Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 715

Crown · #**10711** 28-08-2011, 06:28 PM

hi,

like to know is it better to get ROM in vietnam or in SG?

Can i ROM first in vietnam and ROM again in SG?

Thx

shysaint · #**10712** 28-08-2011, 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

...and along the way, spend a fortune still to build up the mindset

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u do not need to spend a fortune to instill mindset ... u need time ...

people only spend their fortune to get the gals they like for free bonking

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

... (chances low)

hmmmm

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Originally Posted by chanyboy

...It's also good to 'find' a compatible, reasonable relative (sister, brother, cousin, etc.) that you can always allude to in their achievements & success in building their family life.. unless there's no such relatives... the last alternative is to use the case of successful bros in this forum.

forum is for sharing n act as reference n not for application ... wat are used by others might not be applicable to u ...

different gal is different .. there is no one wholesale strategy ....

it depends on BOTH characters, bringing up, attitudes , communications .. n etc ..

of course good family will have positive impact n vice versa ...

shysaint · #**10713** 28-08-2011, 07:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crown

hi,

like to know is it better to get ROM in vietnam or in SG?

Can i ROM first in vietnam and ROM again in SG?

Thx

ROM in Sg cheap n good ...

ROM in Vn ... good luck to u on the procedures

shysaint · #**10714** 28-08-2011, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by mao86

Right now it is also very hard for vietnamese to obtain PR or singapore citizenship rite.

not only vietnamese ... applicable to ALL Foreigner ...

SingViet · #**10715** 28-08-2011, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by mao86

lets say in the sense that i am not legally married with my wife in spore yet but then she gives birth to my baby in vietnam.. so the citizenship for the baby should be vietnamese rite.
Right now it is also very hard for vietnamese to obtain PR or singapore citizenship rite.

your case will be very complicated. if your gf gives birth to your child in vn, your name will not be on the child's birth cert. the child will be vietnamese by birth. after you n yr gf are officially married, you can apply to insert yr name into the child's birth cert. but the trouble doesn't end there, in singapore, your child will have difficulties obtaining singapore citizenship as yr child's birth date is earlier than yr marriage cert date. it will be a super long and troublesome and costly process.

Hurricane88 · #**10716** 28-08-2011, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

your case will be very complicated. if your gf gives birth to your child in vn, your name will not be on the child's birth cert. the child will be vietnamese by birth. after you n yr gf are officially married, you can apply to insert yr name into the child's birth cert. but the trouble doesn't end there, in singapore, your child will have difficulties obtaining singapore citizenship as yr child's birth date is earlier than yr marriage cert date. it will be a super long and troublesome and costly process.

yes yes...remember reading something like need to do DNA test for baby and father in order to prove the r/s to sinkie ICA...and need to go thru justice of peace affidavit, etc...or something like adopting the baby and then apply for sinkie citizen...

SingViet · #**10717** 28-08-2011, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

not only vietnamese ... applicable to ALL Foreigner ...

rich foreigner easy, highly educated ones easy, normal ones will be very tough

SingViet · #**10718** 28-08-2011, 09:30 PM

half million views for this thread. thanks everyone for yr support. let's carry on to share our experiences about vietnamese life partner

Greatking · #**10719** 28-08-2011, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

half million views for this thread. thanks everyone for yr support. let's carry on to share our experiences about vietnamese life partner

Towkay,
That is because your thread is very informative

Golden question · #**10720** 29-08-2011, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Crown

hi,

like to know is it better to get ROM in vietnam or in SG?

Can i ROM first in vietnam and ROM again in SG?

Thx

No need to ROM twice,sg ica will recognise your viet marriage cert if you marry there but must translate to english and certify true copy.

u need the viet and english version when submit to ica if next time u need to apply any pass for her

ROM here is better,hassle free

Golden question · #**10721** 29-08-2011, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

rich foreigner easy, highly educated ones easy, normal ones will be very tough

yes very true,my wife's friend just got renew her PR and ICA only give her 1 year

I told my wife that PR does not gurantee that u can live and work here forever and they can choose not to renew especially now.I told her that sg govert dont give a damm if a PR leave sg and withdraw all the CPF money if u are just a normal person unlike those rich one or highly educated one who contribute to sg economy wherby they can also tax more from them with their high salary

miua55555 · #**10722** 29-08-2011, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

half million views for this thread. thanks everyone for yr support. let's carry on to share our experiences about vietnamese life partner

Maybe can share how can a Singaporean survive in Vietnam upon migration? Easy to get corporate jobs in Vn ?

Crown · #**10723** 29-08-2011, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

ROM in Sg cheap n good ...

ROM in Vn ... good luck to u on the procedures

Quote:

Originally Posted by Golden question

No need to ROM twice,sg ica will recognise your viet marriage cert if you marry there but must translate to english and certify true copy.

u need the viet and english version when submit to ica if next time u need to apply any pass for her

ROM here is better,hassle free

Thanks bros..

If ROM in SG what documents & procedures is needed from my viet gf?

shysaint · #**10724** 29-08-2011, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Crown

Thanks bros..

If ROM in SG what documents & procedures is needed from my viet gf?

PASSPORT for Wife-to-be ...

Go to ROM website for more information and Register ...

Golden question · #**10725** 30-08-2011, 12:37 AM

Wang Wen Yuan (40, clerk) had met his wife at a duck store in a nearby market last year. Last September, the owner of the duck store had introduced him to a cousin looking to marry a Singaporean. The man instantly fancied the 27-year-old Chinese national woman and married her one month later. The newlywed couple moved into a rental flat in November last year.

Wang said he often quarreled with his wife over money and over her refusal to wear a skirt. He eventually chased her out of the house two months later. He said, "She contacted me again in May this year. I told her she could come back, but my conditions are that she must do the chores, and wear a skirt to have sex with me every night. If she is willing, I will give her $100 on the first night, then $300 every month for household expenses".

"She was willing to wear a skirt but not have sex with me, so I chased her out within two weeks," he added. Wang also said that the Chinese national woman had told him at their first meeting that she was looking for a Singaporean man to marry so that she can remain in Singapore. She has since obtained her working permit and is a store assistant at a hawker store.

Wang now wants a divorce with his wife so that he can develop a relationship with a Vietnamese girl he met. Unfortunately for him, he was told that he has to file for separation and wait 4 years before he can divorce his wife. He has tried asking his wife for a divorce but she wants him to fulfill two conditions before she would agree to it. He shall have to repay all her debts - an unknown amount, and he has to buy her an air ticket to return to China.

Source: Lianhe Wanbao, 29 June 2011.