Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Not bad leh. Can go Vietnam Brides International see see look look.

Know the boss quite some time ago, as i know from there is, he never drops his pricing, but he is quite tiko type. He got told me told, a air ticket is a air ticket, bring a pretty 1 also 1 ticket, ugly 1 also 1 ticket, so he will never want to waste the ticket on the ugly 1.. But the 1 time i went his office, i was really fell in love for the 1st sight for the Viet gals he chose.. Got 1 really pretty sia.. But too bad i married liao, otherwise maybe can try.. Haha..

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by SingViet

We can just wait and see if this rumour realises in September.

ahhhh. yes. I understand from her it will take effect from Sept 08.
The cost is around USD60 as mentioned by bro joejoe88

[Honey Boon]

USD 60, not so bad. Can earn back in one day

Originally Posted by ekemono

ahhhh. yes. I understand from her it will take effect from Sept 08.
The cost is around USD60 as mentioned by bro joejoe88

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by X_plorer

Know the boss quite some time ago, as i know from there is, he never drops his pricing, but he is quite tiko type. He got told me told, a air ticket is a air ticket, bring a pretty 1 also 1 ticket, ugly 1 also 1 ticket, so he will never want to waste the ticket on the ugly 1.. But the 1 time i went his office, i was really fell in love for the 1st sight for the Viet gals he chose.. Got 1 really pretty sia.. But too bad i married liao, otherwise maybe can try.. Haha..

Maybe he is a cheongster also? Haha.

From a business perspective he is not wrong to say that. Judging from the pic I can say his QC is pretty stringent.

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Norikasan55

Didn't know here got story to read...... if its your story then you are a good man.

Yes it's my true story. I'm not a good man lah. She says I'm not a bad man. Haha.

There're some parts I've left out intentionally for privacy reasons. But if she is really true to me. I was ready to take care of her and maybe marry her. Sadly we were unsuitable for each other and I also can't figure out whether there're ulterior motives. So better not ruin my current easy carefree lifestyle. Just see my signature.

[cashier]

Go viet bride this kind of std?

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Tony Stark

Judging from the pic I can say his QC is pretty stringent.

Eh...nice meh.....

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Eh...nice meh.....

if nice hor... not yet reach our shore i think got ppl reserve already. where got chance to sit there let reporter take pic while hitting flies...

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by cashier

Go viet bride this kind of std?

This std is very unlikely to get.

[Darkstorm]

Originally Posted by cashier

Go viet bride this kind of std?

I believe there are. But not many. Anyway the girl in the video is not really my type.

[joejoe888]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

USD 60, not so bad. Can earn back in one day

BRO anyway USD60 or more is always not the problem to them we are the one to worry right they sure got the way to get from us

[bigjaws]

Finds this site interesting and talks about girls that marry foreigners. Is true how the lives of the girls' family changes to the better with foreign son-in-laws

Vietnamese wed foreigners to help family

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by cashier

Go viet bride this kind of std?

I would say 1 out of a million, because 1st barrier is communication barrier, 2nd is cultural barrier.. How to have this kind of romance if you can't even communicate well..

I just came back from HCM today, Out of 100, 97 cannot speak, 2 can speak Chinese or English (mostly in Service Industry) only 1 can speak better but still not so fluent.. How to find 1 really suits you? This goes to Me and m Wife, Communication Barrier in the beginning, but now also quite poor in her English, dun know how to speak out or explain clearly but get angry and become hot tempered liao.. How to live together long? I expect not more than 5 years unless she can communicate better and become less hot tempered..

[jackbl]

Bro, if ur wife is in vn i sugg u better ask her to go for english course.... not expensive one.

Originally Posted by X_plorer

I just came back from HCM today, Out of 100, 97 cannot speak, 2 can speak Chinese or English (mostly in Service Industry) only 1 can speak better but still not so fluent.. How to find 1 really suits you? This goes to Me and m Wife, Communication Barrier in the beginning, but now also quite poor in her English, dun know how to speak out or explain clearly but get angry and become hot tempered liao.. How to live together long? I expect not more than 5 years unless she can communicate better and become less hot tempered..

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by ekemono

As I type this on my lappy she is sound asleep. She looks very cheerful today.
No bonk tonight cos i hope she can recuperate from all the late nights working at pubs with lots of beauty sleep.

Thanks for reading my story. Cheers.

10-08-2008
She took the 7.25am Jetstar flight today
Her VISA was not up yet but as she has to attend to home matters a day later she has to go today.
The night before, she treated me to our fav. activity; booze session. We drank but words are little. She only kept looking at me and touching my face while I acted cheerful to keep the session happy. Yes, we make love that night and she gave me a very good one. We slept for 2 hrs only.

In the early morning, i made an effort to cook some noodles with prawns, garlic, veg and egg (her fav.) while she prepares herself. While eating conversation are little too.
When we reached the airport and I cue her to check in after registering and checking in her luggage, she was queing and when her turn to get her passport "chopped", she turn back, walk out and pulled me to outside for a smoke. She was eyes red and hug me close. I dun think she actually needed to smoke. We went in and hugged in one corner facing the departure info LCD TV untill it was almost too late to go in.
She had to go in now. I gave her a call and talked to her. After that during the period of another 45 mins b4 she got onto the plane she called me twice with a sad voice, and reminded me to take care of myself while she is not around. And also reminded me to take care of my aging parents and my son.
I spoke with her a while b4 i started my long journey home.
I knocked out after i touch my bed.

9.00am ??(SGT)
The moment she reached HCM airport, she called me again, and repeatedly advice me not to anyhow spent money, and to excercise, quit smoke and beer and rest well. I knocked out again.

6.00pm
Slept too much liao, headache.
I decided to make a trip to Orchard to pick up a lovely card to send to her. Something blank inside so that i can copy those mushy Vietnamese written words i learned from her. Another priority is to gorged myself in junk food; burgers and fries. Stopped over at Borders, picked up a book and card and had a heavenly feast at both MOS burger and Mac Donald's.
While on the trip, something struck me again.
You see, I do get glances from our local gals often, even had gals as young as 19, 20 took interest in me. I had a few ctc to date them if I wanted to, but I dun know why I kan cheong my viet gal but took no interest to the rest?
I dun made this statement to bring my viet gal to lower class; I love and honour her, but both of us understood that she will have to struggle hard to make a living and without me having a high income, our financial status will be slow growing. So why not choose a local gal that holds a better income??
Am I a "love before bread" person?
Bread is important, but i won't dare to just "love" bread alone, cos I was bitten hard once....

Along roaming at Orchard she called me again. She had difficulties getting a bus home and had to settled for an evening bus schedule. She brief me that she will eventually reached home tonight 3.00am(SGT) and I wanted to call her then as her Veitnam # no more credit so here I am writing to share my long-winded story

Burp...... Wah, the smell of cheese burger is so shiok


Her 2 weeks with us
Right after the 1st morning she started living with us, she was shy and did not feel at home here. I have to constantly gives encouraging words.
Fortunately as she had on a few occasions in the past came over to drink soup, my parents are familiar with her and soon enough within a day or two she felt more relaxed. But unfortunately on the last few days of her stay, she is already on my mum's side and join her to complain on my boooze habit. Naturally I was scolded by my mum the moment i step into the house

She is not a SYT or a mistress, model like face, but she is very chrismatic and can hold herself well in most situation. That would also explained the few regular customers that did not stopped trying to contact her even sfter she declare her retirement, though she did not respond to them
Yes, we faced this issue. For a moment I was upset by thier advances in the sms massages but with age comes a more control and calmed mind, I sat and open up the issue to her amicably.
As it was meaningless to change # being that she have to go home shortly, she assured me and asked me to help her to sms them back with firm words of final rejection. I only tried out on the most disgusting one, and left the rest to her bidding. I told her after that its history and i will not probe again
There is no point in getting messy over these things, you cant stopped them from calling or sending msg, but end of the day, she is dedicating all her time to me and for me. So that is what matters and should not be overlooked.

She was practically doing most of the housework, ran errands for my parents, accompanied my dad for medical review at hospital, helping mum to cook, helping to tidy up all my cupboards of clothes and PC stuff, sweeping and mopping the floor, doing the dishes.
My mum also paiseh and my dad, being a very skeptical person, started to open up to her.
When I was working late or have to lan lan join my boss for beer, she waited for me til i comes home. But her requirement is that I have to called and let her know what time i will be home.

Sex??
Yes, I bonk her almost every night. Not that I am strong or a great fucker, but she spoke that she loves me alot and to her, love-making a.k.a. sex is her other way of showing her love for me.

So where do we go from here ??
I have made some arrangement and in 2 months time will bring her over to SG. So this 2 months is also her test for me. Will I still be longing for her? Will I still want to be with her? now that I am alone and it helps to have less distraction and ponder over it with a clearer mind.

No one can tell what tomorrow will bring, but we ourselves can surely determined if we want to face it positively or negatively in respect to a relationship and life itself
I had my fair share of local gal holding decent job walk out of a relationship for a BBD (Bigger Better Deal), so i dun buy the story of finding your own kind, but i acknowledge the risk of cultural shock it carries being with an other nationality partner.
Perhaps to have gone this far I would have classified myself as to be a risk-taker, more so being with a viet gal. But if I want to love and be constantly in fear of being used, then I should go back to being lonely and confused.

Thanks again for patiently reading my story.