Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 783

shysaint · #**11731** 30-10-2011, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by V|ernar

The problem is when you cancel the permit , you only had some days to stay in Singapore . Everything must chop chop do

Yes , they will 1st ask you to do a VP extension 1st then after that then do the LTVP application ... So is no problem ...

10 days n above .... U can log into LTVP portal n apply n the system will prompt u do do a VP extension n if u agree, proceed to extend n then continue the LTVP application .

Less than 10 days , system don't allow u to apply LTVP , you have apply to extend VP , once VP approves n paid up, then u can re-login to apply for LTvP.

jf66312 · #**11732** 31-10-2011, 08:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I think enough info in this forum to apply for PR...

As a son in-law you cannot escape visiting in-laws for TET unless your marriage is more than 10 years liao...smart move if she goes first and you go back to fetch them back...

I had seen several cases that wife brought babies home alone and created a huge stress for them. Babies need plenty of help and best if wife can have another helper while travelling...personally I had helped a few mothers before...

hehe...yup..she would be going with my fren's wife first...but i still worry cant handle ..2 ladies with 2 babies...

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Originally Posted by Golden question

she go back vn,u also headache

due to money or u miss her

haha..both....got to give her money first as she will go first...then will miss her and little oc...

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Time flies, before you know it, its going to be the 5th year ...

yup..time really flies....babies also grow very fast...next mth 1 yrs old liao...

shysaint · #**11733** 31-10-2011, 09:11 AM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

hehe...yup..she would be going with my fren's wife first...but i still worry cant handle ..2 ladies with 2 babies...

YEs . so far I have been flying ... and I observed that a Gal carrying a baby back home is sometimes too much for them to handle ... Baby ... Lugguages .. etc .. IF Beast Feeding .. Lagi Worse ...

HOwever ... I also see there are alot of kind soul Vietnamese GUY helping those ladies out !!!

If you guys are NOT jealous about it , I guessed that's fine

or probably you won't get to know about it ... I guess if I Can I will help too .. knowing the difficulty of the situation ...

Therefore, I will NOT let my Wife Go Back alone unless Really NO Choice ...

jf66312 · #**11734** 31-10-2011, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

YEs . so far I have been flying ... and I observed that a Gal carrying a baby back home is sometimes too much for them to handle ... Baby ... Lugguages .. etc .. IF Beast Feeding .. Lagi Worse ...

HOwever ... I also see there are alot of kind soul Vietnamese GUY helping those ladies out !!!

If you guys are NOT jealous about it , I guessed that's fine

or probably you won't get to know about it ... I guess if I Can I will help too .. knowing the difficulty of the situation ...

Therefore, I will NOT let my Wife Go Back alone unless Really NO Choice ...

am ok..its just that worry troublesome cost by that time , think my little one can walk already...then if naughty , got to run after him and also carry luggage...tough....

but whenever talk abt this topic, my bxa buc boi roi...keep thinking that i dun wan her to go back ( which is partly true

).... though i say not dun want her to go back but only not during TET when so crowded then bring little oc tough...

jackbl · #**11735** 31-10-2011, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

...keep thinking that i dun wan her to go back ( which is partly true

).... though i say not dun want her to go back but only not during TET when so crowded then bring little oc tough...

Tell her u missed her, cannot be without her during the festive season

jf66312 · #**11736** 31-10-2011, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Tell her u missed her, cannot be without her during the festive season

yup..told her then she told me , u come with me to vn lol....

shysaint · #**11737** 31-10-2011, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

yup..told her then she told me , u come with me to vn lol....

if u miss her .. u must follow her back mah ...

jackbl · #**11738** 31-10-2011, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

yup..told her then she told me , u come with me to vn lol....

Tell her that sin chinese new year only 2 days. Let u stay back then after that join her in vn.... vn got 7-10 days, it will be announced when it get close to the day.

V|ernar · #**11739** 31-10-2011, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

yup..told her then she told me , u come with me to vn lol....

i always tell them if you love me .. you will come and find me ..

hehe .. old trick but still useful

SingViet · #**11740** 31-10-2011, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by jf66312

am ok..its just that worry troublesome cost by that time , think my little one can walk already...then if naughty , got to run after him and also carry luggage...tough....

but whenever talk abt this topic, my bxa buc boi roi...keep thinking that i dun wan her to go back ( which is partly true

).... though i say not dun want her to go back but only not during TET when so crowded then bring little oc tough...

Its the tradition during TET to gamble day and night. They will always tell you its small money but i have heard of many Viet spouse losing US$3k to US$5k during TET gambling. Husband must bring money back to pay back before they return to Singapore. So always warn your spouse about gambling. I always tell my wife not to tell me its small money, many `small money' will snowball to `big money' . I also tell her, if she gamble away a lot of money, i will not pay for her. i do not allow gambling.

SingViet · #**11741** 31-10-2011, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by V|ernar

i always tell them if you love me .. you will come and find me ..

hehe .. old trick but still useful

They find you, you pay for air ticket. If not, they work to earn back. You call this `love.? i call this business transaction....

V|ernar · #**11742** 31-10-2011, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

They find you, you pay for air ticket. If not, they work to earn back. You call this `love.? i call this business transaction....

i call this " they love me , i didnt say i love them ~ "

seriously until now i havent paid for any WL air ticket yet , cause i dont believe in WL .

i on a mission to hunt for decent ones , it will be hard as i heard a few brothers had been finding for years .

Honey Boon · #**11743** 31-10-2011, 04:07 PM

keep trying..... you will find your true love one day

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Originally Posted by V|ernar

i on a mission to hunt for decent ones , it will be hard as i heard a few brothers had been finding for years .

V|ernar · #**11744** 31-10-2011, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

keep trying..... you will find your true love one day

Slowly find lor , I still have time . Hehe

jf66312 · #**11745** 31-10-2011, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Its the tradition during TET to gamble day and night. They will always tell you its small money but i have heard of many Viet spouse losing US$3k to US$5k during TET gambling. Husband must bring money back to pay back before they return to Singapore. So always warn your spouse about gambling. I always tell my wife not to tell me its small money, many `small money' will snowball to `big money' . I also tell her, if she gamble away a lot of money, i will not pay for her. i do not allow gambling.

yup....i asked her how much she need to bring back for TET ,she told me she intend to bring $3k....