Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 598

xyman · #**8956** 28-03-2011, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by KTV siao

haha sorry .. i mean meet up in singapore.. however i am flying to hcm next mth on the 13th.. not very familiar there but i heard the discos are pretty fun

Getting married without experiencing hcm...heeheehee... Where u meet your ban gai?

Nowadays the vn very hiong le, want to get pregnant and have babies with us, is this a trend now. Few of my friends experience this...

xyman · #**8957** 28-03-2011, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by KTV siao

haha sorry .. i mean meet up in singapore.. however i am flying to hcm next mth on the 13th.. not very familiar there but i heard the discos are pretty fun

One more thing, is not only her you married, is her whole family, extended, etc.. So maybe the whole countryside...

Hurricane88 · #**8958** 28-03-2011, 08:44 PM

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Originally Posted by xyman

Getting married without experiencing hcm...heeheehee... Where u meet your ban gai?

Nowadays the vn very hiong le, want to get pregnant and have babies with us, is this a trend now. Few of my friends experience this...

KC trap ma...use baby to hold you hostage...ask you for money ma...all my VB say wan to have baby with me...I say ok...baby will be in Sinkie land study...all dare not to have baby anymore...

SingViet · #**8959** 29-03-2011, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

KC trap ma...use baby to hold you hostage...ask you for money ma...all my VB say wan to have baby with me...I say ok...baby will be in Sinkie land study...all dare not to have baby anymore...

They have this idea that once they have baby with the singaporean man, the singaporean man will marry them and they will be assured of residence status in Singapore and also regular income to their family members in the province. But after marrying here, they realised that life in singapore is actually worse off then vietnam. Every month need to worry about money, and the amount they can send back to their family members is quite miserable also. With their hopes dashed after some time, some will give up and go back Vn.

Hurricane88 · #**8960** 29-03-2011, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

They have this idea that once they have baby with the singaporean man, the singaporean man will marry them and they will be assured of residence status in Singapore and also regular income to their family members in the province.

haha...always tell my ger baby go to sinkie land but you stay in hcm...cannot see baby unless holiday come back...haha...scared the shit out of them...

miua55555 · #**8961** 30-03-2011, 01:27 AM

Nowadays living in singapore really depend on dual income from husband and wife.

SingViet · #**8962** 30-03-2011, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by miua55555

Nowadays living in singapore really depend on dual income from husband and wife.

No doubts aboout it. Unless the husband can really earn above average salaries, or else life is really tough. Everything is on the rise, Electricity tariff just rose 6.5%, making it the highest in 2 1/2 years. Petrol also over $2 a litre now, plus all other things all getting expensive.

But i do know of couples who stay with their parents and the parents are paying for almost everything, so they don't feel the pinch at all. Damm no pride.

Hurricane88 · #**8963** 30-03-2011, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

No doubts aboout it. Unless the husband can really earn above average salaries, or else life is really tough. Everything is on the rise, Electricity tariff just rose 6.5%, making it the highest in 2 1/2 years. Petrol also over $2 a litre now, plus all other things all getting expensive.

But i do know of couples who stay with their parents and the parents are paying for almost everything, so they don't feel the pinch at all. Damm no pride.

should put in at least 10-15 opposition MPs in cuming GE...otherwise no end to all these increases...sianz...

SureScore · #**8964** 30-03-2011, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

They have this idea that once they have baby with the singaporean man, the singaporean man will marry them and they will be assured of residence status in Singapore and also regular income to their family members in the province. But after marrying here, they realised that life in singapore is actually worse off then vietnam. Every month need to worry about money, and the amount they can send back to their family members is quite miserable also. With their hopes dashed after some time, some will give up and go back Vn.

An experienced master speaking.

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...always tell my ger baby go to sinkie land but you stay in hcm...cannot see baby unless holiday come back...haha...scared the shit out of them...

This another experienced master speaking.

Seletar · #**8965** 31-03-2011, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

should put in at least 10-15 opposition MPs in cuming GE...otherwise no end to all these increases...sianz...

I 100% agree with you, otherwise our children will not be able to afford HDB flats. The prices of flats keep rising, expenses high etc.. etc.. better spend my money in Vietnam.

Xgenre · #**8966** 31-03-2011, 10:06 PM

If the girl tells you she's pregnant, there's no way for us to confirm the baby's ours. If we marry her during her pregnancy and then subsequently discover the kid isn't ours, WOW... women's charter hard to run away from. I suppose if they are scheming enough, they won't mind having sex with many men (after we have had sex with them) in order to get pregnant. Danger indeed.

KangTuo · #**8967** 31-03-2011, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Xgenre

If the girl tells you she's pregnant, there's no way for us to confirm the baby's ours. If we marry her during her pregnancy and then subsequently discover the kid isn't ours, WOW... women's charter hard to run away from. I suppose if they are scheming enough, they won't mind having sex with many men (after we have had sex with them) in order to get pregnant. Danger indeed.

no danger at all. Once a vb tell you she is pregnant, just tell her to go for abortion. very cheap to do it in vn.

naemlo · #**8968** 31-03-2011, 10:39 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

no danger at all. Once a vb tell you she is pregnant, just tell her to go for abortion. very cheap to do it in vn.

Very experience hor....

SureScore · #**8969** 01-04-2011, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Very experience hor....

He sure experienced after so many years.

SingViet · #**8970** 04-04-2011, 09:03 AM

I don't think any bro should marry a viet gal just because she claims that she's pregnant with yr child. There are several factors to consider before this commitment;

(1) Are you ready to give up your cheonging life and settle down?
(2) Are you ready to face the same lady daily for the rest of your life? any beautiful lady that you may have now may turn to be the opposite a few years after marriage
(3) Are you financially stable? Most sensitive but most sensible question. Will you be ready to feed her and the child? Do you have even the most basic of a few thousand dollars for her delivery? After delivery, the money for diapers, milk etc
(4) Are you ready to be responsible for her and the child? Marriage is not child's play, happy marry, not happy, divorce.

Most importantly, are you sure the child she's carrying is yours?