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Old 22-09-2014, 12:53 PM
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if you going with H88, you r in good hands. Otherwise read up on his posts on viet, very helpful.

going on 4th trip this year next month.
thank you very much....you see me so high up ha...

hope you enjoy your trip...
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Bro i rather get hurt and learn den dun even try at all... I the most tio heartpain cuz i din give her much vitamin m to begin wif... Its not tt scary i will get thru no matter wad time will surely tell lets not speculate first...
Go earn money first. When u have money, u can do things u like.. n not go borrow from loansharks to satisfy yourself or other ppl.. think twice before u do anything.. i got no right to give u any comments on the r/s part.. u r still young, if fail, dun b discourage, stand up n continue moving on.. seniors here r juz advising u.. dun take it too seriously..
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thank you very much....you see me so high up ha...

hope you enjoy your trip...
Can hold my hand when in hcm? Hihi.. i scare vn gals bully me leh...haha..
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Can hold my hand when in hcm? Hihi.. i scare vn gals bully me leh...haha..
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Go with an open heart and mind; knowing the viet culture and understanding is two different things.

Believe me going there and seeing for yourself is always better than just listening

Practical is always good.

Besides learning tieng viet may open up overseas posting opportunities. waiting for my company to expand there now...lol

if you going with H88, you r in good hands. Otherwise read up on his posts on viet, very helpful.

going on 4th trip this year next month.
No matter how many times I go I will not learn because staying in my girls house. Unless I don't tell her and explore outside without telling her.

Will do that when I am bored with her company. Lol...
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ok...will ask pe de to hold your hands...how many you want...
Hmm mayb shd try one hihi.. nv see any pe de before in hcm leh.. mayb i will have a very gd love story with a pe de in hcm n can share with u guys...
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Bro i rather get hurt and learn den dun even try at all... I the most tio heartpain cuz i din give her much vitamin m to begin wif... Its not tt scary i will get thru no matter wad time will surely tell lets not speculate first...
one ktv meimei told me when she go back she work as hairdresser with S$100 basic and monthly pay with tips barely S$200 or less .... she lives in hcmc and manage to get by by only eating out once in awhile at S$2 ... other time is own food. She's so real with all these numbers and kinda ans all the doubts I have on how they get by with avg 3-5million dong monthly. Starting to get interested in this girl . .... And like that no problem to help my "good friend" with monthly S$400 but if she needs to contribute for her stay in her parents house ... getting tough....
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one ktv meimei told me when she go back she work as hairdresser with S$100 basic and monthly pay with tips barely S$200 or less .... she lives in hcmc and manage to get by by only eating out once in awhile at S$2 ... other time is own food. She's so real with all these numbers and kinda ans all the doubts I have on how they get by with avg 3-5million dong monthly. Starting to get interested in this girl . .... And like that no problem to help my "good friend" with monthly S$400 but if she needs to contribute for her stay in her parents house ... getting tough....
haha...in hcm there a few types of hair saloons...

Type 1 - real hair saloon - only for female - this saloon nothing will happen except good service provide for the gals to look nice...gals salary depends on skills...trainees can be low around 1-2 mil
Type 2 - real hair saloon - for male and female...usually this type the gals dress better to attract male clients...usually gals basic salary around 2-3mil Dong...and depend on tips...tips also depend on the saloon how to split
Type 3 - half saloon half service - this is for male only...gals usually dressed sexily...mostly provide massage and some basic hair styling...salary low and depends on tips
Type 4 - fake saloon - this type have barber chair but no hair styling services...this is for men extra services...usually bbbj...and some cases fj - this type saloon, gals no basic salary all depends on profit share with boss and tips

the above is IMHO and observations only...may not be 100% true...
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Greeting to all seniors and big taikos here.. my respects to all bros n sis here whom has given many great experience sharing and advise here..
Today I met a very weird answer finally given by my current vb gf which saying she can't love me anymore but only can likes me as a bf because she knows that I already have wife from after we days we dated. Meanwhile if founded her true love will let me know..
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haha...seniors coming out to say something...that is good...

not easy for newbies who have not been to Vietnam...cannot envisage clearly...we live in the same open skies...but somehow Vietnam is like another mysterious enclave...can be 2nd home to many I knew...upon landing and breathing the air in TSN airport...you can felt the familiar scent...the sound of horning and the buzzing city life...this is the mysterious city that produced so many VBs going overseas to earn a living...a better tomorrow most VBs will guess and hope for...
Appreciate seniors comments but as usual i dun just blindly listen to comments and make decision, i absorb, analyse things and ask myself what i want and i do it. Unfortunately typical singaporeans dont do that. Once again not showing off, but every single day i work towards not being a stereotypical singaporean who lives in the 'safety net' of what stinkapore provides ( u have sinkies going to other country, complain only and dont dare try their food, dont want interact with their people, dont want drop their ego to know different ppl).

I do not need to envisage anything to make the trip down to wetnam and understand their culture better, its not that dramatic and difficult. Previously i exposed myself to pattaya via sbf forum, in 6 months i paid my own budget tix and travelled solo there and stayed in a haunted hotel on my first trip, a super noob, dunno anything.

Managed to walk almost the whole of pattaya, till today i still dunno most parts of pattaya but i sure do know alot of places on my head by my own and not depend on ppl but i met alot of fucked up ppl and also got nice ppl. And at the patts forum in sbf, no one gave me a chance and believed in me but i earned my place there becuz i moved out of my comfort zone and walk the talk, simple, is it so hard? no, just heck care the typical feedbacks and go down and chill and be open ok liao....

Came across yabaa(thailand's ice) and gangsters and tio cai tow by a working lady on my first day. Had my fair share of raw grey prawn salad with chilli and vomited and got into diarrhoea, landed motionless in my hotel room for one good day, shrugged it off with a diarrhoea pill and go chiong till 7am daily in dangerous discos for almost every single day when i am there. Do i say shite about pattaya? no i love it becuz i travel like a backpacker and i embrace xxx tourism better than anyone.

However, patts was easy for me cuz i can converse in english most of the time and it was quite safe surprisingly and i managed to pick up very basic thai language not to get cheated by thai ppl and also i understand their women much better now.

I am massive fan of thai movies and music now and u dont see me watch Jiak Katan(eat potato) american movies like stinkaporeans. I am starting to become a fan of vietnam music and movies too(got ppl tell me to see all this? no i want to do it myself) I am not saying u cant watch hollywood stuff but i say no to typical shite. And also do i keep taking taxi like singaporean who go to johor and KL or bangkok? no i take motorsai or baht bus in thailand and then i take public bus in johor and KL. Do i really care if i drive a car in stinkapore? no , so expensive , i respect others have their say why the fuck i need to care wad others think? u have CEO who take mrt to work and they are quality workers at the top..... When i chiong , must i book ktv room lke in singapore? no i see how the cheong system is like in johor or thailand and i go with the flow and try it out....

To go vietnam, i think english is not as accessible and vietnam is not commercially as develop as thailand so therefore i want to find a viet WL(easier no need waste time go xian decent girl or wad, find one not so jialat WL) who can speak mandarin and english bring her go around HCM and see hows wetnam like.

Am i going to be like kiasee stinkaporean and back out and say shite about wetnam if things dont work out the way i want? of course no. Its an experience, its good to learn from the realities of their lives too. You wear protective gear too long also no good. And do i need to know some much like its life and death when i just want to pursue a normal r/s to gather my experience in love life? i dun think so...

And with 8 years under my chionging belt and me being a budget person and a cold blooded person who is so used to listening to grandmother story, why i need envisage so much to try out new experiences? LOL, however just keep a low profile , go there, dun act too smart, learn to say no, wayang(PR) abit sometimes and u get by.

I done that when i am in patts and anything tragic happen? did i marry their agg bar girl? the answer is no no no. Why i din fall into kc trap? not haolian once again cuz its how you think and behave and look at things. Do i act like a singaporean when i am overseas? is it useful to act like one sinkies when you are overseas? no.....

PS: keep throwing your comments in, i like to listen to them but once again i dont like to do things without logic. I do them becuz i want to do them. No right or wrong, don't share with me your taboos , i am not interested LOL. Instead share with me why u perceive this particular as a taboo? is it becuz u personally are afraid or is it becuz of other reasons? This is a open forum, move out of your comfort zone and start talking....

Then now seniors wil be thinking :'' ohh boy boy boy u disrespectful ah, y talk like so big? its a taboo u knoe... Boy boy why you talk so much, later you offend people u knoe...'' My military background dad always do this to me and i fuck care tt coz times has changed. And sure as hell no one here is my real boss on my company or wad...

I have made tons of comments and i always dun criticise ppl's on how they feel, at the same time i hope other ppl also can respect how i feel and we can openly talk about things. I know i haben earn your respect, i still a newbie who should keep quiet, but sorry i dont dig that coz i did nothing wrong, i just express not like a singaporean, its not about u laojiao , i junior or what, just share lah, if u dun want share , dun share lah, cheers.
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Go earn money first. When u have money, u can do things u like.. n not go borrow from loansharks to satisfy yourself or other ppl.. think twice before u do anything.. i got no right to give u any comments on the r/s part.. u r still young, if fail, dun b discourage, stand up n continue moving on.. seniors here r juz advising u.. dun take it too seriously..
Bro money talks, but your state of mentality is most important, if you think right, no matter what country you are in , you will learn quickly and adapt easily with the right amount of money LOL....
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Bro i rather get hurt and learn den dun even try at all... I the most tio heartpain cuz i din give her much vitamin m to begin wif... Its not tt scary i will get thru no matter wad time will surely tell lets not speculate first...
Yes!! Hope u can heal after tat.. one that dun kill u make u stronger.. i believe alot of bros belong to this group.

Thats why i say just buy a tix stay with her for mths like what u did in thailand...u save urself alot of time..
However u said u have no income now, nothing to lose.. why dun u get ur priority rite first before committing to her.. if u believe in fate, she be urs no matter wat. N u need alot of $$ down the road for ur future. ..
Plan my friend...
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Yes!! Hope u can heal after tat.. one that dun kill u make u stronger.. i believe alot of bros belong to this group.

Thats why i say just buy a tix stay with her for mths like what u did in thailand...u save urself alot of time..
However u said u have no income now, nothing to lose.. why dun u get ur priority rite first before committing to her.. if u believe in fate, she be urs no matter wat. N u need alot of $$ down the road for ur future. ..
Plan my friend...
Planning is of cos an integral part to success, all top entreprenuers in the world will tell you this, plan well and work smart. If you have a good career and retirement plan, you are confident and women will like you for sure for all sorts of reason. Its is an advantage, a massive one if u ask me. And we guys are more than happy to slog our whole life to gain that status which makes us happy becuz its a game changer. However, if i am holding a decent job and saving up a little, who is to say i cant pursue a r/s with possibly a WL or a decent girl? the most the r/s short lah but its the experience that makes your life better wad...

Uncles all around sinkieland keep telling me careful careful careful, dont gong tau..... Why must i be afraid when i seen so much liao, all nationalities of WL is the same? i dun have to go vietnam to see a different one lol... just language and culture is different and best part is there are similarities in thailand and vietnam culture lol.... If i want to be typical sinkie, must as well go marry a sinkie girl or matchmake or kiss PAP's arse and work my way up as civil servent LOL......

Once again i am not saying u cant be typical, i am never tt guy tts it.... However, my standard of living is way lower and my expectations is way lower than people in sinkieland who are way too exposed to so much material. Once again, ppl can choose who the hell they wanna be, but i choose to live in the early 1990s singapore if u ask me, so vietnam and thailand is fabulous destination for me, not your japan, korea or USA....

Kim, i am glad that u understand where i am coming from and not jump the gun hastily. I want to emigrate LOL but takes time and planning man, however for now, i may consider moving to jb next yr and give up the expensive sg(crazy?, untypical?, this is me man lol...)
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one ktv meimei told me when she go back she work as hairdresser with S$100 basic and monthly pay with tips barely S$200 or less .... she lives in hcmc and manage to get by by only eating out once in awhile at S$2 ... other time is own food. She's so real with all these numbers and kinda ans all the doubts I have on how they get by with avg 3-5million dong monthly. Starting to get interested in this girl . .... And like that no problem to help my "good friend" with monthly S$400 but if she needs to contribute for her stay in her parents house ... getting tough....
Its all about setting the budget and say no to her demands when she hit your money 'quota' lol.... Sinkies cant do this, and i am more than happy to do this as i learn from how those ang moh tourists say no to their girlfriends when i was in pattaya( oh being asian, taboo to mix with ang mohs cos they suck? another stereotype from the narrow minded sinkie LOL....)
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

Hahaha sorry i dun understand u.. i dun even no wat ur big theory of different sinkie gotta do with ur story...
On one hand u want the girl then u dun go to step in...
On one hand u want to find a job next u want to migrate. .. thats where we are confused. .
But anyway u could be one with golden spoon that could idle so long without stable job... good for u...
If so, do take up the advice of going stay vn for sometime, u will learn more. Maybe u want migrate there...
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