Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 435

Honey Boon · #**6511** 30-11-2009, 04:55 PM

if to cheong and bring out... then city gers

if to marry and keep at home ...... then kampung gers

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Originally Posted by naemlo

I do prefer city gers...

Shoot To Target · #**6512** 01-12-2009, 07:24 PM

Another few more days i will b in vn to source for business again. I m looking into hotel bussiness to gather with my friends next to my coffeehse. Hope it works so i dun need to work so gan khor in spore.

Another thing is to source for gd gals for some bros here. If i manage to get i will post in here again so can msn n webcam.

KangTuo · #**6513** 02-12-2009, 10:01 AM

What will you do if your vn galfriend say she think of going to USA, california to work for 6 months?

My galfriend cousin is in California and will be back to HCMC to get married in Mid-Jan. Afterwhich, she intend to bring my galfriend to California to work in her Nails shop. She has been asking my galfriend to go California. For the past few months, I keep asking her to drop the idea.

After this recent trip, I agreed to let my galfriend go if she really wants to.

Reasons:
1) She have to wait for me to divorce my current wife which may only happen in the 3rd quarter of the year.
2) She still do not know when is she able to eneter sillypore again.
3) she still have to support her youngest bro who is in his last year of schooling.
4) Once she goes to USA, all her siblings will shift back to mekong. No rental in HCMC, cost of living in Mekong will be lower.... less burden for me and her.

SureScore · #**6514** 02-12-2009, 10:33 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

What will you do if your vn galfriend say she think of going to USA, california to work for 6 months?

My galfriend cousin is in California and will be back to HCMC to get married in Mid-Jan. Afterwhich, she intend to bring my galfriend to California to work in her Nails shop. She has been asking my galfriend to go California. For the past few months, I keep asking her to drop the idea.

You are in a dilemma and no win situation. If I am you, I will be very selfish and ask her not to go because both of you are talking about marriage. You never know what will happen in 6 months or even 3 months.

Ask yourself what happened if she likes California and wants you to go with her there. Or she has found a loving Viet kieu or American who had won her heart there.

VietnamLover · #**6515** 02-12-2009, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

You are in a dilemma and no win situation. If I am you, I will be very selfish and ask her not to go because both of you are talking about marriage. You never know what will happen in 6 months or even 3 months.

Ask yourself what happened if she likes California and wants you to go with her there. Or she has found a loving Viet kieu or American who had won her heart there.

I totally agreed with SureScore. There are a lot of Viet Kieu people especially in California, USA. And there is a possibility that she may like a man over there.

KangTuo, if you still see her as your potential future wife, you should not let her go at all.

VietnamLover · #**6516** 02-12-2009, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

STOP drinking beer
STOP drinking liquor
STOP cheonging
STOP weekdays late night outing
STOP looking for new gals to KC

Are you sure that you can do it? Old habits die hard.

SingViet · #**6517** 02-12-2009, 02:41 PM

Don't worry so much first. Its not so easy for vietnamese to go USA. Wait till she gets VISA to enter and stay then you worry

VietnamLover · #**6518** 02-12-2009, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Don't worry so much first. Its not so easy for vietnamese to go USA. Wait till she gets VISA to enter and stay then you worry

That's right. It is quite difficult for a Vietnamese citizen to obtain visa to enter USA. I have a few friends who had to wait for several months before obtaining visa to go to USA.

SingViet · #**6519** 02-12-2009, 05:44 PM

If the viet gals are from the villages, then its even more difficult to get the VISA. Last time, its much easier for them to go USA, many of them went via the FAKE MARRIAGE way. Relatives in the USA has to pay around US$20K to US$30k to another VietKieu in order to process the fake marriage. But such arrangements has been discovered by the US authorities. Getting VISA based on kinship is also getting more and more difficult.

KangTuo · #**6520** 02-12-2009, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

If the viet gals are from the villages, then its even more difficult to get the VISA. Last time, its much easier for them to go USA, many of them went via the FAKE MARRIAGE way. Relatives in the USA has to pay around US$20K to US$30k to another VietKieu in order to process the fake marriage. But such arrangements has been discovered by the US authorities. Getting VISA based on kinship is also getting more and more difficult.

I have not check with her if she already got the visa. Few months back, she already keep saying about going to California... see how it goes.

She got my blessing if she ever go to California. I have been holding her back for 3 years. Let her venture awhile.

Making VISA also depends on luck lah. My bro wife got her VISA easily.
How its done?.... She had coffee with an unknown guy, a friend of her friend.
On the very day when my bro and his wife went to the make VISA, this unknown guy happen to come out of an office and say hello to them.

1 coffee and 1 hello = VISA

SureScore · #**6521** 03-12-2009, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I have not check with her if she already got the visa.

Making VISA also depends on luck lah. My bro wife got her VISA easily.
How its done?.... She had coffee with an unknown guy, a friend of her friend.
On the very day when my bro and his wife went to the make VISA, this unknown guy happen to come out of an office and say hello to them.

1 coffee and 1 hello = VISA

Money makes the world go round. Money talks here.

jackbl · #**6522** 03-12-2009, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

Ask yourself what happened if she likes California and wants you to go with her there. Or she has found a loving Viet kieu or American who had won her heart there.

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Originally Posted by VietnamLover

I totally agreed with SureScore. There are a lot of Viet Kieu people especially in California, USA. And there is a possibility that she may like a man over there.

Since KT u hv not settled ur own thing here, I guess letting her go USA for work is a NOT big issue. Her work is on Nail so lesser risk. This can be seen as a test of her love for u. If u wan to say she may have a change in heart, then she go anywhere also can happen, not just USA, singapore also will! Now it is your decision

slk_angelz · #**6523** 03-12-2009, 09:06 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Since KT u hv not settled ur own thing here, I guess letting her go USA for work is a NOT big issue. Her work is on Nail so lesser risk. This can be seen as a test of her love for u. If u wan to say she may have a change in heart, then she go anywhere also can happen, not just USA, singapore also will! Now it is your decision

Totally agree .. If she will have a change of heart, even if she stays in Vietnam also possible .. Don't need to go USA .. Haha .. My case, go Malaysia only, already gone missing .. Dunno is change of heart or just get in trouble there .. Since u n her hv been together for 3 yrs, the trust shd be there bah .. Sori to k-po a bit and give some comments ..

SingViet · #**6524** 05-12-2009, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

I have not check with her if she already got the visa. Few months back, she already keep saying about going to California... see how it goes.

She got my blessing if she ever go to California. I have been holding her back for 3 years. Let her venture awhile.

Making VISA also depends on luck lah. My bro wife got her VISA easily.
How its done?.... She had coffee with an unknown guy, a friend of her friend.
On the very day when my bro and his wife went to the make VISA, this unknown guy happen to come out of an office and say hello to them.

1 coffee and 1 hello = VISA

From your earlier posts, you mentioned before that your sister-in-law was formally a student in Singapore. Educated and middle income vietnamese will not find much trouble getting a VISA to the USA. But the normal province vietnamese will find getting a VISA a big hurdle. Every developed country is the same, they welcome the educated and rich and despise the poor and un educated. Although this is saddening, but this is how the real world operates.

slk_angelz · #**6525** 05-12-2009, 01:25 PM

After 20 days of guessing and waiting, my gf finally sms me .. Indeed, she got caught by the police in Malaysia, and today she will be sent back to Vietnam .. But she ask me to go Vietnam n bring her to Singapore .. I am not sure if I should do so .. When i tell her its hard for me to help her into Singapore as she got 'record' in Malaysia, she a bit sad .. Then tell me no need me help her, another customer will go there n bring her .. I really don't know if I should help her and hope for something to come out of this r/s OR should I just stay one side and let other pple do the 'job' .. I don't know about all this coming in n out of Singapore thingy .. What do the bros here think ?? Will she be able to come into Singapore just like this ?? Or will she be stopped at airport n sent back again ?? Pls give me some advice or comments .. Thanks !!