Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[damong777]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Not all but some have relationship outside. Just to share 1 experience my frd had. My friend married a Vb but the vb unfaithful. Before the marriage, we told this guy that don't married her but he insisted. Few months after marriage, found wife unfaithful, quarrel few times but still stay together. After a year, my friend fall on bad debts due to her bx, bx leave him and now my friend own nearly $60K of credit cards bill. it about 3 yrs now, the bx got new bf, wanted a divorce thus my frd ask her to pay the divorce fee. She insist 50/50 but my frd insist she pay 100%. The bx informed her new bf, the new bf threaten to come and beat my frd up. My frd give them the place & time but dint turn up. Until today no news from the new bf. Some sinkies really damn stupid. Due to woman want to pick a fight? That I hate most.

Agreed truly. One of drinking buddies have similar situation where the stupid bf said he is from police and asked the bx to record conversation. I told my friend if the stupid guy want to abuse his power as a police, let him and then go govt complain and see who end up in worst state.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

Bro H88... I already tell her more than 100times already..even smack her thigh till red red still same.. she says this is their way of loving their bf /ox....

Yalor... I find it weird cos different from locals here dun take beef if they pray to kuan yin..

Others are mostly alike with all bros posting here..

Bro, if u cannot tahan anymore, just do what bro H88 say

1) dump her and move on as she is obviously trapping you in a KC trap

2) not answer her calls, sms, wechat, whatapp and zalo for one or two days...(i know your heart may ache, but sometimes it is good for us to tell them who is the boss); No point being nice if she does not listen
Case to note i got a 17 yr vb who tried calling me and adding me on wechat almost every day since i delete her contact and just ignore her call. That has been going on and off for 2 weeks and still i have not replied or answer her call.

3) we are not like viet men who like to hit vb, so they know our weakness at heart and furthermore if they cry, just leave her to it...to me a 3 strike rule, say, say and then chia tay if they dun want to listen.

[devilcheong]

Any bros wanna come JB to my gf vb sister authentic viet restaurant to drink beer.. I treat as a gratitude of sharing so many stuffs here wif me
Juz pm me ya...
Located near taman sentosa

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

Any bros wanna come JB to my gf vb sister authentic viet restaurant to drink beer.. I treat as a gratitude of sharing so many stuffs here wif me
Juz pm me ya...
Located near taman sentosa

good invitation and gesture...hv to reject you...monthly I fly to the SOURCE...i nvr bother with VB who go overseas...

[devilcheong]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

good invitation and gesture...hv to reject you...monthly I fly to the SOURCE...i nvr bother with VB who go overseas...

Not asking u go tackle vb over there la... juz treat u guys drink n chit chat as well have some Viet foodies..
I know you go To The Source always.. already expert level in VB .. anyway free dropby a pm to me n wish to learn from u guys more

[damong777]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

good invitation and gesture...hv to reject you...monthly I fly to the SOURCE...i nvr bother with VB who go overseas...

THink soon my passport same as yours...all monthly reporting in hcm

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by devilcheong

Any bros wanna come JB to my gf vb sister authentic viet restaurant to drink beer.. I treat as a gratitude of sharing so many stuffs here wif me
Juz pm me ya...
Located near taman sentosa

There are 3 viet restaurants there opposite complex Lien Hoe Taman Sentosa. There is a Nanyang cafe there also. Can we go Sun afternoon ?

[devilcheong]

Originally Posted by Seletar

There are 3 viet restaurants there opposite complex Lien Hoe Taman Sentosa. There is a Nanyang cafe there also. Can we go Sun afternoon ?

Can.. No problem.. the more the merrier... juz let me know earlier bout 1week in advance dat so I can arrange my time..

[MIFAcafe]

Bro SingViet, I quote your post from another thread. and post here. As I fear it may be deleted.

Personally I do not have a Viet wife and I doubt I will have one this lifetime after seeing those thing they can do behind a man's back.

Due to Viet girls openess and willing to offer sex, it can attract Sinkees men whom use their small head on girls easily.

Endless time I seen girls lie to bf and husband right beside me. Everytime husband call, will say "shhhhh" to me and start her daily routine of lying.

See endless time how a girl lying to her taiwan bf that she is at home , and yet she is on my bed.

A lot of brothers don't know what exactly they are getting when they married a Viet.

One must have a heart of steel. Nerve of bandit. Mine of a crazy man to really control your Viet girl. If that include violent, so be it. I doubt any of newbies here have those characters.

I am not encouraging violent, I am encouraging the man of the house to take charge. Once the Viet gal take charge, it will be the beginning of the end.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Every other day is Viet hookers and more viet hookers. marry viet hookers and still kana tekan by sending more and more money to viet province. Owe big sum of money, no flat, no car etc. Cannot feed wife and wife go work as beer promotor etc etc. Can Singapore man be better than this? Don't say others look down on us, have most of us done enough to make others respect us?

Typical SGP man with viet spouse:
1. Super cheongster who met viet spouse at joo chiat, geylang or some other KTV in Singapore
2. Lowly educated and No good career, low to middle income but still want to act hero infront of wife and her family.
3. Let wife continue to engage in vice related activities in Singapore.
4. Rent room or small 3 room flat or stay with parents.
5. Manipulated by viet spouse . example let spouse take all baby bonus and send back village to build house. (Damm it, the baby bonus is to supplement your expenses in having a kid, not to let your wife's family to build house or buy motorbike) Wife wants to go back VN a few times a year, no money also must borrow to let her go back.
6. Think that Vietnam is a good place to earn money and singapore sucks as he cannot earn enough to even support himself. Fully support children to speak Vietnamese all the time.
7. Children with viet mothers tend to do very badly in school.

The list goes on and on...... all i can say is most think with dick head and cannot change the thinking of viet spouse. Since cannot change the thinking of viet spouse, so join her to rot.

[MIFAcafe]

Viet girls been brain wash wanted to brainwash other.

Most VB I had been with are Buddhist. All are loyal to family especially mother. They are been taught to take care of family members. (Take care mean money)

On the surface of thing all look alright, but the undercurrent is deadly if this mind set is not adjusted so that the VB care for current man, current family and future of the children.

Singapore is a very high expense country, hence majority of the money earn must remain in the household to support current and future event.

VB can made big mistake and not show a slight of regret. (Which I damn annoy with) while trying to give VB a better life, she show me the face of "binh thuong"
Hence what ever good I does for her is meaningless.

Back in HCM, saw 2 families that we know. The way the uncaring OX treat their bx. Really an eye opener. And to me it is a priceless lesson.

Don't care, no emotion, only drink with friends and talk rubbish with friends. Money is never a subject of love in their family yet the BX love their ox like gem.

That is why I love to drink at their store and see the family interact with each other.

There are a thing or 2 we really can learn from vietnam men. Lowly educated. Not rich. Yet vb love them so much.

Something for those "act rich"'brother to think of.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

Singapore is a very high expense country, hence majority of the money earn must remain in the household to support current and future event.

Yes Singapore is a high expense country but the most ironic thing is, those in VN village seems to spend more money than us in Singapore.

Most VB do not know how to save. They are used to the life of spending all as the next Vietkieu or foreigner bf will send them more money to spend. They want the best, i guess many cheongsters are already pestered by their Viet hookers to buy Iphone 6 with at least 64GB. Not one, not two but many sets. When you marry a VB, be prepared that they will see no need to save. Any leftovers are to be sent back to VN.

Some cheongsters are so proud that they built a house in the VN village while they are either renting a room, staying with parents or staying in a small flat in Singapore. Mind you, the house in VN village doesn't belong to you, the land is not under your name and you only stay in it a few days a year. Its the property of others. Even if the land is under your bx name, its hers, not yours. What's her's is her's and what's your's is her's too.

[MIFAcafe]

I think Singaporeans below 40 should not consider a Viet wife. Immature man with a shallow pocket is a sure lose combination.

If one have deep pocket, to give or not to give is optional. As money at already there. Wife will be scare to go and work worry the well to do husband dump her.

regardling the housing problem, I always show picture of my house to Vb. And I told them I still owe bank lot of money. Haha.

I always make sure they don't deserve to get a lot. If not happy please F off. Don't spoil my mood.

Originally Posted by SingViet

Yes Singapore is a high expense country but the most ironic thing is, those in VN village seems to spend more money than us in Singapore.

Some cheongsters are so proud that they built a house in the VN village while they are either renting a room, staying with parents or staying in a small flat in Singapore. Mind you, the house in VN village doesn't belong to you, the land is not under your name and you only stay in it a few days a year. Its the property of others. Even if the land is under your bx name, its hers, not yours. What's her's is her's and what's your's is her's too.

[stillgottheblue]

The trick is to act poor, though not overly stingy. Have many commitments and be consistent. See what's the reaction and go from there. Nothing is full proof.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

I think Singaporeans below 40 should not consider a Viet wife. Immature man with a shallow pocket is a sure lose combination.

If one have deep pocket, to give or not to give is optional. As money at already there. Wife will be scare to go and work worry the well to do husband dump her.

regardling the housing problem, I always show picture of my house to Vb. And I told them I still owe bank lot of money. Haha.

I always make sure they don't deserve to get a lot. If not happy please F off. Don't spoil my mood.

bro and other seniors and grandmasters here all so 潇洒 , I so envy...

[milfmilf]

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