Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Does an Ex-Wife Really Get Half the Man’s Money in a Divorce?

Of the people who’ve advised me to just marry a rich man instead of slave away to earn money, there have been close friends, superiors at work and even complete strangers here in sunny Singapore. At least half have concluded with a triumphant, “even better, get a divorce and take half his money!”

Fortunately or unfortunately, while maintenance payments are often made out to ex-wives, it’s a myth that divorce automatically entitles her to half the ex-husband’s money.

Here are some things to know about maintenance payments in Singapore divorces just in case you’re looking to pull the plug on a marriage… or trying to get over a bad case of matrimoniophobia.


Two reasons for paying maintenance

If you’re planning to serve divorce papers on a soon-to-be-ex spouse, it’s important to know why maintenance is even ordered. The court isn’t going to just order one party to pay the other because he cheated or stopped putting in effort after 10 years.

In addition, you have to bear in mind that the court often orders division of property as well, which will affect the amount of maintenance that must be paid.

There are two reasons maintenance is ordered:

Child maintenance – One of the biggest decisions the court will be making is which parent gets custody, as well as care and control of the child. Once it is decided who the child will live with, the court can order any or both of the parents to pay maintenance for the child. The parent who has custody, care and control of the child can also receive maintenance from the remaining parent. This maintenance is usually payable only until the child turns 21.
Maintenance for ex-wife – This is the kind of maintenance people tend to find the most interesting, and the most scandalous. The idea is that the court will try to let the ex-wife enjoy the same standard of living as they would have if their marriage hadn’t flopped. This is usually supposed to continue till one of them dies, or the wife remarries. In practice, the actual amount tends to be lower than people imagine.


So how much does an ex-wife usually get?

Nadia, a lawyer at Kalco Law who handles divorce matters, says the ways in which assets are divided and orders to pay maintenance are made can differ wildly depending on the circumstances of the marriage.

However, guys can rest assured that in practice, it is highly unlikely the court will order the husband to divide half his assets AND pay half his salary to the wife for the rest of his life.

Nadia says, “The division of assets (including the HDB flat) depends on each party’s contribution to the assets over the course of the marriage. The contribution can also be non-monetary e.g. tending to household chores. However, if there is little or no contribution by the wife to a short-term and childless marriage, then the chances of her obtaining a share of the assets are slim.”

Many factors are considered when deciding on the amount to be paid, and it is quite difficult to predict beforehand exactly how much one will get. Some of the factors the judge will consider include:

Financial standing and earning capacity of both parties – A very wealth ex-husband is likely to pay more in maintenance to his ex-wife than a very poor one, all other factors being equal. Conversely, a very wealthy ex-wife with a high paying career is likely to get less than a housewife without higher educational qualifications, all other factors being equal.
Standard of living enjoyed by both parties during the marriage – If you lived a very modest lifestyle when you were married, don’t expect to transform into Cinderella after finding her glass slipper once you’re divorced.
Ages of the parties – If the ex-wife is older, the court is more likely to order higher maintenance payments.
Duration of the marriage – If you’ve only been married for a year, don’t expect to get much, if anything at all, especially if no kids are involved. Nadia says, “The longer the marriage, the higher the chances of the ex-wife obtaining a higher share of the matrimonial assets. This is because more often than not, an individual’s contribution (direct or indirect, financial or non-financial) is greater the longer the marriage.”
Contributions made to the family – Generally, the more a party has contributed to the family, the more favourably the court will look upon them. Contributions can include paying for the family home and looking after the children.


Is it possible to get nothing?

The short answer is that yes, in some instances an ex-wife can get nothing.

“If the marriage was a short and childless one and/or she is more than able to support herself on her monthly income, it is possible for the ex-wife to get no maintenance,” Nadia says.

Husbands can forget about claiming maintenance even if they marry the richest woman on the island, as Singapore law does not allow it. Sorry, guys.

So the next time you hear someone talking about marrying rich men, you have another reason to shut them up.


https://sg.finance.yahoo.com/news/do...160000939.html

[vietbulover]

have been flying to HCMC frequently to meet my viet bu for the past 4 months. the last 2 months was almost weekly. each time we meet, we will fuck raw and i shoot inside. if its not near her period, she will eat morning after pill. but somewhere mid sept which was in her mid period cycle, she didnt eat pill after we fuck.

now trouble comes. she is pregnant. didnt have the heart to dump her to face the problem herself. her salary is 5M dong / mth. cant even support herself properly, let alone baby.

last weekend we went for check up after testing using test kit ourselve. the pregnancy is further confirmed at the clinic. doc say the baby still small. cannot see in the ultrascan. ask us to go back scan again this weekend.

now she also having difficulty having the baby. always tummy pain and backache. she suspect is ectopic pregnancy. if really so, then she need to go surgery.

now for some reason i cannot marry her. you guys should have guess why. now really mixed feeling. dunno what to do sial.

need advice from experience bro..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

need advice from experience bro..

What advice u need? Either take care of the baby or be a bastard asshole, abort the baby or ignore.

Why men dun ask, can u help me song with my ger instead of asking, can u help solve the problem?

[EmCee]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

have been flying to HCMC frequently to meet my viet bu for the past 4 months. the last 2 months was almost weekly. each time we meet, we will fuck raw and i shoot inside. if its not near her period, she will eat morning after pill. but somewhere mid sept which was in her mid period cycle, she didnt eat pill after we fuck.

now trouble comes. she is pregnant. didnt have the heart to dump her to face the problem herself. her salary is 5M dong / mth. cant even support herself properly, let alone baby.

last weekend we went for check up after testing using test kit ourselve. the pregnancy is further confirmed at the clinic. doc say the baby still small. cannot see in the ultrascan. ask us to go back scan again this weekend.

now she also having difficulty having the baby. always tummy pain and backache. she suspect is ectopic pregnancy. if really so, then she need to go surgery.

now for some reason i cannot marry her. you guys should have guess why. now really mixed feeling. dunno what to do sial.

need advice from experience bro..

Please abort the kid if you have no intention of taking care of him/her. 1 min of "pain" is nothing compared to a lifetime of suffering.

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by naemlo

What advice u need? Either take care of the baby or be a bastard asshole, abort the baby or ignore.

Why men dun ask, can u help me song with my ger instead of asking, can u help solve the problem?

i also dunno what advice i need. just any advice from similiar experience bro. confirm got bro here kenna same as me. just want to hear what they did in the end. even though the situation can never be 100% the same as mine. but got advice better than no advice.

my friend ask me to dump her, but i just dun have the heart. no matter what, i still miss fucking her. i am thinking to support her for now, then if doc say must abort the baby, at least i still get to fuck her after that, instead of a bastard to her. anyway the doc say she eat morning after pill just abt 1 month ago, more or less the baby will be affected. her sis also tell her to abort.

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by EmCee

Please abort the kid if you have no intention of taking care of him/her. 1 min of "pain" is nothing compared to a lifetime of suffering.

i'm thinking to talk her to abort after the next few check up. since the doc also advice to abort. at current, she still want the baby, bc last time she went abortion once. after that she feel bad killing her baby. she didn't want to kill her baby again this time.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

i'm thinking to talk her to abort after the next few check up. since the doc also advice to abort. at current, she still want the baby, bc last time she went abortion once. after that she feel bad killing her baby. she didn't want to kill her baby again this time.

Abortion is nothing for them.Most don't give a dam cos is very normal over there.Dont know your story is true or not but be responsible as a man,do what you suppose to do,there is such a thing call CAP.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by vietbulover

i also dunno what advice i need. just any advice from similiar experience bro. confirm got bro here kenna same as me. just want to hear what they did in the end. even though the situation can never be 100% the same as mine. but got advice better than no advice.

my friend ask me to dump her, but i just dun have the heart. no matter what, i still miss fucking her. i am thinking to support her for now, then if doc say must abort the baby, at least i still get to fuck her after that, instead of a bastard to her. anyway the doc say she eat morning after pill just abt 1 month ago, more or less the baby will be affected. her sis also tell her to abort.

You are thinking with your small head. If fucking is the main thing, there are many others out there that can perform the same or even better than her. VBs are not stupid, they are more street wise than most of us, so don't underestimate her. Next thing is, if she allows you to fuck her like no tomorrow, she can do the same to other guys too, especially viet guys. So are you SURE the baby is yours? If you say YES, then you still got lots more to learn about Vietnam.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by naemlo

What advice u need? Either take care of the baby or be a bastard asshole, abort the baby or ignore.

Why men dun ask, can u help me song with my ger instead of asking, can u help solve the problem?

Agreed with you bro but dun be so mean leh

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by SingViet

You are thinking with your small head. If fucking is the main thing, there are many others out there that can perform the same or even better than her. VBs are not stupid, they are more street wise than most of us, so don't underestimate her. Next thing is, if she allows you to fuck her like no tomorrow, she can do the same to other guys too, especially viet guys. So are you SURE the baby is yours? If you say YES, then you still got lots more to learn about Vietnam.

Do not bother to reply. Obviously the story is fake.

[SureScore]

double post.

[vietbulover]

gpgt. prove my story is real first.

in fact i no longer love her much now. just miss fucking her but nowadays the feeling also not that strong anymore.

i am flying to vn tomorrow and coax her to sleep with me in hotel over the weekend. just want to fuck her few more times before i dump her to go abortion herself.

[vietbulover]

Originally Posted by SingViet

You are thinking with your small head. If fucking is the main thing, there are many others out there that can perform the same or even better than her. VBs are not stupid, they are more street wise than most of us, so don't underestimate her. Next thing is, if she allows you to fuck her like no tomorrow, she can do the same to other guys too, especially viet guys. So are you SURE the baby is yours? If you say YES, then you still got lots more to learn about Vietnam.

sometimes i also think when i am in sg, did she go fuck with other man. she is the type, lick a bit, pussy si bei wet. each time, i can fuck her more than 10 times over a weekend and she dont reject me.

[big wood]

bro you are power I loss of words

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Agreed with you bro but dun be so mean leh

Already very kind words......An asshole dun deserve to be kind....

Originally Posted by vietbulover

i am flying to vn tomorrow and coax her to sleep with me in hotel over the weekend. just want to fuck her few more times before i dump her to go abortion herself.

Originally Posted by vietbulover

i can fuck her more than 10 times over a weekend and she dont reject me.

Dun bother whether your story is true or fake.... you are truly sick. U deserve to be f by gays in the ass a few times, put a baseball bat into your ass and dump u in the rubbish bin.