Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1225

jf66312 · #**18361** 01-08-2013, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Your didi also salute her when you see her?

haha...not really ..semi-salute only..coz really want to treat her as a good friend...

FireShark · #**18362** 02-08-2013, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

For those bro who think that singaporean way of doing things especially for thinking will be the same as us,better think twice before marrying 1

Their culture and thinking is totally different from us.Those viet u want to use our thinking of 'Give a person a fishing rod and teach him to fish rather than give him fish to eat',u can try.

Their stubborness and thinking that foreigner are always rich will always be on their mind.

Some bro will say,mine is different but some culture and thinking will always be in their blood same as singaporean,kiasu or kiasi will always be on our blood

There are always the good and bad of VN same like Chinadolls. I cant say that I'm an old bird with VN but I had known VB coming to 10 years. I saw some of them don't really care how much you give them, they care more how much you love and take care of them. They are stubborn at times but if they are our wife, we need to educate them.

I had friends who doesn't earn much is marrying a VB but they live happily and I do had friends who married a VB get divorce in the end. If we intend to get VB as a partner, we need to understand them and return, they need to understand us.

I had friend who is earning around 10K++ a month married to this VB he know for a year only. We thought they cant last as the gal was bit young for him. Now, They had 1 kid and 1 more coming. My friend told me inital 1st 6 month staying together is difficult. His wife cant stand the food Singapore, often wanted to eat JC. After numerous arguements, fights and talks make them understanding better. Now his wife take care of his children and mum. He don't need to give his wife family allowance but every Chinese New Year, my friend gave his wife family a big ang bao. They do live happily.

My friend advise me is try not to let ye wife mix with those Single VB, mixed with those married in Singapore it ok. Cos my friend find that those Single VB often gave his wife new ideas and they end up in arguement.

I just married a VB and I do give my BX some allowance for her and her family member until we have a kids. This is a promise I made. Once both of us had kids, I will stop giving her family member allowance.

mutantchicken · #**18363** 02-08-2013, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

There are always the good and bad of VN same like Chinadolls. I cant say that I'm an old bird with VN but I had known VB coming to 10 years. I saw some of them don't really care how much you give them, they care more how much you love and take care of them. They are stubborn at times but if they are our wife, we need to educate them.

I had friends who doesn't earn much is marrying a VB but they live happily and I do had friends who married a VB get divorce in the end. If we intend to get VB as a partner, we need to understand them and return, they need to understand us.

I had friend who is earning around 10K++ a month married to this VB he know for a year only. We thought they cant last as the gal was bit young for him. Now, They had 1 kid and 1 more coming. My friend told me inital 1st 6 month staying together is difficult. His wife cant stand the food Singapore, often wanted to eat JC. After numerous arguements, fights and talks make them understanding better. Now his wife take care of his children and mum. He don't need to give his wife family allowance but every Chinese New Year, my friend gave his wife family a big ang bao. They do live happily.

My friend advise me is try not to let ye wife mix with those Single VB, mixed with those married in Singapore it ok. Cos my friend find that those Single VB often gave his wife new ideas and they end up in arguement.

I just married a VB and I do give my BX some allowance for her and her family member until we have a kids. This is a promise I made. Once both of us had kids, I will stop giving her family member allowance.

firstly 10k+ a month is a very good salary by anyones standars i assume, and as such if u have such a good bread winner im sure vb are savy enuff to make concessions...see if she is accoumating if it was 3-4k a month...secondly..who in there right mind would tell outsiders all the failure and all the dissappointmnets in ones relationship..no one ever airs their dirty linen...they say bad 2, its prob bad 4..they say good 2 its really good one...its like how men exagerate how many fucks they have and women discount their...i wouldnt trust a external account of what the relationship is like...ultimately everone need to work it out from themselves, its equally pointless to ask on sammyboy unless u are exactly on par with other members ie ugly girl demand less pretty girl demand more, handsome man give less, ugly man give more, young man give less old man give more, if u a better salary u naturally would be expected to give a bigger allowance, how is it reasonable to ask on sammyboy if the people u ask is not equal to u

KangTuo · #**18364** 02-08-2013, 10:38 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

My friend advise me is try not to let ye wife mix with those Single VB, mixed with those married in Singapore it ok. Cos my friend find that those Single VB often gave his wife new ideas and they end up in arguement.

not true. it depends whether your bx can be easily influenced. if not, mix with single or married vb also can.

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Originally Posted by FireShark

I just married a VB and I do give my BX some allowance for her and her family member until we have a kids. This is a promise I made. Once both of us had kids, I will stop giving her family member allowance.

when have kids already then say whether got give allowance to family member.
my bx also say got kids liao don't need give monthly allowancetoher mum and dad. but now I am still giving monthly

jackbl · #**18365** 03-08-2013, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

when have kids already then say whether got give allowance to family member. my bx also say got kids liao don't need give monthly allowancetoher mum and dad. but now I am still giving monthly

Her Ong xa is different from others. Her Ong xa thuong her alot

FireShark · #**18366** 04-08-2013, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

when have kids already then say whether got give allowance to family member.
my bx also say got kids liao don't need give monthly allowancetoher mum and dad. but now I am still giving monthly

I will continue to give my Bxa allowance to use in Singapore. If she can save the $ and keep it for her family, It good for her. I don't want her family member think that I will support their family until the day I die. I don't want her brother to took up gambling again and ask me for help again. Once, I help her brother to settle gambling debts of USD 3K. I told my Bxa, if one more time, I won't help him again. I do afraid that 1 day, her family will ask for more. I had told her all my concerns and she agree with it. Like I said, there are good and bad VB, I do saw the good one and I do saw the bad one too. Those bad one I saw really make me wanna to give them a tight slap.

Yesterday, Xin Ming newspaper had reported i gave my VB wife 15K to go back VN and didnt return to Singapore and lost contact. He log on to FB and saw saw his wife intimacy photo with a guy in VN. The wife was so clever to wait until 3 years when she got the PR, she disappeared. This example will lead to many people to think differently about VB. In the past it used to be Chinadolls having such problem. Now VB also give such problem. Sigh...... Frankly speaking my parents don't like me marrying a VB cos of so many bad news of them.

mutantchicken · #**18367** 05-08-2013, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

I will continue to give my Bxa allowance to use in Singapore. If she can save the $ and keep it for her family, It good for her. I don't want her family member think that I will support their family until the day I die. I don't want her brother to took up gambling again and ask me for help again. Once, I help her brother to settle gambling debts of USD 3K. I told my Bxa, if one more time, I won't help him again. I do afraid that 1 day, her family will ask for more. I had told her all my concerns and she agree with it. Like I said, there are good and bad VB, I do saw the good one and I do saw the bad one too. Those bad one I saw really make me wanna to give them a tight slap.

Yesterday, Xin Ming newspaper had reported i gave my VB wife 15K to go back VN and didnt return to Singapore and lost contact. He log on to FB and saw saw his wife intimacy photo with a guy in VN. The wife was so clever to wait until 3 years when she got the PR, she disappeared. This example will lead to many people to think differently about VB. In the past it used to be Chinadolls having such problem. Now VB also give such problem. Sigh...... Frankly speaking my parents don't like me marrying a VB cos of so many bad news of them.

but why blame the vb, if she young and pretty and singy is old and ugly, further he give her a lifestyle that is not very exceptional in singapore...if you the girl would u stay...in life there is no excusing stupidity, if everyone can see you are being stupid, and u cant because u wanna close ur eyes..then the one doing that should expect no sympathy...regardles sif u singy, viet kieu, korean whatever

shysaint · #**18368** 11-08-2013, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by FireShark

Those bad one I saw really make me wanna to give them a tight slap.

If no bad ones, then how to differentiate the good ones

how many bad ones can u slap

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Originally Posted by FireShark

Yesterday, Xin Ming newspaper had reported i gave my VB wife 15K to go back VN and didnt return to Singapore and lost contact... He log on ....

U ???????????? He ??????

So is YOU or HE ????

shysaint · #**18369** 11-08-2013, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Her Ong xa is different from others. Her Ong xa thuong her alot

Jackbl kor kor ...

Thought u say no more tv for u ... Here u talk many tv again ...

When going for a drink ? Long time no hear u talk n sing tv songs Liao

KangTuo · #**18370** 11-08-2013, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Jackbl kor kor ...

Thought u say no more tv for u ... Here u talk many tv again ...

When going for a drink ? Long time no hear u talk n sing tv songs Liao

Jackbl upgraded ... He rap in tv now