Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1280

MIFAcafe · #**19186** 24-02-2014, 06:53 AM

See whether there is a kid that is very close to her. (May be her own kid)

See whether there is a very close brother. (may be her bf)

One of my "ex gf" have a 21 year old younger sister who has a 4 year old son. That meant she got pregnant at 16. Hence young gal in VN dos not meant she do not has kid.

Some VB I know married at 17-18 yea old. So young also does not meant single.

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Originally Posted by damong777

Actually really no clue

If i know what to expect, maybe i can say. But i really dun know.

Kim91 · #**19187** 24-02-2014, 07:10 AM

Bro Damong, bring more money is good just in case.. but dun let ur gf know.
As ur duration is short, beside UNCLE MIFA good point. ask her bring u to plc where she usually hang out like friend plc, relatives etc.. then next time u videocall with her u know she bluffing not..
see have photo albums, pics show a thousand words...n sure got story to tell...Last probably is family background but is too short to tell..
would be good to investigate her background in singapore or other countries. its to check if she kana any ica law not, so if next time wanna go further.. u have smoother journey.

damong777 · #**19188** 24-02-2014, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

See whether there is a kid that is very close to her. (May be her own kid)

See whether there is a very close brother. (may be her bf)

One of my "ex gf" have a 21 year old younger sister who has a 4 year old son. That meant she got pregnant at 16. Hence young gal in VN dos not meant she do not has kid.

Some VB I know married at 17-18 yea old. So young also does not meant single.

True...so go and discover is one of the best learning exp. And to understand more about the culture before deciding to proceeding further.

damong777 · #**19189** 24-02-2014, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Kim91

Bro Damong, bring more money is good just in case.. but dun let ur gf know.
As ur duration is short, beside UNCLE MIFA good point. ask her bring u to plc where she usually hang out like friend plc, relatives etc.. then next time u videocall with her u know she bluffing not..
see have photo albums, pics show a thousand words...n sure got story to tell...Last probably is family background but is too short to tell..
would be good to investigate her background in singapore or other countries. its to check if she kana any ica law not, so if next time wanna go further.. u have smoother journey.

Sound advise

naemlo · #**19190** 24-02-2014, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by damong777

Yes first time going.

Should be going for 4 to 5 days due to my work commitments in singapore. Will be visiting her home and rest of time should in hcm

U reminded me of my 1st trip to HCMC more than 10 yrs ago... same situation, going to see my ger. I also dunno how much to bring and what to expect. Just bought a ticket, no budget air. I still remember my 1st hotel in HCMC is Vien Dong. Told my ger to pick me up from airport and off I went.

Didn't know much and my budget was about 100 SGD per day. I still remember I changed 50 SGD in SG and the exchange rates was about 1=6000.

Met my ger in HCMC and I gong gong followed her, took a taxi and back to my hotel. Passed her SGD and asked her exchange to VND. Rest of the few days, just followed around HCMC. Night time go her place to eat and had to pay for it.

What made me unhappy or TL during the trip was, I had to pay for her so called aunties and uncles. Her aunties and uncles want to drink beer and smoke, I had to pay for them else gave me a LJ face. Super TL was, end of the day, when I wanted to go, her uncle volunteer to send me back and demand 100k.

Anyway just gong gong paid....

My first trip to HCMC. Learnt a lot...... The story here is, dun think too much, go n experience it and u will grow street smarter.

Good luck, u will need a lot.

Hurricane88 · #**19191** 24-02-2014, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

U reminded me of my 1st trip to HCMC more than 10 yrs ago... same situation, going to see my ger. I also dunno how much to bring and what to expect. Just bought a ticket, no budget air. I still remember my 1st hotel in HCMC is Vien Dong. Told my ger to pick me up from airport and off I went.

Met my ger in HCMC and I gong gong followed her, took a taxi and back to my hotel.

I was a bit luckier...my frens were there waiting at hotel...my gal came to meet at airport...taxi to d1 cbt area was only 100k...exchange rate was around 11k back in 2007...spent around sgd 500...

naemlo · #**19192** 24-02-2014, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I was a bit luckier...my frens were there waiting at hotel...my gal came to meet at airport...taxi to d1 cbt area was only 100k...exchange rate was around 11k back in 2007...spent around sgd 500...

Those were the good old days, younger, more energetic, willing to explore.... now old man, rest n relax mode. Ask me purposely go HCMC visit a ger, I will think 100 times... I rather pay for her to visit me.

Hurricane88 · #**19193** 24-02-2014, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Those were the good old days, younger, more energetic, willing to explore.... now old man, rest n relax mode. Ask me purposely go HCMC visit a ger, I will think 100 times... I rather pay for her to visit me.

Haha...I dun mind...still going hcm monthly trip...now go province to meet vb...hehe...

KangTuo · #**19194** 24-02-2014, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Haha...I dun mind...still going hcm monthly trip...now go province to meet vb...hehe...

I long long time then go hcmc already..
Many vb know why i cannot go visit them

KangTuo · #**19195** 24-02-2014, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted by damong777

No. Just want to go hcm to see for myself what she told is true or not.

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Originally Posted by damong777

Actually really no clue

If i know what to expect, maybe i can say. But i really dun know.

You already expect what you wanna see.. 'the truth'
Simi no clue?

KangTuo · #**19196** 24-02-2014, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

he is a senior citizen and have the priority to enter first because he is a SENIOR CITIZEN.Airport staff told him his not and let him in.Bringing a Vietnamese girl along,I think that girl is 30 years younger than him.

Senior citizen with his daugther lah...

Golden question · #**19197** 24-02-2014, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

See whether there is a kid that is very close to her. (May be her own kid)

See whether there is a very close brother. (may be her bf)

One of my "ex gf" have a 21 year old younger sister who has a 4 year old son. That meant she got pregnant at 16. Hence young gal in VN dos not meant she do not has kid.

Some VB I know married at 17-18 yea old. So young also does not meant single.

Within less than a year,u can advise on all this,either u are damm good in mastering all this or u got a very good si fu,xiao di pei fu pei fu

Seletar · #**19198** 24-02-2014, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by damong777

Yes first time going.

Should be going for 4 to 5 days due to my work commitments in singapore. Will be visiting her home and rest of time should in hcm

Just K poh a bit, may I know where you met your bx ?

Golden question · #**19199** 24-02-2014, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Senior citizen with his daugther lah...

Knn,maybe next time he use his first generation package to tell vietnamese airport staff to cut q haha

Golden question · #**19200** 24-02-2014, 01:09 PM

Sorry is pioneer generation package,hope i wont have the chance to get this package haha