Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 904

vietboy · #**13546** 25-04-2012, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Earn ??? Maybe can maybe Cannot ...

Mine never earn $$$

Mine case better, I pay for banquet, she take the li Xi .. hahhaha ..

mine also nvr earn... huhuhu...

vietboy · #**13547** 25-04-2012, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Honey Boon

+++ ..... Service Charge, GST and what else?

anyway, congratulation ..... saw your happy face

got Service Charge, GST one meh??

vietboy · #**13548** 25-04-2012, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

just a break down on my wedding and ROM for bro interested to know and take it as a guide for the planning.

ROM
wedding band - $900
chalet + table chair rental - $250
food - $300
drinks and beer - $200
table decoration - $300
translator $250
solemnizer ang bao - $50
(of course recover a portion from the ang bao friends give)

Customary
4 gold - $2100
banquet + tentage + stage and sound + gown rental and makeup - $4000
photography - $250 (included in the $4k)... was quoted $150 but after taking photo and see my bx marry a foreigner, he up the charge

5 x customary wedding gift (betle nuts, candle light, cakes etc) - $150 (included in the $4k)
tansport to province - $100
my airticket - $180
misc - unknown.. so its +++

who say its cheap to marry vn wife... please reconsider

at least cheaper than marry a local... at least 2 times that amt...

vietboy · #**13549** 25-04-2012, 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

My cost for Wedding Photography Package is about $1.5 k and it include

1 Damn Big Album
1 Big Portrait
Outdoor Shoot
Indoor Shoot
5 Pcs of Wedding Dresses for ceremony & dinner
2 Pcs of Bridegroom Attire for ceremony & dinner
Videography + CD
Bridal Car
Customary Accessories.

that is cheap!

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

mine $300 include
1 Album
1 big potraite
Outdoor Shoot
Indoor Shoot
5 Pcs of Wedding Dresses (include ao dai)
3 Pcs of Bridegroom Attire (include ao dai)
CD with all photos and photoshop-ed album photo
taxi
Customary Accessories
3 syt helper

this is even cheaper! lol

vietboy · #**13550** 25-04-2012, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

Everything depends on the girl and how much that man can afford.Have money,throw a nice one,no money throw a simple one.Recently talk to 1 one my client,she told me nowadays,sg parents have to help pay for their children banquet cos their children want a grand one and that parents say is a trend now so no choice.Seriously i look down on those sg children who have to use or borrow from their parents to get marry

the parents also want "face"

chanyboy · #**13551** 26-04-2012, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Expenses after marriage will surely be much higher as compared to when you are single. Its especially so after you have kids. Its never easy to maintain a family, especially in Singapore when expenses are so high. But there are also blissfulness and happiness that you cannot find when you are single. Nothing is free. I was once told by a fellow brother that he is sure he wll save a lot of money on commercial sex after marriage as he will have a ready partner. But things turned out other wise, after some time, he felt bored and went back to commercial sex. Marriage is not about sex alone, its about many other things and most importantly, responsibilities. Why ang mohs cannot last in marriages? because they are not committed to responsibilities. I have a viet lady friend who married a rich ang moh who is old enough to be her father. That ang moh had 3 previous marriages and 6 children from them. This viet lady is his 4th wife. Now 3 years after marriage, marriage is on the rocks. This marriage thingy is seriously not as simple as it looks, but the fact is , if one is not ready for responsbilities, one should not get married.

well said...

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

you just pop out from no where?

no choice le.. I onli can visit you guys here mah..once in a blue moon... Instead of turning into a wolf, turns into a rabbit when the full moon come.

Try to make babies quick. Eat well, u nd the energy pills (hence, spend more $). Also, it's no guarantee even if like rabbit's habit - everyday, night. Test indicated it took 4 months for #1...9 months for #2..(and so on...)

jackbl · #**13552** 26-04-2012, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

i have yet to know this amount for my church wedding next month

Again???

jackbl · #**13553** 26-04-2012, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

part 4 - honeymoon... spend $$$ again

No worries! Go Nha Trang, Mui Ne, Dalat..... Easily can go for 10days. If u need planning, I help u

V|ernar · #**13554** 26-04-2012, 02:10 PM

One of my friend spend 3k for everything .. That 3k is to give the girl mother and end of story.. No table no this and that .

I feel like it buying a sex slave plus maid .. Proper marriage will cost you around 10k , if you want to do the cheapo way , just register in Singapore and end of story .

Honey Boon · #**13555** 26-04-2012, 06:13 PM

Vung Tau if you only have two days ..... you forgot to mention PQ island

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Originally Posted by jackbl

No worries! Go Nha Trang, Mui Ne, Dalat..... Easily can go for 10days. If u need planning, I help u

KangTuo · #**13556** 26-04-2012, 10:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Again???

yes becoz my bx is a catholic but yet to get a date for the church wedding.
plan is next month. wait till my bx come back we will get a date.
want to come again?

i also go church every sunday liao

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Originally Posted by jackbl

No worries! Go Nha Trang, Mui Ne, Dalat..... Easily can go for 10days. If u need planning, I help u

worries is not enuff leave ah...

jackbl · #**13557** 27-04-2012, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

yes becoz my bx is a catholic but yet to get a date for the church wedding.
plan is next month. wait till my bx come back we will get a date.
want to come again?

If u can intro Red dress, pink dress, or blue dress to me, and sit beside me during the church ceremony

I wanted to be the one who attended all your wedding ceremonies, ROM, VN and church

Golden question · #**13558** 27-04-2012, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

If u can intro Red dress, pink dress, or blue dress to me, and sit beside me during the church ceremony

I wanted to be the one who attended all your wedding ceremonies, ROM, VN and church

If old lady wear red,pink or blue dress,u ok

Honey Boon · #**13559** 27-04-2012, 12:38 PM

I can help to supply flower girls or Bible boys

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Originally Posted by jackbl

If u can intro Red dress, pink dress, or blue dress to me, and sit beside me during the church ceremony

I wanted to be the one who attended all your wedding ceremonies, ROM, VN and church

monicalf · #**13560** 28-04-2012, 01:30 AM

Good day all bros

Appealing to everyone, who can advise which GP or doc that your Viet spouse or gf will visit when they are unwell?

In my case, there is potential communication issues as she only knows simple English or mandarin.

Trying to seek anywhere can find any local GP able to converse basic if not simple Viet.

Thanks alot in advance.