Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 581

shysaint · #**8701** 02-02-2011, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by chong_kng

1) How many times is "safe" for her to go back vn during her one year stay? (I wish to apply PR for her.)

When I ask ICA this questions ... they told me NO Limits ..... Of Course, if she stays here longer and the frequency of going back is less ... the chances if probably higher ...

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Originally Posted by chong_kng

2) How many months for me to wait to apply for PR after getting the LTSVP? Mine intention to apply PR for her after three or four months LTSVP.

Now you also can apply PR for her !!!

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Originally Posted by chong_kng

3) Is there any "best periods" to apply for PR? & What other considerations to look out for when applying PR?

Getting PR depends heavily on your Merit and also any potential contribution from your wife ...

Besides the necessary factors listed in the website, there are also many hidden factors deem ok and accepted by ICA ...

Rgds

shysaint · #**8702** 02-02-2011, 11:32 PM

To ALL BROs ...

30 mins to CLNY 2011 .....

I Wish ALL BROs a HaPPy Chinese Lunar New Year 2011....

" Gong Xi Fao Chai .... Xin Nian Kuai Le "

" HuaT until CaNNoT ReCogNise House "

BesT Wishes For You and Of Course YouR FaMiLies .....

jackbl · #**8703** 02-02-2011, 11:51 PM

I would like to wish everyone here :

Ja (Gia) dinh hanh phuc
An cu lac nghiep
Cung hi phat tai
Khang An thinh vuong

miua55555 · #**8704** 03-02-2011, 03:08 AM

Wish everyone here a Happy Lunar New Year 2011. Hope you all will find a true love with your baxa, and good luck for everyone in this rabbit year.

SingViet · #**8705** 03-02-2011, 09:05 AM

Wishing all bros a very Happy Lunar New Year. May your new year be filled with lots of Wealth, lots of Good Luck and Good Health.

Today is 1st Day of Lunar New Year, spare your Ba Xa of your rod for 1 day. Let her rest.

Hurricane88 · #**8706** 03-02-2011, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Wishing all bros a very Happy Lunar New Year. May your new year be filled with lots of Wealth, lots of Good Luck and Good Health.

Today is 1st Day of Lunar New Year, spare your Ba Xa of your rod for 1 day. Let her rest.

Chuc mung nam moi!

Cung Hi Phat Tai

SureScore · #**8707** 03-02-2011, 06:40 PM

Happy Rabbit Year.

SingViet · #**8708** 06-02-2011, 09:04 AM

My MIL started to distribute her `wealth of land' to her sons and daughters. She gave each of them 3 pieces of land in the province, inclusive of a daughter who married a rich vietnamese, but my wife was left out. The reason she gave was that my wife married a foreigner, so not eligible to get a portion of her wealth. Although the sister married a rich vietnamese, she still get because she is in vietnam. Damm.... my wife felt neglected and asked her mum `i feed all in family for over 10 years by working hard in saigon' and the mum said `that's all in the past'. Thank god, i don't need to depend on tis MIL's land to survive. Think about it, she has 2 sons, 4 daughters (inclusive of my wife). She gave out 3 pieces of land to each child (excluding my wife), so its 15 pieces of land and she still have some more for herself. She still dare to tell me she is damm poor. I think i am poorer than her. Lesson learnt, next time if she says she needs this and that, i will tell her to sell her land to get the money as i am a damm poor SIL.

asylum javelin · #**8709** 06-02-2011, 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

She still dare to tell me she is damm poor. I think i am poorer than her. Lesson learnt, next time if she says she needs this and that, i will tell her to sell her land to get the money as i am a damm poor SIL.

SV, MIL dont even care for her own daughter, after all the caring she and you had provided to her family for the last 10 years. I cant understand the vietnamese culture and thinking.

AJ

naemlo · #**8710** 06-02-2011, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

inclusive of a daughter who married a rich vietnamese,

`i feed all in family for over 10 years by working hard in saigon'

so its 15 pieces of land and she still have some more for herself.

A bit confusing, hope u can explain and let us understand Viet more.

Just curious,

1)If your mum in law has so much land and has a rich son in law... why your wife still work so hard??

Unless the land is worthless. If worthless then forget about getting the land.

Or she just wanted your wife to work?

2)Your mum in law treated your wife a working machine or she was not her actual daughter???

3)So the rest of the kids, stayed at home and shake legs for 10 yrs?

4)U meant your wife only now know her mum has many lands now?

5)How long have u been married?? Your wife 10 yrs of working means, before marrying to u? If yes, after marrying u, how the mum n family survive??

6)How much your wife earned for that 10 yrs to keep a family survive in Vietnam?

shysaint · #**8711** 06-02-2011, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

My MIL started to distribute her `wealth of land' to her sons and daughters. She gave each of them 3 pieces of land in the province, inclusive of a daughter who married a rich vietnamese, but my wife was left out. The reason she gave was that my wife married a foreigner, so not eligible to get a portion of her wealth. Although the sister married a rich vietnamese, she still get because she is in vietnam. Damm.... my wife felt neglected and asked her mum `i feed all in family for over 10 years by working hard in saigon' and the mum said `that's all in the past'. Thank god, i don't need to depend on tis MIL's land to survive. Think about it, she has 2 sons, 4 daughters (inclusive of my wife). She gave out 3 pieces of land to each child (excluding my wife), so its 15 pieces of land and she still have some more for herself. She still dare to tell me she is damm poor. I think i am poorer than her. Lesson learnt, next time if she says she needs this and that, i will tell her to sell her land to get the money as i am a damm poor SIL.

What a news to hear ... shit ......

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #**8712** 06-02-2011, 12:06 PM

Wishing All Bros in this super thread:

Cung hỉ phát tài (恭喜发财, 恭喜发财) (Congratulations and be prosperous)
An khang thịnh vượng （安康兴旺）(Security, good health, and prosperity)
Vạn sự như ý （万事如意）(May myriad things go according to your will)
Sức khoẻ dồi dào (财源广进) (Plenty of health)

Most importantly: Tiền vô như nước (May money flow in like water)

SingViet · #**8713** 06-02-2011, 12:30 PM

1)If your mum in law has so much land and has a rich son in law... why your wife still work so hard??

Unless the land is worthless. If worthless then forget about getting the land.

Or she just wanted your wife to work?
The rich SIL only came into the picture 2 years after my wife and i married. Even rich, he is super thrifty. Every expense of the family will be split 50/50 with me. Even if the land is not worth that much, 1 piece of land is still worth around 15k to 20k USD.

2)Your mum in law treated your wife a working machine or she was not her actual daughter???
My MIL treated my wife like a money spinning machine. My wife is her mum's actual daughter.

3)So the rest of the kids, stayed at home and shake legs for 10 yrs?
Before my wife married me, the rest of the kids + my MIL and FIL shaked leg in the province for 10 years

4)U meant your wife only now know her mum has many lands now?
Yes you are right. My wife only know that her mum has so many pieces of land recently. The mother has been telling my wife that she's very poor all this while. She only told her other daughter that she has a lot of land. Its this sister of my wife that told my wife that the lands have been distributed and my wife confronted her mother and her mother admitted.

5)How long have u been married?? Your wife 10 yrs of working means, before marrying to u? If yes, after marrying u, how the mum n family survive??
My wife and i have been married for over 7 years roi. the 10 years is before marrying me. After marrying me, i told my wife that her family needs to work. 1st 2 years i feed them, after that, they only started to work when i refused to feed them.

6)How much your wife earned for that 10 yrs to keep a family survive in Vietnam?
My wife worked in the night scene for many years. Because of her looks and her sense of dressing, she has had a few rich bf before. Her mum's house used to be a run down attap house, but the few bfs that my wife had came up with the money to built the house for them, and also supported the whole family. Actually this is very normal in vietnam.

naemlo · #**8714** 06-02-2011, 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Actually this is very normal in vietnam.

Ok understood... surprise to hear about this type of mum who dun consider her as a "family".

If I have this type of mum in law and 1 day, she needs money, even hospital fee, I will ask her go f spider. She did 初一, I do 十五.

I am bad, real bad.

SingViet · #**8715** 06-02-2011, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Ok understood... surprise to hear about this type of mum who dun consider her as a "family".

If I have this type of mum in law and 1 day, she needs money, even hospital fee, I will ask her go f spider. She did 初一, I do 十五.

I am bad, real bad.

yea. that's what i told my wife too. next time her mum sick and has hospital bills to pay, she pay herself.