Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 433

Shoot To Target · #**6481** 27-11-2009, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

I think you can forget about her. When a vb tell you she loves you and don't need your money, it is so common and she could had told so many guys per week. Move on to new target. This is kc game. Not worth it. My advice is choose those non WL. Follow bro cashier to villages. Read his recent few posts.

Villages gals are much more better than those who live in city. So far 2 of my friends married 2 of my wifes cousin which were recommended by me had a happy family now.

Thom07 · #**6482** 27-11-2009, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

Thom07, who is this person u talking about ??

Sorry I dont know any guy. All I know is that I knew of 6 gals who are currently working in different parts of Malaysia. Why? Because they called me at different time periods to tcss so I know.

You only say she used to work in KTV here but where, when, etc. It is too vague to "zoom" in.

naemlo · #**6483** 27-11-2009, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Shoot To Target

Villages gals are much more better than those who live in city.

I do prefer city gers...

SureScore · #**6484** 27-11-2009, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Shoot To Target

Villages gals are much more better than those who live in city. So far 2 of my friends married 2 of my wifes cousin which were recommended by me had a happy family now.

Great stuff. When are you going again. I am sure alot of brothers want to follow you to the villages.

SingViet · #**6485** 27-11-2009, 04:20 PM

Personally, i prefer village gals who have been in the city for some years. The reason is quite simple, i prefer gals who have sense of dressing. Very often, gals from the province lack personal grooming. Look at those gals in fake BEBE outfit, super tight ugly looking jeans and super ugly looking shoes.... no offense, but i personally cannot accept gals of this category.

My wife is street smart (for those bros who have met her before you will know) and dresses well. She believes in traditional family values but yet dresses well and has good personal grooming. She bore me 3 children, and i am very grateful. After 3 kids, she still looks good. Its not that i spend damm a lot of money for her to buy cosmetics or branded clothings, but she can look just as good with normal clothings as she knows how to match them.

Next thing, i like fair skinned vietnamese gals. Dark tanned skin never turn me on. No offense.

Different bros different needs and wants. No matter what, treat your vietnamese spouse well and they will return you with the love , care and concern that you need.

Cheers

billgates · #**6486** 27-11-2009, 05:59 PM

I just got back from a detention centre in KL and if I had read yr post earlier, I would have asked abt viet detainees on yr behalf. They have abt 900+ detainees over there at the moment and their HPs are confiscated so if she is there, she can't possibly call u - assuming she is caught. Also, it makes a huge difference whether she is caught by police or immigrations... anyway its a long complicated process and difficult for me to explain here.

Or if she has decided to go with the other guy, then it's obvious why she's not returning yr calls. If yr competitor is a m'sian, sorry to say this, but they usually have an upper hand. Unlike s'poreans, majority don't live in HDB (space/room contraints), don't live with their parents (no need parental approval) and can fly in and out between SG-MY-VN like taking the bus, especially if they are entrepreneurs and not salaried workers.

Abt "Tluc", the info u gave is very little to go on. The spelling does not sound right. Which hotel? Where exactly is she from - hometown name? What's her real name as stated in her passport (a lot of them use aliases or "working names" which makes identification harder)? Anyway u can PM me the details if u wish.

My best advice is for u to move on. Take a holiday in VN and open yr eyes while u r there. Go to the source instead of trying to find a lifetime pard in a lounge/pub/KTV in SG. If u fish in longkang, u will get longkang fish. Fish in ocean, u catch bigger fish.

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

Well .. She came Singapore to work in KTV for 2 mths ....

That's true. City gals are better dressers, wiser but more money-minded (in a good and bad way). Village gals are easily contented, they just want a roof over their head, a baby or 2, and money to send home. I prefer Hanoi-an gals the most as they are fairer compared to the south. The only exception for the south is Dalat. The gals there are not only fair but smart as well - they are usually U-grads (Dalat is like one huge campus).

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Personally, i prefer village gals who have been in the city for some years. The reason is quite simple, i prefer gals who have sense of dressing. Very often, gals from the province lack personal grooming. Look at those gals in fake BEBE outfit, super tight ugly looking jeans and super ugly looking shoes.... no offense, but i personally cannot accept gals of this category. ....

billgates · #**6487** 27-11-2009, 11:12 PM

On another note, I sincerely hope the woman has not fallen victim to human traffickers. Many Viet gals get conned this way.

Read this article and see if your friend is one of them.

slk_angelz · #**6488** 28-11-2009, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

I think you can forget about her. When a vb tell you she loves you and don't need your money, it is so common and she could had told so many guys per week. Move on to new target. This is kc game. Not worth it. My advice is choose those non WL. Follow bro cashier to villages. Read his recent few posts.

I am not trying to like win her heart back or what .. I do like this girl .. But even if she does not want me anymore, I dun hate her mah .. So I dun really wish for bad things to happen to her .. I just want her to tell me she is doing fine and no need to worry .. Then I can let go with no worries .. But her last email to me is to assure me of her love and then suddenly went 'missing' .. U cant help worrying if a close fren or ur loved ones go missing like this, am i rite ?? Anyway, thanks for ur advice .. I do understand what u mean ..

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Originally Posted by billgates

On another note, I sincerely hope the woman has not fallen victim to human traffickers. Many Viet gals get conned this way.

Read this article and see if your friend is one of them.

Thanks bro for providing this article .. Luckily to say, her name is not part of the article ..

Shoot To Target · #**6489** 28-11-2009, 08:12 AM

[QUOTE=SingViet;4325736]Personally, i prefer village gals who have been in the city for some years. The reason is quite simple, i prefer gals who have sense of dressing. Very often, gals from the province lack personal grooming. Look at those gals in fake BEBE outfit, super tight ugly looking jeans and super ugly looking shoes.... no offense, but i personally cannot accept gals of this category.

My wife hometown bac lieu is a well develop province. All the gals there r very modern. They doll their appearance n also their dressing better than some of the city gals. Nowadays in vn all the gals already in well groom mode, they noe how to make themselves look gd in order to attract attention.

I m going vn with my family on 4th Dec. Any bros going there or u already there wan to cum over to my coffeehse for a chit chat? PM me if u r interested. Cheers

SingViet · #**6490** 28-11-2009, 10:21 AM

Looking good differs from person to person. My standard may be different from yours. The same goes for development of a province or city. You may deem a place to be well developed but i may deem not. As long as you are happy with your love ones, that's the most important

SureScore · #**6491** 28-11-2009, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

I am not trying to like win her heart back or what .. I do like this girl .. But even if she does not want me anymore, I dun hate her mah .. So I dun really wish for bad things to happen to her .. I just want her to tell me she is doing fine and no need to worry .. Then I can let go with no worries .. But her last email to me is to assure me of her love and then suddenly went 'missing' .. U cant help worrying if a close fren or ur loved ones go missing like this, am i rite ?? Anyway, thanks for ur advice .. I do understand what u mean ..

You are too deep in KC. She had vanished into thin air and that's not good sign. Don't think both of you had developed into a situation whereby both are ready to get married. Don't think you even been to her house and met her parents. Also don't think you knew her well enough. Don't be naive because you just don't know this gal and yet you fell so in love with her. Move on to seek you happiness and not getting worried over somebody who vanished and left you no idea where in the world she is.

Problem is always what you couldn't get is always the sweetest, loveliest, best...

SureScore · #**6492** 28-11-2009, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

My wife is street smart (for those bros who have met her before you will know) and dresses well. She believes in traditional family values but yet dresses well and has good personal grooming. She bore me 3 children, and i am very grateful. After 3 kids, she still looks good. Its not that i spend damm a lot of money for her to buy cosmetics or branded clothings, but she can look just as good with normal clothings as she knows how to match them.

I was reading one of your old thread last night "Vietnamese Wife in Singapore". Managed to understand what you had went through to get your wife into Singapore and the Vietnamese Wife Club.

Is the Vietnamese Club still exist and are you the still the Chairman?

BTW, I haven't finish reading yet.

slk_angelz · #**6493** 28-11-2009, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

You are too deep in KC. She had vanished into thin air and that's not good sign. Don't think both of you had developed into a situation whereby both are ready to get married. Don't think you even been to her house and met her parents. Also don't think you knew her well enough. Don't be naive because you just don't know this gal and yet you fell so in love with her. Move on to seek you happiness and not getting worried over somebody who vanished and left you no idea where in the world she is.

Problem is always what you couldn't get is always the sweetest, loveliest, best...

Well .. Thanks for ur advice bro .. I agree that what we cant get is always the best .. I have been to her home to meet her mother and brother .. They quite ok .. We are not ready to get married .. Yah .. But then, I don't know her ?? I am not sure also lah .. Anyway, i guess its all over .. I will just have to stop thinking and get on with life .. If she really want to come back, then decide again loh .. Haha .. For now, life goes on lah .. Thanks ..

SureScore · #**6494** 28-11-2009, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by slk_angelz

Well .. Thanks for ur advice bro .. I agree that what we cant get is always the best .. I have been to her home to meet her mother and brother .. They quite ok .. We are not ready to get married .. Yah .. But then, I don't know her ?? I am not sure also lah .. Anyway, i guess its all over .. I will just have to stop thinking and get on with life .. If she really want to come back, then decide again loh .. Haha .. For now, life goes on lah .. Thanks ..

Good for you. Live goes on whether you are happy or not happy. So why do you want to think of unhappy events that are already passed.

SingViet · #**6495** 28-11-2009, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SureScore

I was reading one of your old thread last night "Vietnamese Wife in Singapore". Managed to understand what you had went through to get your wife into Singapore and the Vietnamese Wife Club.

Is the Vietnamese Club still exist and are you the still the Chairman?

BTW, I haven't finish reading yet.

hahah bro, that's really an old thread roi