Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 355

Hurricane88 · #**5311** 29-03-2009, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

same scenario, different gals and different guy. (maybe same gal.. ) We discussed so many times roi.... yawn... yawn..... better fxxk her, pay her and forget it.

hahaha...I tot tat's why u started this thread to share...for me must read tis thread everyday...3 cheers to u...

Hanoi-Kid · #**5312** 29-03-2009, 01:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

My in-laws are lower class in Vietnam. Most of the gals you marry will come in a package. No choice.

Hi Bro,

from what i have observed in this forum, the gals family and background plays a very strong part, middle class gals seem to be the safer bet,,,and depending on region too. I do find that Hanoi gals are more conservative, that is why if can find an english speaking one,, its easier to date them, and they are less demanding.

My vn frens did say that there are instances where the gals family wants their son in law to feed them,, but not many and at most, avoid such gals. Middle class and rich in VN, most often know the value of money and will work for it,,its the poor that demands this and that from the SIL (Son In Law)

Not all are like that,,,but this is a general comment, the gals that I know are mostly middle class and working normal jobs. So their attitudes and family demands are different,,but the bottom line is I wont feed my in laws family,,too ridiculous,,as my own family come 1st,, its hard but as said,,have to educate the wife and maybe their family tooo.

cashier · #**5313** 29-03-2009, 01:34 PM

never ever trust a vietnam man no matter what they say or how nice he is. got to know a vietnam man so call "scott" study in singapore. he ask my friend to help him guarantee two of his frens who are supposeto come singapore to study and my fren agree. turn out those frens look more peasent than study type and also we suspect they are smuggle into singapore to steal wallet. also learned that he is paid abt 1-2k sgd for each pax they get into singapore...

fyi: this guy scott is suspose to be fren of a vietnam gal, later found out he borrowed 2k from her and chao... ccb vietnam man. vietnam is really a dog eat dog world. i wont be surprise he con woman too for he is good looker.

jackbl · #**5314** 29-03-2009, 02:36 PM

Are u planning to get something out from that guy and teach him a lesson?

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Originally Posted by cashier

fyi: this guy scott is suspose to be fren of a vietnam gal, later found out he borrowed 2k from her and chao... ccb vietnam man. vietnam is really a dog eat dog world. i wont be surprise he con woman too for he is good looker.

ekemono · #**5315** 29-03-2009, 02:44 PM

Indeed Vitenamese men cannot trust. Even own siblings they also cheat when it comes to money.

My wife dad left a row of small rooms for her. I have visited the place before. As she has no intention to rent them out anymore, she sold the property to her elder sister for USD15,000.
During the dealing and transaction period, wife was in SG and got her elder brother to manage it on her behalf. That idiot is a lazy bum who dun work. When the full amount was paid out, he just TT USD10K instead. Wife tot the bank had made a mistake but found out that her brother took the other 5K.
At first he said he needs it as a loan so wife says it is ok. But later down the road when wife ask how he intend to repay it slowly, he argued that the 5K should be a commission for him. Wife that evening quarrel with him like hell.

And my exposure to Viet men related to me that they can heartlessly drop their wife and children and flee away for greener pasture/pussy.
Wife's nieghbours and close friends are mostly victims of such cruelty

Panamera · #**5316** 29-03-2009, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ekemono

Indeed Vitenamese men cannot trust. Even own siblings they also cheat when it comes to money. And my exposure to Viet men related to me that they can heartlessly drop their wife and children and flee away for greener pasture/pussy. Wife's nieghbours and close friends are mostly victims of such cruelty

During my 2 years stint in Vietnam, I noticed that many lazy bums who dont work but depend on their wives and mind you, the wives are great lookers too. My P.A. was a teen model (I didnt know when I interviewed her till my salesmen told me and showed me the magazine, I have to admit, her youthful good looks and long legs scored points during my interviewed process too), her family runs a cafe and I think should be short-gunned marriage, her husband don't work but drinks and gamble. Also the way, when married couple quarrell, they mostly ended in fist fights on the street...wow..talked about fighting spirit!

Overseas Viet-Q are No.1 con artist in HCM...

SingViet · #**5317** 29-03-2009, 03:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Panamera

During my 2 years stint in Vietnam, I noticed that many lazy bums who dont work but depend on their wives and mind you, the wives are great lookers too. My P.A. was a teen model (I didnt know when I interviewed her till my salesmen told me and showed me the magazine, I have to admit, her youthful good looks and long legs scored points during my interviewed process too), her family runs a cafe and I think should be short-gunned marriage, her husband don't work but drinks and gamble. Also the way, when married couple quarrell, they mostly ended in fist fights on the street...wow..talked about fighting spirit!

Overseas Viet-Q are No.1 con artist in HCM...

hahah, when singaporeans want to employ staff in HCM, they go for looks, and that applies to me too. i remembered when i wanted to employ a PA last time, a 22 year old lady came for interview. She was wearing low cut and her boobies were hanging, next she placed her boobies on my desk top when i inteviewed her. knn, cannot pay attention to proper conversation.

The Viet Kieus know that they are worshipped upon by local vietnamese, so they often con the ladies.

SingViet · #**5318** 29-03-2009, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...I tot tat's why u started this thread to share...for me must read tis thread everyday...3 cheers to u...

cam on...... i started this thread to keep myself and everybody else occupied leh.. hahahhah

Panamera · #**5319** 29-03-2009, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

cam on...... i started this thread to keep myself and everybody else occupied leh.. hahahhah

1 of the best thread here, I must say..

Thanks, Bro.

KangTuo · #**5320** 29-03-2009, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by cashier

it is easier to find decent gals in vietnam than to find them in wl. spend more effort to find a decent gals than waste time on the wls.

Decent gal give you the peace of mind. WL give you thrill.
Depends on what you want and go to the right place to find.

i.e do you go to the library to find ONS? do you go to pubs to discuss about literature?

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Originally Posted by Hanoi-Kid

from what i have observed in this forum, the gals family and background plays a very strong part, middle class gals seem to be the safer bet

Indeed background and family value plays strong part.
But it does not means that middle and/or upper class gal is a safe bet. Gals from poor family may have good virtue as well. Gals from middle / upper class may also like to cheong and offer ONS.

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Originally Posted by cashier

never ever trust a vietnam man no matter what they say or how nice he is.

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Originally Posted by ekemono

Indeed Vitenamese men cannot trust. Even own siblings they also cheat when it comes to money.

Singapore man, China man, indian, also cannot be trusted. There are cheats, there are also good guys.

i.e I am a flirt/cheat among the gals. I am a good good guy infront of my family and galfriend.

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Originally Posted by Panamera

During my 2 years stint in Vietnam, I noticed that many lazy bums who dont work but depend on their wives
Overseas Viet-Q are No.1 con artist in HCM...

About vietnam man,
i seen man form poor class working hard to provide his family.
i seen man poor class live on their wife.
i seen man from upper class really put effort to earn money (alot more than us).
i seen man from upper class who cheong all day and night (spend off family money).

KangTuo · #**5321** 29-03-2009, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

She was wearing low cut and her boobies were hanging, next she placed her boobies on my desk top when i inteviewed her. knn, cannot pay attention to proper conversation.

did your desk top cave-in?

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Originally Posted by SingViet

cam on...... i started this thread to keep myself and everybody else occupied leh.. hahahhah

Without this thread, i think i will cheong more than now as i will be in JC/GL Understanding the Vietnamese gals.

SingViet · #**5322** 30-03-2009, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

did your desk top cave-in?

Bro, not so heavy la. If put boobies on desk top and desk top cave in, then its really scary

i like big boobies but not so big till its so scary

Hurricane88 · #**5323** 30-03-2009, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by cashier

i learn the truth from a old timer in gl lor 23 and he told me my so call baxa have many bf and lovers.

hahaha...taking this as a lesson and a bitter pill to swallow...move on and your experience will make you wiser...stay on this thread to learn and beware of the danger...also rewarding if you can find one needle among the hay stack...

Honey Boon · #**5324** 30-03-2009, 11:44 AM

Save this thread as your favorite like what I did.

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Originally Posted by Panamera

1 of the best thread here, I must say..

Thanks, Bro.

casannova03 · #**5325** 30-03-2009, 06:17 PM

Yes i do agree that a gal's upbringing and her family back ground plays an important role in her relationship with you....WL or not..

As for Vn man, I suppose it will be easy to stereotype them as lazy,drunks and wife beating but I personally know of some enterprising ones so I would say its just all about personal experiences - as in who you have met so far in your life......

Like most WL I have met, when i ask then if they intend to find a SG man to settle down eventually, 7 in 10 will say no and the reason???....

SG trai tin ko dc, noi gi cung sao nhieu!

But thats only because 99% of the SG man they meet are all out to have fun and are not looking to find a partner there....and the 99% is all but a small % of the total SG men available...

So are they talking about the whole picture? NO...

Just as most VN gals that bros in here meet are WLs.....

At the end of the day, take the proven and tested advice...Dun go looking for love at the wrong places...BUT....

If you do find love - like me - who's to tell you to stop? and who's to say it will 100% turn out to be a hoax?

Just use your own intuition with a bit of caution...

Cheers!!