Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by GDX11

It was her first trip over to Singapore with 2 friends (all first timers). They are obviously not earning as much as they wanted but not do not feel comfortable to go "upstairs" for $ yet. We can never tell the future but at least for now she's one of the actually decent ones I've met. HA.

Well, I'm just enjoying my dates and stuff.. she's returning.. maybe for good..

same story line... `i don't do extra', if you believe her, you must be quite `green horn' if don't do extra, come here for what? stay in vn also can earn that little bit

[volcano]

for bros that r really interested in VB.....why dun u guys come over to Vietnam for a short vacation n go roam the shopping centers????

i can be sure that u guys will find acceptable targets....how to progress when u spot the target then its up to indivisuals liao....

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by GDX11

what about viet girls from KTVs who does not provide *** services? Those that are merely here on social visit pass and just earn from tips...
I've been really close with one of them lately but I'm cool since we talked it out. She's of Chinese heritage, wonder if Viet Chinese are of any difference to the usual viets.

Quote bro naemlo famous quote "She is different from other WL"

Quote bro Hurricane88 famous quote "If you trust WL then pigs also can climb trees"

Another samster fell into KC trap.

[Taz9]

Hi bros out there, I have been to Ho Chi Minh recently and try a few massage shops, those with girls who dressed sexily but no extra is provide (although I hope they have too). Got to know one of the girls and click quite well with her.

I have chiong viet pub in the past so more or less, do know the traits of a viet WL. But this girls really seem innocent not I do not have any WL feeling from her.

But any bros who chiong HCM have come across can advised if massage girs in those massage girls like to hook onto Foreigner also? And how innocent are they?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by automobile

Many people tell me slowy take my time to see.. but the more i see the more i get blur....

No money, never mind, can earn and spent carefully ...

Can help, we help ... but NOT doing charity ...

Having a VN BF ... I will respect you if you can accept that ....

Like all experienced BROs Said ... End the relationship ... There are better TREE among the TREES ...

That all I can say ....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Quote Bro naemlo quote "She is different from other girls..."

My Quote : My Wife is REALLY different from other Viet Gals ... REALLY

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Seletar

Why this girl don't tell me earlier before I lost my money ? Bro, pls help me

Bro ....

Ask yourself this questions :

Are you in a rush into this relationship?

Do you really need this relationship?

How sad are you if you end the relatiosnhip?

My advice:

1. Wait and see and observe.
2. Stop providing anything and sees what happen?
3. Play mind games.

Most important

Do you trust her ???

Are you able to forgive and forget if the truth is not what you want?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

WL think their chim made of vang...

I quote "IF you can trusts WL then pigs oso can climb trees..."

hahhahhahahha ......

[zichuan]

anyone has any idea whether my viet wife and me who is going taiwan for holidays, need to apply visa at taiwan embassy in singapore. because i just applied and got her visa through taiwan embassy, does she need to apply at vietnam embassy too? thx..

[shysaint]

After so many discussion ... I guessed the most important thing is

*** If you CANNOT TRUST your GF .... then DON'T be Together ... What's the Point ... *** Like Bro Hurricane quoted ...

There are Gals who really come here and work to support whatever need to be supported back at VN .....

There are also Gals who comes here just for $$$ .. Yes maybe they really love you but they also need $$$ , cannot get from you so get from other CARROT ... but then they still love you.

So i guessed, it boils down to luck on whoever you have chosen .... either you stick to your your choice or find another 1 ....

For me, I never find a girl who come to Singapore to work for moer than 1-2-3-4 years ... i guessed they KC you better than you KC them.

Like many BROs say .... there are many Better Gals out there in SG or in VN ...

Having a VN GF or BX is not about just financing $$$ ... it's the time and effort ..

Whether your GF or BX CAN be trusted ... It's up to you to find out and believe in it .... NO ONE can help you .... You have to take your own steps ... visit them regularly ... talk to them regularly and etc ...

So Ask yourself ... How often can you visit her in VN? How much truth can you take?

My quote : My Wife is REALLY Different from other Gals ... REALLY ...

Rgds

[GDX11]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Quote bro naemlo famous quote "She is different from other WL"

Quote bro Hurricane88 famous quote "If you trust WL then pigs also can climb trees"

Another samster fell into KC trap.

Haha, obviously most (if not all) come over with an obvious agenda, MONEY!

I'm definitely being KC-ed since she's nice and all but I am rational enough to draw my line. I'm young and am able to date relatively gd looking SG girls.. so it's not like I'm thinking about a long term relationship. Well, if I have the money, I dont mind paying for a part time gf anyway. Too bad I'm just an average joe and I wont allow my finances to kena sucka..

But I do feel that there are nice and "cleaner" viet girls in Singapore. However, the risk is too much to bear!

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro ....

Ask yourself this questions :

Are you in a rush into this relationship?

Do you really need this relationship?

How sad are you if you end the relatiosnhip?

My advice:

1. Wait and see and observe.
2. Stop providing anything and sees what happen?
3. Play mind games.

Most important

Do you trust her ???

Are you able to forgive and forget if the truth is not what you want?

Originally Posted by shysaint

After so many discussion ... I guessed the most important thing is

*** If you CANNOT TRUST your GF .... then DON'T be Together ... What's the Point ... ***

agree agree.
after reading so many queries from the newly-kc-ed bros... i also wanna say to all bros what you said above.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

yes, the lifestyle of the normal vietnamese is very simple. I doubt not many singaporeans can live like them.

probably can live awhile to experience it but not for long...
I just spend 3 days and 3 nights in mekong without phone signal (i never subscribe autoroaming, no buy SIM card), without internet, without aircon, with alot alot mosquitoes....if i live long like that, i will get crazy first.

usuallly i just visit my girlfriend family for 1 day or night. Its really an experience to stay with my girlfriend's family for this short period

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

WL has the biggest hobbies that is telling lies...telling lies and naming big sum earned is to see which stupit sinkies willing to pay them more......

my hobbies is also to tell lies to WL in jc/gl and also to my girlfriend when i hug other gals

WL tell lies to get money... we tell lies to bed gal... we tell lies when we look for other gals to bed.... WL also can tell lies when they meet other guys...

no one don't tell lies.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Maybe its time to forget the WL, forget the trouble they bring and look for good proper vietnamese gals .

the only big trouble with WL is money. some of them are poor and need money to get out of poverty so they work as WL. some are really here to suck money.

from the many post, I see that many bros here worried about being cheated off money but yet wanna find WL as gf.

but then there are always some good find among the bad apples