Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[hayhay]

That's why I'm on medic for IMH, You saying so truth, I have no prove at all.
I don know why I'm this way, I hope this medic from IMH can help me, I pity her she is with me.


I think is all me? But she alway come back late from work, cause she said she hate coming home
Thanks for ur advice, I hope I will change for the better

Originally Posted by shysaint

Let me start from your last sentence first.

I am SO confuse on your statement !

You are already contradicting n confused your ownself ... How can you think properly.

You allowed her to be with someone and you are ok with it ? So strange .. is she not your wife ?

At this stage , when her heart no longer with you, whether she bed or no bed with that someone, its no longer important.



Yes .. probably u don't understand the cultures ... And guessed you don't understand woman as well .

I cannot and also not up to me to comment / tells you whether she has someone outside. I also believe no one can tell u.

U r the husband ... It's your job to find out the truth and carry out the proper remedy actions.

If u don't trust her, why marry her at the first place ?

Next , what things did she do to make u think that she is having someone outside ? If nothing than u are just plain paranoid.

Next , also think what have you done to her ?

I can tell you straight forward Now ..if you are so f**king paranoid, the day your wife pregnant will be the day this marriage is going to end ! Coz a person like you will sure thinks that the baby is not yours.

If you can trust people here whom you dun meet before and you don't trust a woman u married and you see her everyday ... Something is real wrong with u !

Go think thru everything, dun just come here and seek advice . And please use your brain before exercising advice from the thread.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Something to share n discuss.. With brothers here esp many of us are sole earners


Young Singapore mother struggling to make ends meet
quote:

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FYI, raising a child now is about 1K per month. all the milk powder, diaper, paying for the caregiver, food, medical (touch wood), etc.

This is reality, I am also trying to accept it. If you can’t accept it, you may want to choose to leave the country.

Seeing my friends stress up on Primary 1 registration.Over registration of Pri 1, having to ballot becos of lots of New citizen joining, taking up the Pri 1 vacancy. Raising up cost, Education cost, competition, etc. All this add up to the consideration of people having children. It’s not easy living in Singapore now

now you are talking...you can have your say every 5 years in GE...make sure you exercise correctly...

I am one that will definitely leave after I retire...haha...

btw, this topic has nothing to do with this thread...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by shysaint

A street along main rd called cong hoa. Opposite e-town.

wonder why he bother to ask...so many are doing that...as though he knew all the streets names in hcm...

to get over this problem is easy...just compare the price before you buy...buy from the shop which you like...example cheap, good service, beautiful gals...etc...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by player79

Hi brother anyone in singapore can teach tieng viet cheap cheap. I want people to teach me speak tv. Got pls kindly pm me. i got book but cannot speak.

haha...why want to learn...get a long hair dictionary to teach you...

or just learn at JC/GL...

[repsoi]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

wonder why he bother to ask...so many are doing that...as though he knew all the streets names in hcm...

to get over this problem is easy...just compare the price before you buy...buy from the shop which you like...example cheap, good service, beautiful gals...etc...

i might have used the wrong way to ask, thats why there is a misundertanding. i am not asking for the street name. i am asking if the reason he is at the street is because there is some shops there providing some kind of pleasure services.

Why i am asking that is because when he share his experience with me,
in the reply, it sounds like so.

[Goalie]

Originally Posted by A+++

bro if 1500 is good enough, y don't u just marry her & get her a ltvp or dependant pass (which u have more than 4k income), she could work as waitress or whatsoever which could be even more than 1500.....

Very good answer indeed.

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...why want to learn...get a long hair dictionary to teach you...

or just learn at JC/GL...

Where u learnt???

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by repsoi

i might have used the wrong way to ask, thats why there is a misundertanding. i am not asking for the street name. i am asking if the reason he is at the street is because there is some shops there providing some kind of pleasure services.

Why i am asking that is because when he share his experience with me,
in the reply, it sounds like so.

1 .... Not everyone comes to Vn to f**k ... N get S**ked ...

I am Definitely NOT one of them ....

2 .... Wrong Thread to share such info ....

Anyway no worries .... Misunderstanding here can clear up BUT sometimes misunderstanding with your loved one may not cleared up so fast ...

So we see the importance of proper communications ...

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...why want to learn...get a long hair dictionary to teach you...

or just learn at JC/GL...

I learn a lot of TV from long hair dictionary but not cheap hor. 3 times a week, lessons begin at 8pm to 11pm. Practical lessons will cost more.

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

now you are talking...you can have your say every 5 years in GE...make sure you exercise correctly...

I am one that will definitely leave after I retire...haha...

btw, this topic has nothing to do with this thread...

Just find it funny when they cant survived but how most of us can? Its a matter of choice
I also like u H88 planned to give myself 25-30yrs to earn n save then fxxk off from here, once my kid/s grow up.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Kim91

If 4k plus sure can get ltvp+, got formal salary Got cpf got pay tax. Higher chance of getting PR later. Think long not short term gain bro. For me, i never never do that to my precious bx.

Spouse's high salary is not the only citieria for LTSVP+.
Below is extracted from ICA website.
Couples who have at least one child who is a Singapore Citizen from their marriage will be eligible to apply for the LTVP+. For those without an SC child, we will look at other factors such as duration of marriage, and will in general consider more favourably those who have been married for at least three years. Each application will be considered on its own merits. Other factors that we consider include the ability of the sponsor to financially support the family, and good conduct of both the sponsor and the applicant.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Just find it funny when they cant survived but how most of us can? Its a matter of choice
I also like u H88 planned to give myself 25-30yrs to earn n save then fxxk off from here, once my kid/s grow up.

haha...u still so many years...means very young...me need a few more yrs...bye roi...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Where u learnt???

haha...me learn in Vietnam ma...

[repsoi]

Originally Posted by repsoi

ic what you means. Its like that i think, they want to earn a little. But 2k dong is like 15cents in singapore, not much.

Just curious, where is this place u mention for??

Originally Posted by shysaint

1 .... Not everyone comes to Vn to f**k ... N get S**ked ...

I am Definitely NOT one of them ....

2 .... Wrong Thread to share such info ....

Anyway no worries .... Misunderstanding here can clear up BUT sometimes misunderstanding with your loved one may not cleared up so fast ...

So we see the importance of proper communications ...

I agree wth you, communication is very important

[player79]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Just find it funny when they cant survived but how most of us can? Its a matter of choice
I also like u H88 planned to give myself 25-30yrs to earn n save then fxxk off from here, once my kid/s grow up.

Bro i think u make a wrong choice by having a family in spore. Your money will be spent on your family. That what i see in singapore. End of the day u cannot retire. To bad unless u make ton of money.