stay here. If this guy cannot, try another one loh as so many horny broz out there.

Bro ansohsaha, hope tat "carrot head" is not u. Be wary, dun be labelled as a 第三者 or "home breaker". Also dun advise her on anything regarding her 家事, if anything turned out bad, she will blame u. After all we r just outsiders n dun know the whole picture.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Everything is Good Business in Vietnam ... as long as you got $$ to help flush their Saigon River

hhaaha, actually the main thing is that lots of research needs to be done first before investing. The management of business is entirely different from Singapore.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

hhaaha, actually the main thing is that lots of research needs to be done first before investing. The management of business is entirely different from Singapore.

Yeah, I agreed on what you mentioned ...

I guess it's not only the management of the business itself ... there are many factors like Time , Expectations , Attitude , Thinking and etc etc ...

You have to be strict but also not that strict ...
You have to be stingy but also not that stingy ...
You have to be Kind but also not that kind ...

There are many many things to do beside Research ... Stay enough in Vietnam to make a judegment call ...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

You have to be strict but also not that strict ...
You have to be stingy but also not that stingy ...
You have to be Kind but also not that kind ...

very deep...