Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 347

ekemono · #**5191** 11-03-2009, 05:46 PM

Ya.., the wife told me dun waste time come to this site but still I come.
many many things to learn from experienced bros here about Viet spouse. Something the wife will never tell me about.

David_Villa · #**5192** 11-03-2009, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by EBloGGeR

they are kind of possessive to me. no freedom with them

This statement i strongly agreed with u.

Hurricane88 · #**5193** 12-03-2009, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Thanks for the compliments bro. My main idea of starting this thread is to share, so that fellow singaporean brothers will be cautious and not fall deep into the KC trap. I am glad that you find this thread useful. but not only i am sharing, a lot of fellow bros like yourself are also sharing and this is wonderful. keep the sharing spirit alive and keep this thread alive

Bro SingViet, you deserved the compliments because you earned it...

KangTuo · #**5194** 12-03-2009, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by EBloGGeR

thanks for such a guide. I never knew how to entertain or be with a vietnamese girls... they are kind of possessive to me. no freedom with them

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Originally Posted by David_Villa

This statement i strongly agreed with u.

Viet gals same as gals everywhere... they only want you to be FAITHFUL.
If you want freedom and in search of freedom, you will find that all girls are possessive.

KangTuo · #**5195** 12-03-2009, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by leecs

His viet gal keep saying she loves her very much, but she goes to hotel with another guy. There was once in my friend's presence too.

"His viet gal"... maybe also many cheongster viet gal

Unless your friend can lock her up and feed her $$$, else this gal will continue going hotel with customer.

This gal only love Ho Chi Minh, Yusoff Ishak and Washington.

retire · #**5196** 12-03-2009, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

"His viet gal"... maybe also many cheongster viet gal

Unless your friend can lock her up and feed her $$$, else this gal will continue going hotel with customer.

This gal only love Ho Chi Minh, Yusoff Ishak and Washington.

haha good one

SingViet · #**5197** 12-03-2009, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

Viet gals same as gals everywhere... they only want you to be FAITHFUL.
If you want freedom and in search of freedom, you will find that all girls are possessive.

They want the guys to be FAITHFUL but very often, only a handful of them will be FAITHFUL in return . Often, when they want to look for problem, they will start by picking on your faithfulness. She can question you but you cannot question her. So if you are lucky enough to have picked the right one and she has also picked you, then stay committed to the relationship. i always believe that no matter how playboy u are outside, when you reach home, you have to care for your spouse and kids.

So bros have to open up your eyes

Hurricane88 · #**5198** 17-03-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

They want the guys to be FAITHFUL but very often, only a handful of them will be FAITHFUL in return . Often, when they want to look for problem, they will start by picking on your faithfulness. She can question you but you cannot question her. So if you are lucky enough to have picked the right one and she has also picked you, then stay committed to the relationship. i always believe that no matter how playboy u are outside, when you reach home, you have to care for your spouse and kids.

So bros have to open up your eyes

Agreed with SingViet...

Just to add....it takes two hands to clap...both parties have to contribute....prepared for it only when you found the right one...dun mess around if you think only for playing sake...there are gems around but you have to find them...be it any nationalites...but as what this thread is about Vnese, I agree with all here that Vnese are special breed that will really be nice spouse if you happen to find one...an experience that you will never find with other nationalities...of course you must have other experiences before with other nationalities before you can really know the difference...

Vn gals dun demand alot for themselves and can be contented easily because of their lack of exposure to outside...dun mean those gals that work here....treat them well and they will reciprocate in return...but you will have to content with their family demands though...

ekemono · #**5199** 17-03-2009, 10:06 PM

I would like to add:

Be it an ex working gal or not, the first priority is meeting the needs of her immediate family financially. I dun mean buying them expensive stuff every month, but the basic essential.
Like senior bros have shared, once those needs cannot be met, an ex working gal will turn back into the trade and then the stress placed onto the marriage. With a non ex working gal, she see situation no good she may just disappear one fine day, with or without the children.

Also please dun get the idea that the ever consistent $300 a month is good enough to keep her happy. She may be a nice person, but not every one in her family are. And while you try to brian-wash her, you will find that it is a very long and tedious task. Moreover, anyone from SG is view as well off fianacially to them.

Some readers may ask why all the trouble? marry local gals lor....
Local gals also has a price to pay. But up to now, I find more completeness with my viet wife. Can't describe it in words, have to experience it.

naemlo · #**5200** 18-03-2009, 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by ekemono

Be it an ex working gal or not, the first priority is meeting the needs of her immediate family financially. I dun mean buying them expensive stuff every month, but the basic essential.

How much to meet her family financially? Also how u define basic essential? Eat, sleep n daily expenses???

Hurricane88 · #**5201** 18-03-2009, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

How much to meet her family financially? Also how u define basic essential? Eat, sleep n daily expenses???

My opinion: I dun think anybody can answer you exactly because it's differ from one family to another...knew of some who dun have to pay anything because family is rich...oso some can pay more than 1k per month...

Basic essential is to pay for housing rental (if dun own any house), food, utilities, children education, other expenses, etc without having to borrow money...

naemlo · #**5202** 18-03-2009, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Basic essential is to pay for housing rental (if dun own any house), food, utilities, children education, other expenses, etc without having to borrow money...

Then I doubt u can satisfy them unless u make them know what is basic.

Hurricane88 · #**5203** 18-03-2009, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Then I doubt u can satisfy them unless u make them know what is basic.

Good point...anyway lives go on because each family is different...some families easily contented with simple wishlists...others may gamble heavily and expects their daughters to pay their debts off...these situations will be the rather unfortunate incidents...