Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by maxrex

I think these conditions are not unreasonable. Moreover, my sister-in-law did not even request for the guy to be very handsome as a condition.

I commented too many conditions but not unreasonable. I also ask, can we list our conditions???

[chen_zhen]

Originally Posted by maxrex

This is Dung, my sister-in-law here.

Very decent looking.

[maxrex]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I commented too many conditions but not unreasonable. I also ask, can we list our conditions???

As long as your conditions are reasonable and acceptable.

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by maxrex

My Vietnamese wife's sister will like to find and marry a Singaporean man. As her brother-in-law, we are trying my best to help her. Let me say something about her. Her name is Dung, 27 years old, born in 1983 in Hanoi but is currently living with her family and working in Ho Chi Minh city for nearly 10 years. She know little English and does not know Mandarin at all. Any guys who are interested need to meet the conditions as stated below.

1) Born from 1977 to 1983.
2) Have a stable job. What job are you holding? Blue-collar job is not accepted. No offence intended.
3) Current marital status must be single and never married before.
4) Preferably non-smoker guy.
5) Only accept Singapore Chinese or Eurasian guy. Malay and Indian races are not accepted and Protestant religion is not accepted. No offence intended.
6) Willing to learn some basic Vietnamese to communicate with her. She is willing to learn English.
7) No toying with her, two-timing her and wasting her time.

Please PM me if you are really interested and serious about getting to know Dung. You will need to give me the answers to the conditions above and also submit your photo showing your face clearly. Dung had given me the go-ahead to show her photo to the interested guys as well.

Thank you.

Brother, if you want to do well for your sister in law advertising on a whore board for someone to marry her is not a good idea. No offense to the brothers but the cast of characters here are not the most wholesome. Brother, your marketing should be aimed at social clubs and other organizations that have more desirable characteristics among its people. No offense brother.

[shysaint]

3) Current marital status must be single and never married before. Do you expect her to date a married man?

Divorced not equal to Single?
What's wrong with married to a man who is already divorced?

5)How about if Singapore Chinese man is able to accept Malay / Indian woman or not? [/COLOR]

You talk as thought you are not a Singaporean .... FYI ... There are probably more than what you have expected

6) Willing to learn some basic Vietnamese to communicate with her. She is willing to learn English. Is this hard? She mentioned that she is more than willing to learn advanced English for communication. Currently, her level of English is basic.

You want whoever ant to marry her to learn Vietnamese , now you pose a question "Is this hard"??? hmmmm ....

7) No toying with her, two-timing her and wasting her time. What do you guys think if any woman will toy and two-time him?

well .... how can we justify on this ???? this should work out on the principle of trust ... Who is toying who ? well .. who knows?

I forgot to mention that she is not WL or FL at all. She is a decent woman. Also, she came to Singapore only 1 time to visit my wife and my kid for a few days. Oh, her height is 1.54m and weighs 43kg.

Is the word 'WL and FL' very sensitive in this thread?

I think these conditions are not unreasonable. Moreover, my sister-in-law did not even request for the guy to be very handsome as a condition.

---> Good Luck for her ... wish her find her mr right in singapore ... cheers ..

[maxrex]

Originally Posted by shysaint

3) Current marital status must be single and never married before. Do you expect her to date a married man?

Divorced not equal to Single?
What's wrong with married to a man who is already divorced?

5)How about if Singapore Chinese man is able to accept Malay / Indian woman or not? [/COLOR]

You talk as thought you are not a Singaporean .... FYI ... There are probably more than what you have expected

3) Regarding a divorced man, my wife will ask her sister if she can accept a divorced man as long as he is legally divorced by Singapore law and will get it back to you on this.

5) Singapore is a mult-cultural nation where people is very much exposed to. But Vietnam is not like that so do you think that the majority of Vietnamese women are able to accept Malay / Muslim and Indian / Hindu guys?

Thanks.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I commented too many conditions but not unreasonable. I also ask, can we list our conditions???

I disqualify myself...so many choices over in hcm...dun need to match make...

dun mean to be rude...no offence to anyone...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

I disqualify myself...so many choices over in hcm...dun need to match make...

I am not qualify too.... need to be earning a lot of money. Blue collar not accepted. I too old too.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by maxrex

This is Dung, my sister-in-law here.

I thought that you will be discrete in letting bro here see the photo of your sister-in-law... i.e through PM.



confirm this is not sabo case huh?

[maxrex]

Originally Posted by maxrex

3) Regarding a divorced man, my wife will ask her sister if she can accept a divorced man as long as he is legally divorced by Singapore law and will get it back to you on this.

Just received an sms from my sister-in-law and she is agreeable to a divorced man as long as he is legally divorced. She will not date a married man who is not yet divorced as she does not wish to be the 3rd party.

She also want to add that she is willing to learn to cook Singapore food from her future parents-in-law if they are willing to teach her.

[maxrex]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I thought that you will be discrete in letting bro here see the photo of your sister-in-law... i.e through PM.

confirm this is not sabo case huh?

Why will I want to sabo this case? She asked me to post 1 photo so I did that. My wife and I are helping her to find a good husband.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by maxrex

Just received an sms from my sister-in-law and she is agreeable to a divorced man as long as he is legally divorced.

A word of advice bro. Make sure to check if the divorcee has any maintenence to pay for child/wife and how is he coping if there is.
Other than the Decree Nisi to proof his status, there is an Ancillary Matters Document that list down all the monetary settlement/maintenence.

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by RealEstateGuy

Brother, if you want to do well for your sister in law advertising on a whore board for someone to marry her is not a good idea. No offense to the brothers but the cast of characters here are not the most wholesome. Brother, your marketing should be aimed at social clubs and other organizations that have more desirable characteristics among its people. No offense brother.

If I happen to respond to the ads at the social club, does that instantly made my condition most wholesome?

Also, my characteristic are desireable cos nowadays I go Kinokuniya bookstore sian "high class maid", then up them at Four Seasons Hotel.
If my character fuck type, how to have standard sian "high class maid" ??
Unless the "high class maid" blind la...

[batty]

Is it true that we should not give large amounts of money e.g. S$2000 - S$4000 as gifts to the Vietnamese fiancee that we are matchmade with while in Vietnam; before signing at the Singapore ROM? An Indian man, Singapore citizen did that and his Vietnamese fiancee suddenly had a change of mind. She broke off coming to Singapore to marry him. The Indian man said he will not claim the money back from her but he was taking it as a lesson.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by batty

Is it true that we should not give large amounts of money e.g. S$2000 - S$4000 as gifts to the Vietnamese fiancee that we are matchmade with while in Vietnam; before signing at the Singapore ROM? An Indian man, Singapore citizen did that and his Vietnamese fiancee suddenly had a change of mind. She broke off coming to Singapore to marry him. The Indian man said he will not claim the money back from her but he was taking it as a lesson.

bro...not sure in what circumstances your fren was in...anyway heard alot of Vn gers in marriage agencies back off from the marriage or MIA after receiving large advances or gifts...then reappear again trying to con another victim...