Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1262

Hurricane88 · #**18916** 22-12-2013, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I have been there, done it and gone through it as well. But not any wiser at times. Can be hard hearted and soft hearted... Sometimes evil somtimes angel.

Different vb is being treated differently... Sime worth good treatment, some can ask them go eat shit.

I am sure you dun always say yes to your wife...even when she is unreasonable..you had treated her badly during your 5 years courtship...you had played continuously and telling lies all the while...yet she stayed with you and never left you...you think she dun know you go out play other VBs...she knew and still love you...so are you a good man...ask yourself...

mutantchicken · #**18917** 23-12-2013, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

How come both eyes shut and 1 ear closed?
Both eyes shut means be blinded by love?
1 ear closed means let whatever you heard not flow out?

I would say go in a rs with both eyes wide open to observe and no ears being shut so that what you hear is 1 ear in, 1 ear out

i agree..go in with BOTH eyes open look and observe, pretend to be blind so they think u stupid and slip up..listen with both ears, so u can detect lies, but definately dont beleive all

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I am sure you dun always say yes to your wife...even when she is unreasonable..you had treated her badly during your 5 years courtship...you had played continuously and telling lies all the while...yet she stayed with you and never left you...you think she dun know you go out play other VBs...she knew and still love you...so are you a good man...ask yourself...

Still early days...once she has got all she wanted and she still stay around then ill beleive, revenge/vengence is a dish best served cold.Women regardless of nationality often act blur blur, empty words then once they got all they need opr wnat from u...then knife comes out. Be bad at ur peril, be stupid and overly generous at your disadvantage. Key aspect is respect..she dont respect you dont matter if u good or bad...its not so black/white as being bad or good.

vietboy · #**18918** 23-12-2013, 02:44 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

How come both eyes shut and 1 ear closed?
Both eyes shut means be blinded by love?
1 ear closed means let whatever you heard not flow out?

I would say go in a rs with both eyes wide open to observe and no ears being shut so that what you hear is 1 ear in, 1 ear out

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Originally Posted by mutantchicken

i agree..go in with BOTH eyes open look and observe, pretend to be blind so they think u stupid and slip up..listen with both ears, so u can detect lies, but definately dont beleive all

I too agreed with this.

KangTuo · #**18919** 23-12-2013, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I am sure you dun always say yes to your wife...even when she is unreasonable..you had treated her badly during your 5 years courtship...you had played continuously and telling lies all the while...yet she stayed with you and never left you...you think she dun know you go out play other VBs...she knew and still love you...so are you a good man...ask yourself...

So this is your definition on being bad.
I thought being bad is beating, no give money, ask her go earn herself and contribute to family, fool around wirh other vb infront of her ...

I am a good man now leh...

I have went through quite a bit to clean up my act ... Not easy

mutantchicken · #**18920** 23-12-2013, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

So this is your definition on being bad.
I thought being bad is beating, no give money, ask her go earn herself and contribute to family, fool around wirh other vb infront of her ...

I am a good man now leh...

i only beat her ass in doggie, i dont give money and i would expect her to earn her keep if she can...and i def dont fool around esp in front of her...regardless of how much money you give her, just like men, i dont think women can ever forget that ultimate betrayal

Hurricane88 · #**18921** 23-12-2013, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

So this is your definition on being bad.
I thought being bad is beating, no give money, ask her go earn herself and contribute to family, fool around wirh other vb infront of her ...

I am a good man now leh...

I have went through quite a bit to clean up my act ... Not easy

haha...when did I ever advocate use force or beat up women...that is barbaric act...and that can be charged under sinkie penal code...or bad karma...

I knew you had cleaned up your act after you married and had a child...you have to spend plenty of money to bring up your child...money nvr enough now because you dun know what other expenditure coming in future...if you still go and cheat on your wife...then good luck because when the time comes for you to face reality then dun blame anyone...only yourself to blame...

my hard tactics means...dun just listen to VBs...never pamper them in short time and give money just to buy love...always say no or ignore money request till she gives in to you...play the ignorant game...go out with your fren and dun stay with her when she is too demanding...^^

Hurricane88 · #**18922** 24-12-2013, 07:51 PM

Merry Xmas to all...Wish you all the best in 2014...

Kalv · #**18923** 24-12-2013, 08:22 PM

Golden question · #**18924** 24-12-2013, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

But I see u go there in the day time leh, not at night

wow,u caught me in broad daylight

vietboy · #**18925** 24-12-2013, 09:56 PM

Merry christmas to all bros n their family n loved ones.

Peacock29 · #**18926** 25-12-2013, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyTeddy

hi everyone,

I have been reading this thread till page 164. Learn a lot and understand a lot from it. still reading now.
Met my gf in a ktv. actually this is her first time in sg.. few day after meeting her, she got caught while working, so kinda worry what will happen. Sadly she was deported back 2 days later.
After that we was communicating with WeChat and she took up mandarin class.
she say she work in restaurant (from 3pm till 11pm her time)
Im going to Vietnam for the 1st time this xmas eve to see her.
Seeking advice on what to do. What things to pay attention to.

Thanks

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Bro, this is a tough case. If u plan to develop yur relationship further(like into husband/wife), be prepared to help her on her ICA case. And with her being caught as a WL... Have u heard of a song with the lyrics: "难难难，难难难"?
But a few bros here managed to do it. So by then if u need help, can ask them.

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Its a long tedious and frustrating route with the ICA

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Originally Posted by BabyTeddy

The worry is the ICA part. she can only come back to sg after 2015. And no guarantee admission.

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For sure happy la, can see her again ^_^
Hehehe im enjoying the honeymoon period, hehehe my aim is this period be forever. hhahah
Ok thanks bro. I kinda know how much to bring^_^.
Kinda nervous, she say she bring me see her parentsD

It is definitely harder than marrying a vb with no problems with ICA

But we have a bro in the group, seems extremely lucky.

His bx got banned 1 year. Apply first time come in failed. Go MP one time, come in got married, apply LTVP first time successful, 1 year LTVP. Well I guess luck plays a big part too. I heard of much troublesome routes some bros had taken but this bro route is so far easiest I had ber heard.

Like other bros advices, just enjoy the honeymoon period and wait till 2015, Sakali cannot get along, then no need to worry already hehe

jackbl · #**18927** 25-12-2013, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

wow,u caught me in broad daylight

At least 3 times

decent02 · #**18928** 25-12-2013, 12:52 PM

Chuc cac ban noel vui ve nha

FireShark · #**18929** 25-12-2013, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I have been there, done it and gone through it as well. But not any wiser at times. Can be hard hearted and soft hearted... Sometimes evil somtimes angel.

Different vb is being treated differently... Sime worth good treatment, some can ask them go eat shit.

Agreed with KT. Different VB is being treat differently. There are good VB arounds. I had experienced it that those willing to help you when you are in trouble.

You can be bad but just don't beat them that all. I saw many Viet guys beat their gf/bx up.

FireShark · #**18930** 25-12-2013, 01:07 PM

Just some info of Phu Quoc

Went to Phu Quoc on the 20 Dec and rtn to HCM on the 24 Dec. A good place for a couple for a short holidays. I didn't make any advance bookings of hotel in Phu Quoc but when I arrived their with my BX, we manged to see few different hotels and settle down with Kim Hoa Phu Quoc Hotel.

There are many cheap seafoods, eat too much BBQ seafood and now having sorethroats. You guys if had any chances, please fly to there. I find it better and cheaper than Nha Trang.