Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by RAW Man

Vietnamese woman likes to do it RAW

When they love a man truly, they will do it. Same for all women, regardless to nationality.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by chong_kng

My intention is as simple as possible and the wedding expenditure budget is as low as possible so as to save for future/rainy day.

The road ahead will be bumpy as there will be unforeseen circumstances for me to tackle and i hope i have the mentality and strength to deal with.

Best wishes to you. Hope u and ur future wife will live happily forever everafter

[miua55555]

Originally Posted by chong_kng

Hi

Thanks to all bro who provide me valuable information about the ROM.

Mine is at ROM where the in-house official will conduct.

My intention is as simple as possible and the wedding expenditure budget is as low as possible so as to save for future/rainy day.

The road ahead will be bumpy as there will be unforeseen circumstances for me to tackle and i hope i have the mentality and strength to deal with.

Bro shysaint, i will pm you for the contact of the interpreter. Tks.

Regards

Congratz and good luck.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Not sure if fellow bros realized this, it's very difficult for Vietnam gals to wake up in the morning. Even if they sleep early the night before, they still want to sleep late. My wife, even after being in Singapore for quite some time too, still find it difficult to wake up in the morning to go market. She refused to wake up at 7am, saying it's alright to go market at 9am. The Vietnam gals my wife got to know in Singapore are all the same too, sleep till 10 plus to 11 daily. Lazy bums.

Well , My wife too sleep till Singapore Time 11am or 12 pm ....

[oldcar]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Well , My wife too sleep till Singapore Time 11am or 12 pm ....

mine get up early 8am. to go market, sometime 7. and I going back to marry her. She not from KTV or any place like that.. use to work in factory..I know her for 4 year when I working there..see her everyday..It time to give her the honor ;-) 2 Oct is the big date..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

She refused to wake up at 7am, saying it's alright to go market at 9am. The Vietnam gals my wife got to know in Singapore are all the same too, sleep till 10 plus to 11 daily. Lazy bums.

go market at 9am got better deals when all about to close store.
those sleep till late 11 or noon is really lazy bums...

Originally Posted by shysaint

Well , My wife too sleep till Singapore Time 11am or 12 pm ....

Originally Posted by oldcar

mine get up early 8am. to go market, sometime 7. and I going back to marry her

In vn, my galfriend wake up at 5am to prepare to go market, cook, study and go work. In sillypore, she wake up when I go to work, sleep awhile then wake up at 8am to accompany my mum to market.

Talk about sleeping time, my galfriend sleeps early at 10+pm if nothing to do in hcmc... sometimes she stay up late becoz I call her late or I went out till late or her bro/sis come home late. In her province, all sleeps at 6pm... I encounter twice.. this type of sleeping time kills me... i woke up at 12am.

In sillypore or when I see her in vn, by 10pm she will get me to bed...

[bswuming87]

after reading all bros life experience in choosing a viet girl, i guess it is time to share mine..

the first few days we know each other

i met my bx about 2 months ago. we knew each other at a pub in geylang inside the pub, she was not one of the girl i choosen. she was chosen by my friend while i had choosen another girl. during that day when we first met, i did not talk much with her, just asked her name thats all.. when tat night ended, we had a smoke outside, my friend did not exchange contact with her, before i left into my car, me n my bx exchanged contacts.

2 weeks later, she contacted me and ask me how am i, initially i wasnt sure who she was as i had already forgotten, so i asked my friend to see if he knows who is it is it as he also know what is the name of the girl he has chosen. after much thinking, i found out it was her (my bx)

we exchanged a few smses during work like asking how r u, what r u doing, have u eaten, have u sleep. after a few days, i decided to meet her one day after work, and we ended up at my house.

in singapore, i have brought her to different places. e.g east coast park, raffles place, clarke quay, merlion, marina square and even the zoo. we were together and like those girlfriend bf type. she came to my house quite often even though it is a short period of her stay. we were together. almost everyday after work, i would fetch her from her workplace.

btw. it was my bx first ever trip overseas out of vietnam, first ever visit to singapore. i have seen her passport. it was issued in 2007 and her first chop was only this year. the reason why my bx came to singapore is because most of her friends and her sister asked her to come since 2007. she agreed to come only recently this year. most of her time since young, she worked in a korean restaurant and did not have any vietnam bfs. she had a korean and australian bf previously but she left both of them as both are playboys who cheated on her as they went to find other girls.

initially during our relationship, she understood that i am a younger guy while she is older. btw i am 23 this year and she is 28. she told me she cant be with me as i am a lot younger den her while she is 28. i replied to her that, age is just a number, what i only know is i love her a lot and want to be with her. in the end she accepted me.

a lot of her customers gave her a lot of money. on her last day of work in singapore, a man in his 50s gave her 500 sgd. most of the time when i am with her, i did not give her any money. only a few times and it amounts to around 700 only. she understands that i just started working only. i do not earn much as i am just a fresh graduate who has just started work. her ticket back to hcm was also bought by a customer and not me. so money was saved.

i told her i would accompany her back to hcm city on the day she went back to vietnam. she agreed and was happy i was going to be with her. it was my very first trip to vietnam. my parents met her and we had a meal together on the last day in singapore. they understand what she worked as in singapore.

in singapore, i had bought her a silver necklace, and we have bought together couple rings. she gave me a bottle of bvlgari perfume on my birthday and gave my family a lot of soft toys on her last day in singapore.

on the day at hcm city, we did not stay in any hotel. money was saved. all the while i stayed at her rented home. it was one of those home where it is like a one room flat in singapore. just a living room and a toilet. The monthly rental for her home is just usd 120 a month. travelling was all the while done using her motorbike. it was a great experience as i did not travel in a motorbike before in my whole life as i did not even know how to drive a bicycle. she brought me to many places. lotte mart, parkson, to all the coffee shops, ben tanh market eating. all these. all the while she was worried i am not accomdated to the living conditions in hcm. i told her it is ok. in my stay at vietnam, she brought me to her village, about 100km away from hcm city. in mekong. her village is those house and the roads are muddy type. life was very simple.

her mother understood how old i am. including her young brothers. her mom also asked when we were getting married. life was very simple there. bathing was done my using rainwater collected during the rain.

things she had done for me in vietnam which has touched me.
(1) the way she has saved up money to buy things for her family.
(2) how she is able to live alone in her rented apartment, working in hcm city.
(3) how she has took care of me. travelling in her motobike around hcm city and to her parents house in mekong which is a 2 hours drive.

and many more.

On my last day at HCM, she said she wanted to buy for me a gold necklace. we drove to a gold jewellery shop and inside she chose for me a gold necklace, asked if i like and bought it for me. it cost around 300sgd. i was touched. 300 sgd to them is already a lot of money

back in singapore, we missed each other a lot and would always call each other. sometimes she would call me even though i told her it is expensive for her to call me and i would call her back. she would sms my mother and asked her how she is and asked my mom to buy medicine for me. she would always spot check on me and ask me where am i as she always know i like to go out very late at night drinking and chionging

ok bros. this is just a short summary of me n my bx.we agreed to marry later this year or early next year.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by oldcar

mine get up early 8am. to go market, sometime 7. and I going back to marry her. She not from KTV or any place like that.. use to work in factory..I know her for 4 year when I working there..see her everyday..It time to give her the honor ;-) 2 Oct is the big date..

Welcome to the Family

Congrats .... Congrats .....

Best Wishsssssssssssssss and Wish you Happiness ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by bswuming87

after reading all bros life experience in choosing a viet girl, i guess it is time to share mine..

Welcome to the Club .. Bro ...

Looks like your have a good deal ...

Keep it up ... Wish you Happiness and Best Wishesssssss

[zichuan]

Originally Posted by bswuming87

after reading all bros life experience in choosing a viet girl, i guess it is time to share mine..

the first few days we know each other

i met my bx about 2 months ago. we knew each other at a pub in geylang inside the pub, she was not one of the girl i choosen. she was chosen by my friend while i had choosen another girl. during that day when we first met, i did not talk much with her, just asked her name thats all.. when tat night ended, we had a smoke outside, my friend did not exchange contact with her, before i left into my car, me n my bx exchanged contacts.

2 weeks later, she contacted me and ask me how am i, initially i wasnt sure who she was as i had already forgotten, so i asked my friend to see if he knows who is it is it as he also know what is the name of the girl he has chosen. after much thinking, i found out it was her (my bx)

we exchanged a few smses during work like asking how r u, what r u doing, have u eaten, have u sleep. after a few days, i decided to meet her one day after work, and we ended up at my house.

in singapore, i have brought her to different places. e.g east coast park, raffles place, clarke quay, merlion, marina square and even the zoo. we were together and like those girlfriend bf type. she came to my house quite often even though it is a short period of her stay. we were together. almost everyday after work, i would fetch her from her workplace.

btw. it was my bx first ever trip overseas out of vietnam, first ever visit to singapore. i have seen her passport. it was issued in 2007 and her first chop was only this year. the reason why my bx came to singapore is because most of her friends and her sister asked her to come since 2007. she agreed to come only recently this year. most of her time since young, she worked in a korean restaurant and did not have any vietnam bfs. she had a korean and australian bf previously but she left both of them as both are playboys who cheated on her as they went to find other girls.

initially during our relationship, she understood that i am a younger guy while she is older. btw i am 23 this year and she is 28. she told me she cant be with me as i am a lot younger den her while she is 28. i replied to her that, age is just a number, what i only know is i love her a lot and want to be with her. in the end she accepted me.

a lot of her customers gave her a lot of money. on her last day of work in singapore, a man in his 50s gave her 500 sgd. most of the time when i am with her, i did not give her any money. only a few times and it amounts to around 700 only. she understands that i just started working only. i do not earn much as i am just a fresh graduate who has just started work. her ticket back to hcm was also bought by a customer and not me. so money was saved.

i told her i would accompany her back to hcm city on the day she went back to vietnam. she agreed and was happy i was going to be with her. it was my very first trip to vietnam. my parents met her and we had a meal together on the last day in singapore. they understand what she worked as in singapore.

in singapore, i had bought her a silver necklace, and we have bought together couple rings. she gave me a bottle of bvlgari perfume on my birthday and gave my family a lot of soft toys on her last day in singapore.

on the day at hcm city, we did not stay in any hotel. money was saved. all the while i stayed at her rented home. it was one of those home where it is like a one room flat in singapore. just a living room and a toilet. The monthly rental for her home is just usd 120 a month. travelling was all the while done using her motorbike. it was a great experience as i did not travel in a motorbike before in my whole life as i did not even know how to drive a bicycle. she brought me to many places. lotte mart, parkson, to all the coffee shops, ben tanh market eating. all these. all the while she was worried i am not accomdated to the living conditions in hcm. i told her it is ok. in my stay at vietnam, she brought me to her village, about 100km away from hcm city. in mekong. her village is those house and the roads are muddy type. life was very simple.

her mother understood how old i am. including her young brothers. her mom also asked when we were getting married. life was very simple there. bathing was done my using rainwater collected during the rain.

things she had done for me in vietnam which has touched me.
(1) the way she has saved up money to buy things for her family.
(2) how she is able to live alone in her rented apartment, working in hcm city.
(3) how she has took care of me. travelling in her motobike around hcm city and to her parents house in mekong which is a 2 hours drive.

and many more.

On my last day at HCM, she said she wanted to buy for me a gold necklace. we drove to a gold jewellery shop and inside she chose for me a gold necklace, asked if i like and bought it for me. it cost around 300sgd. i was touched. 300 sgd to them is already a lot of money

back in singapore, we missed each other a lot and would always call each other. sometimes she would call me even though i told her it is expensive for her to call me and i would call her back. she would sms my mother and asked her how she is and asked my mom to buy medicine for me. she would always spot check on me and ask me where am i as she always know i like to go out very late at night drinking and chionging

ok bros. this is just a short summary of me n my bx.we agreed to marry later this year or early next year.

bro hope u dont become a victim u r young

[xyman]

Same experience as you
- sit on her motor for hours to go back her hometown
- bath and wash up using rainwater
- bath in open air 'forest' with just simple covering around.

But she never buy gold for me, you one lucky guy..:-)

[xyman]

Nowadays lot of young Vietnam come over to work. Yesterday know 3, 19,20 and 21. And all can go hotel.... Cannot tahan all so young sweet and hot in their hot pants and long slim legs

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by xyman

Nowadays lot of young Vietnam come over to work. Yesterday know 3, 19,20 and 21. And all can go hotel.... Cannot tahan all so young sweet and hot in their hot pants and long slim legs

Guaranteed typo error...cannot be a baby la...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by bswuming87

she would always spot check on me and ask me where am i as she always know i like to go out very late at night drinking and chionging

ok bros. this is just a short summary of me n my bx.we agreed to marry later this year or early next year.

Thank you for sharing your story here...in this forum we share a lot of nice and interesting love, sad, angry, upset and exhilarating stories...

I am quite amazed with your stories...one word is caution...you are still very young...you have still to experience many more gers...I suggest you take your time to choose and ask yourself..."is she the right one"...I am not saying she is not the right bridfe for you...found yours too good to be true...

Just my humble 2 dongs worth...

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by bswuming87

after reading all bros life experience in choosing a viet girl, i guess it is time to share mine..

the first few days we know each other

i met my bx about 2 months ago. we knew each other at a pub in geylang inside the pub, she was not one of the girl i choosen. she was chosen by my friend while i had choosen another girl. during that day when we first met, i did not talk much with her, just asked her name thats all.. when tat night ended, we had a smoke outside, my friend did not exchange contact with her, before i left into my car, me n my bx exchanged contacts.

2 weeks later, she contacted me and ask me how am i, initially i wasnt sure who she was as i had already forgotten, so i asked my friend to see if he knows who is it is it as he also know what is the name of the girl he has chosen. after much thinking, i found out it was her (my bx)

we exchanged a few smses during work like asking how r u, what r u doing, have u eaten, have u sleep. after a few days, i decided to meet her one day after work, and we ended up at my house.

in singapore, i have brought her to different places. e.g east coast park, raffles place, clarke quay, merlion, marina square and even the zoo. we were together and like those girlfriend bf type. she came to my house quite often even though it is a short period of her stay. we were together. almost everyday after work, i would fetch her from her workplace.

btw. it was my bx first ever trip overseas out of vietnam, first ever visit to singapore. i have seen her passport. it was issued in 2007 and her first chop was only this year. the reason why my bx came to singapore is because most of her friends and her sister asked her to come since 2007. she agreed to come only recently this year. most of her time since young, she worked in a korean restaurant and did not have any vietnam bfs. she had a korean and australian bf previously but she left both of them as both are playboys who cheated on her as they went to find other girls.

initially during our relationship, she understood that i am a younger guy while she is older. btw i am 23 this year and she is 28. she told me she cant be with me as i am a lot younger den her while she is 28. i replied to her that, age is just a number, what i only know is i love her a lot and want to be with her. in the end she accepted me.

a lot of her customers gave her a lot of money. on her last day of work in singapore, a man in his 50s gave her 500 sgd. most of the time when i am with her, i did not give her any money. only a few times and it amounts to around 700 only. she understands that i just started working only. i do not earn much as i am just a fresh graduate who has just started work. her ticket back to hcm was also bought by a customer and not me. so money was saved.

i told her i would accompany her back to hcm city on the day she went back to vietnam. she agreed and was happy i was going to be with her. it was my very first trip to vietnam. my parents met her and we had a meal together on the last day in singapore. they understand what she worked as in singapore.

in singapore, i had bought her a silver necklace, and we have bought together couple rings. she gave me a bottle of bvlgari perfume on my birthday and gave my family a lot of soft toys on her last day in singapore.

on the day at hcm city, we did not stay in any hotel. money was saved. all the while i stayed at her rented home. it was one of those home where it is like a one room flat in singapore. just a living room and a toilet. The monthly rental for her home is just usd 120 a month. travelling was all the while done using her motorbike. it was a great experience as i did not travel in a motorbike before in my whole life as i did not even know how to drive a bicycle. she brought me to many places. lotte mart, parkson, to all the coffee shops, ben tanh market eating. all these. all the while she was worried i am not accomdated to the living conditions in hcm. i told her it is ok. in my stay at vietnam, she brought me to her village, about 100km away from hcm city. in mekong. her village is those house and the roads are muddy type. life was very simple.

her mother understood how old i am. including her young brothers. her mom also asked when we were getting married. life was very simple there. bathing was done my using rainwater collected during the rain.

things she had done for me in vietnam which has touched me.
(1) the way she has saved up money to buy things for her family.
(2) how she is able to live alone in her rented apartment, working in hcm city.
(3) how she has took care of me. travelling in her motobike around hcm city and to her parents house in mekong which is a 2 hours drive.

and many more.

On my last day at HCM, she said she wanted to buy for me a gold necklace. we drove to a gold jewellery shop and inside she chose for me a gold necklace, asked if i like and bought it for me. it cost around 300sgd. i was touched. 300 sgd to them is already a lot of money

back in singapore, we missed each other a lot and would always call each other. sometimes she would call me even though i told her it is expensive for her to call me and i would call her back. she would sms my mother and asked her how she is and asked my mom to buy medicine for me. she would always spot check on me and ask me where am i as she always know i like to go out very late at night drinking and chionging

ok bros. this is just a short summary of me n my bx.we agreed to marry later this year or early next year.

Brother, what a wonderful narration of young puppy love. It sounds wonderful and to you she seems like the one. Inquisitive as we are, may I ask you brother what your parents think of her especially as you said your parents know what she did while in SG? Do they think you are too young to get married?