Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

i realise vnam gals don't really like beach reasort in vnam, may be due to hot sun. they prefer mountain/cool places like Dalat, "Hui" or Sapa

but i like beaches, tried Vung Tau and Nha Trang this year. of course compare to some world class beaches around SEA like M'sia and Thailand, vnam beach resorts still less commericial, not much night activities and etc.

will try phu quoc and mui ne next year ..... happy happy, cheap and good

yah,most of them scare the hot sun,not like sg girl like to sun tan in their bikini

i go vung tau until sianz except i like the other end which is at the top of the slope whereby the speed boat stop.like the scenary though,nha trang beach more nice and ang mo like to go,they got one vina pearl park which is connected from the main land by cable car,not yet try yet

i like less commercial cos more orginal but is the people over there who dont know how to commercialise compare to bali and thai,thats why their tourism lack behind thai

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I hope you are not referring to yourself...

Cheap cheap...really how cheap...if 10-15k is not alot of money...end of the day the money is still with the ger...he may not even get to see the house when he was ditched and conned...dun think he even knew what's going on when he passed over the money...everything can be staged...ie. house, owner, landlord or seller, builder, etc...

my famouns quote "if you trust a WL then pigs also can climb trees"...

same thinking

[xxxx4]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro Greatking,

No point Getting Theory Lesson ... You have to go there Stay n Experience ..

To Him, To Me n To Some , Vn is a Good to stay ... Our Good also differs in certain way ...

To Others, Vn is a No No .. n the No No differs as well ..

Some may like the place for short transit but can't stand the place if staying for long ....

If you are interested to be a VH ,, then fly in n experience ... No Point "Talking War on Paper"

I am sure Bro Greatking's been to HCM before. He is enquiring about bros that are living there.

[volcano]

Originally Posted by jnlover

To be true... I've no fxxking idea why he's investing
He say he liked the calm and less stressful lifestyle... and also the opportunites of starting a BUILDING business there... cos the land and house is so CHEAP!

Whether he's able to registered as the owner of the house... that I don't know

if base on 12k sgd,then it is abt 200 million vnd....its possible to buy house at the village of a certain province....ur friend is not able to be registered as the owner of the house..

but why shld ur friend buy that house???

he like the calm n less stressful lifestyle???

how old is he???....he planning to retire in a village already???

wat business opportunity???....he heard it frm his so called gf or he sees it himself....and how much does he knows abt of Vietnam???

of cos not every gals also out to cheat money...for instance,my properties in Vietnam also under my wife's name,and in fact,tks to it,i actually make some from the property market.

but ur friend case is simply ridiculous....know that gal for a few months,come to Vietnam twice,then wants to buy a house for that gal???

tell ur friend not to be rash and let time answer all doubts....if that gal is serious abt him,even if he dun buy the house,the gal will still love him....if the gal is not serious abt him,the gal will just basically throw tantrums at him everyday n use other ways to "force" ur friend in buying the house.....n when ur friend eventually buys,the gal will also not leave him.she will keep on "forcing" ur friend to buy other things....but the best part is,the gal might have another lover staying together with her when ur friend is not around.

just my 2 vnd worth of advice...

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro Greatking,

No point Getting Theory Lesson ... You have to go there Stay n Experience ..

To Him, To Me n To Some , Vn is a Good to stay ... Our Good also differs in certain way ...

To Others, Vn is a No No .. n the No No differs as well ..

Some may like the place for short transit but can't stand the place if staying for long ....

If you are interested to be a VH ,, then fly in n experience ... No Point "Talking War on Paper"

Bro, been there a few times already... just that touring over there and staying for a long period of time is different.. that's why asking . Peace.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Got lah ... Got BaBy after many rounds of S*X ...

when i was with my no2 last time, she likes to touch her tummy and i ask her why. she replied, " baby cua anh"

Originally Posted by Golden question

same thinking

same here too...

Originally Posted by Golden question

yah,most of them scare the hot sun,not like sg girl like to sun tan in their bikini

yea fair VBs are generally vulnerable to the sun. in vung tau, VBs dun wear bikini... i saw them swim happily in the muddy trash waters of vung tau in their shirts/jeans... and men change openly in the publicly... saw old ppl do that too.. just that no VB does that... sianzzz

Originally Posted by Golden question

i go vung tau until sianz except i like the other end which is at the top of the slope whereby the speed boat stop

i was there is it near the jesus statue? but seriously food in vung tau is not cheap! or is it i kana slaughtered? one steamboat with fish for 2 pax cost us US$30

Originally Posted by Golden question

i like less commercial cos more orginal but is the people over there who dont know how to commercialise compare to bali and thai,thats why their tourism lack behind thai

i prefer commercialized a bit... at least the ppl more civilised and friendly to tourist... many viet r not friendly to foreigners when it comes to communication. i kana a K circle shop girl complained... wtf...

[SingViet]

I think i have mentioned several times in this thread, individual foreigners cannot own land in Vietnam. Foreign companies can own a land with house built on it, but for a limited number of years. So any money poured in for the VN gal to buy land and house is money wasted and cheated.

As for doing business in VN, still too many singaporeans think its a thriving and cheap market with large population. Yes it is but its not cheap. Their business culture is very much different from Singapore and its also very much different from the developed nations. Lots of red tapes from government side and lots of different character to handle in the mist of doing business. At the same time, competition is very stiff. So its not as simple as just dumping money and the money growing like no ones's business. Singaporeans only hear of foreigners investing in vn and making money there, but there never hear of foreigners making huge losses and exiting the market after a few years.

[jnlover]

Originally Posted by Golden question

same thinking

LOL... no lah
I am a poor stinkie trying very hard to support my family... let alone a WL

I am concern becos his my best friend for almost 3o yrs liao... sadly, I would not be to convince him currently... he's too into it already.

If I talk too much... our friendship might be affected... keep my fingers cross now, just hope he can take it when the truth surfaced.

[jnlover]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I think i have mentioned several times in this thread, individual foreigners cannot own land in Vietnam. Foreign companies can own a land with house built on it, but for a limited number of years. So any money poured in for the VN gal to buy land and house is money wasted and cheated.

As for doing business in VN, still too many singaporeans think its a thriving and cheap market with large population. Yes it is but its not cheap. Their business culture is very much different from Singapore and its also very much different from the developed nations. Lots of red tapes from government side and lots of different character to handle in the mist of doing business. At the same time, competition is very stiff. So its not as simple as just dumping money and the money growing like no ones's business. Singaporeans only hear of foreigners investing in vn and making money there, but there never hear of foreigners making huge losses and exiting the market after a few years.

Thanks bro... at least it clears my doubt.
Sadly... as mentioned above... he will have to learn the hard way

I do hope taking wedding photos together does not equate to marriage in VN... if not he will be in trouble!

Thanks everyone for the insightful comments!

[jnlover]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Ask him to check on this first before deciding. Know nothing about Vietnam n yet want to live, invest n own a business there? It is like throwing money into the ocean. In this case, throwing money to a WL n nothing in return except a few nights of expensive sex.

The wrost is he do it RAW every time
Sign...

[jnlover]

Originally Posted by volcano

if base on 12k sgd,then it is abt 200 million vnd....its possible to buy house at the village of a certain province....ur friend is not able to be registered as the owner of the house..

but why shld ur friend buy that house??? To live with her long term?
he like the calm n less stressful lifestyle??? That's what he say.
how old is he???....he planning to retire in a village already??? 40... retire in the WL pussy I think

wat business opportunity???....he heard it frm his so called gf or he sees it himself....and how much does he knows abt of Vietnam??? Both...

of cos not every gals also out to cheat money...for instance,my properties in Vietnam also under my wife's name,and in fact,tks to it,i actually make some from the property market.

but ur friend case is simply ridiculous....know that gal for a few months,come to Vietnam twice,then wants to buy a house for that gal??? Same sentiment
tell ur friend not to be rash and let time answer all doubts....if that gal is serious abt him,even if he dun buy the house,the gal will still love him....if the gal is not serious abt him,the gal will just basically throw tantrums at him everyday n use other ways to "force" ur friend in buying the house.....n when ur friend eventually buys,the gal will also not leave him.she will keep on "forcing" ur friend to buy other things....but the best part is,the gal might have another lover staying together with her when ur friend is not around.
I think he's deaf to these "noises" now!
just my 2 vnd worth of advice...

Thanks bro! appreciate!

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by volcano

if base on 12k sgd,then it is abt 200 million vnd....its possible to buy house at the village of a certain province....ur friend is not able to be registered as the owner of the house..

for my case, my gal say she sold her house at arnd $4K... possible?

Originally Posted by volcano

if that gal is serious abt him,even if he dun buy the house,the gal will still love him....if the gal is not serious abt him,the gal will just basically throw tantrums at him everyday n use other ways to "force" ur friend in buying the house.....n when ur friend eventually buys,the gal will also not leave him.she will keep on "forcing" ur friend to buy other things....

lucky i gv the impression that i'm so fxxking poor that i can't afford to help her settle her ah long debt which is abt $1k(due to air tix for multiple failed attempt into sin), let alone buying her house $4k hehe... cannot let them know u got money... recently she only mention about iphone 3 and ask me to help her source second hand one... as usual i use ti gong tactic again...

she still entertain me until now but im thinking if i have got any use for her besides go there fetch her here... but recently she say no need go fetch her alrdy and she will come in herself next month.

oh yea when got chance she will suan me poor by saying other guys rich... cb!

Originally Posted by volcano

the gal might have another lover staying together with her when ur friend is not around.

install spycam la :P install in toilet even better... if her girl friends come visit

[Honey Boon]

with the possible bonus of STD or HIVs

Originally Posted by shysaint

Got lah ... Got BaBy after many rounds of S*X ...

[Honey Boon]

when I took the speed boat to VT, thinking to stay at least few days. But after first night, don't really like the food there, next day took the early boat back to HCM. May be I didn't explore deep enough, should have given VT more time to explore, might go back again

as for Nha Trang, spent almost ten days there, no regret, explored the whole island, few days day tour with rented bike, much easier to ride compare to HCM. The mud bath and hot spring, must try. NIce seafood and local vnam food, even got Jap food at Nha Trang Centre (shopping center), of course nice beach with hot sun. Can swim even after dark, cos the beach got those lights like our stadium. After the swim, can buy seafood and beer at the beach or eat their "chewy gum" aka bbq cuttlefish.

then got island hopping, cheap and good, they even serve lunch and fruits on the boat, got live band to entertain you, got floating bar on the sea, visited a few marine aquarium, free snokering .....

Vin Pearl, must visit. is at another island, took either speed boat and highest cable car over. Everything is included in the island entrance ticket. One big Underwater World, one water themepark, another outdoor themepark, shopping and food, the best things is that.... the indoor themepark plus the video arcade, very funny.... if you are thinking to change to coins or token to play everything in the indor themepark, you will be disappointed .... why? they don't provide exchange serive? No, No, No...... Because everything is FREE in the indoor themepark/video arcade ...

So I spent lots of time in playing their bumper car... apparently, vietnamese are not good in driving and they try to avoid your car, So I became the hero of that day,

enjoyed so much during my 10 days stay in Nha Trang.... after trying all the beaches in vnam, I will definitely go back to Nha Trang again

Originally Posted by Golden question

yah,most of them scare the hot sun,not like sg girl like to sun tan in their bikini

i go vung tau until sianz except i like the other end which is at the top of the slope whereby the speed boat stop.like the scenary though,nha trang beach more nice and ang mo like to go,they got one vina pearl park which is connected from the main land by cable car,not yet try yet

i like less commercial cos more orginal but is the people over there who dont know how to commercialise compare to bali and thai,thats why their tourism lack behind thai

[volcano]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

for my case, my gal say she sold her house at arnd $4K... possible?

70 million vnd for a house????

it seems quite impossible,unless its a very shabby little house very far frm the the main road and in a very very ulu village.