Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[MIFAcafe]

Originally Posted by willgo

So now u have many baby in vietnam from different vn girl already hor? Just kidding
I really think not right to make girl pregnant and run away....single mother alot in vietnam but why if want do raw and make them pregnant but dont marry them? if not ready to marry then might well dont fuck this way, come to terms with them before fuck them
This is more responsible than after fuck then said dont marry but pay their bills....No offense

You are correct! See this is where you dun understand VB. Before I do anything I discuss with my sifu. He taught me well.

When we deal with decent Viet ger, never do raw unless the ger insists and still let the ger put my didi in. If she insists raw then tell the ger the options of morning after pill or daily pill. Tell her if she is pregnant then what kind of disadvantages to her. Many VB think having baby can tied a man down then too bad we discussed before. Dun think I have any child in Vietnam yet because I am very responsible.

You said it well, many single mother in Vietnam and this is where you dun understand their culture. In fact they are proud of it. Many who came to sinkieland to work already has 1 child and the VB are best mothers if you to ask me. VB really love their child.

I thought you wanted to bao a ger in Vietnam so you can do raw too

My 2k dongs worth.

[willgo]

Yes that is my main point, even though i not understand viet culture well, i always let them know my purpose, is to help them with XXX amt of money for only becoming gf and companionship, but never meet and fuck raw without telling them what i want, giving them wrong impression that i want to marry them.

i do have friends who meet up viet girl and date them, sleep with them and make them pregnant, then they just shrug off saiding vn man always make them pregnant, so it is normal we make them pregnant too, damn irresponsible.

if u told them but they insist then its their problem. But most guys dont tell them at all.

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

I thought you wanted to bao a ger in Vietnam so you can do raw too

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by willgo

i do have friends who meet up viet girl and date them, sleep with them and make them pregnant, then they just shrug off saiding vn man always make them pregnant, so it is normal we make them pregnant too, damn irresponsible.

if u told them but they insist then its their problem. But most guys dont tell them at all.

Yup, VB are stubborn person. VB will do what you tell them dun do.

your friends who are irresponsible will face karma and only time will tell...

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Yup, VB are stubborn person. VB will do what you tell them dun do.

Agree; most vb are stubborn person. Last time; told my ex not to use her hand bang on the windscreen of my card; cos her hand wearing some rings with those fake diamond. Don't listen and in the end my windscreen crack when she bang it. When it crack; she only know she wrong. Some VB learn their mistakes but some never learn their mistakes. They think they are right always.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Agree; most vb are stubborn person. Last time; told my ex not to use her hand bang on the windscreen of my card; cos her hand wearing some rings with those fake diamond. Don't listen and in the end my windscreen crack when she bang it. When it crack; she only know she wrong. Some VB learn their mistakes but some never learn their mistakes. They think they are right always.

wow...so jialat...windscreen shattered...haha...luckily insurance pay....

will be good if we can discuss then can share some experiences...many times when I guide others, I always tell the person you look at the VB will do so and so then you will believe me otherwise how to believe what I said...

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

will be good if we can discuss then can share some experiences...many times when I guide others, I always tell the person you look at the VB will do so and so then you will believe me otherwise how to believe what I said...

Some VB are very understanding but most dunno what to say. I met a very good vb b4; it is just myself like to flirt around too much many years ago. She left me and recently heard that fm my sister that she being bully her husband and parents in law. Treat her like a servant and in then end need to borrow $ and buy tickets fly back Vietnam. Husband went to Vietnam find her and say sorry. Come back Singapore; found out she pregnant with a grandson; the parents in law then treat her like queen.

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by SsugarDaddy

hi guys,

i'm new to this scene but i think i have gotten myself into heaps of trouble.

i just came back from vietnam, over there i was introduced to this girl by a ktv girl i knew in sg.

the girl that was intro-ed to me is only 20 years old.

so the 3 of us traveled around vietnam like vungtau etc ( me being the carrot )

during the first 2 nights, we slept on separate bed, but on the 3rd night.
the 20yrs old girl started to sleep with me but there was no sex until the last night before leaving. ( was there for about 10 days ), every night she will stay in the hotel with me.

during that period she brought me back to her hometown in tay ninh, intro me her family etc
just me and her alone.

only met the sg ktv girl on the last day again

she seems like a innocence girl but i dont know what to expect.
she seems to like me and invited me over to her family reunion which is coming soon.

and talking about the sex part, i was pissed drunk. ( went to drink with that ktv girl and her friends along with her )

i think i did her raw and came inside her.

*there was a patch of blood along with cum like stain on the bed when i sober up*

just when i was leaving, she was talking about marriage and her family like me etc....
and insisted me on going back to tay ninh with her.


i think this is not gonna be simple for me, and i think i am gonna walk into a shitstorm....

any experienced bro can roughly tell me what to expect?

**she works at accounting firm, making about 8mil a month.

bro, congrats..

what kind of shitstorm u talking abt?

u see her parents ( not because of free stay right? )

n how much is 8 mil a month in sgd?

the problem with being a Singaporean got to know the

exchange rate.. rm, thai baht, rmb, so many until headaches....

[Exis7ence]

is it common nowdays in Vietnam where their parents still arrange marriage for thier daughters?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Exis7ence

is it common nowdays in Vietnam where their parents still arrange marriage for thier daughters?

only for those rich and elite families...for these rich and elite families in Vietnam the children have no say who they going to marry...

[Exis7ence]

oh..sadly my gf is marrying to a Taiwanese guy as arranged by her parents.

[iSaigon]

Originally Posted by Exis7ence

oh..sadly my gf is marrying to a Taiwanese guy as arranged by her parents.

Taiwanese men are no longer preferred in Vietnam. Many negative news in Vietnam to prove this.

[SsugarDaddy]

Originally Posted by eddy72

bro, congrats..

what kind of shitstorm u talking abt?

u see her parents ( not because of free stay right? )

n how much is 8 mil a month in sgd?

the problem with being a Singaporean got to know the

exchange rate.. rm, thai baht, rmb, so many until headaches....

im having a massive headache due to this problem

nope, not cos of free stay.

8 mil is about $500sgd


im starting to worry if she gets pregnant, i will sibei jialat liao

[Exis7ence]

Really?whose market is it now?i was really disappointed when she didnt want to come with me.haiz.

Originally Posted by iSaigon

Taiwanese men are no longer preferred in Vietnam. Many negative news in Vietnam to prove this.

[eddy72]

Originally Posted by SsugarDaddy

im having a massive headache due to this problem

nope, not cos of free stay.

8 mil is about $500sgd


im starting to worry if she gets pregnant, i will sibei jialat liao

bro, u see her parent for what shd know ma..

$500 like good salary over there..

dun say u r already married here?

[SsugarDaddy]

Originally Posted by eddy72

bro, u see her parent for what shd know ma..

$500 like good salary over there..

dun say u r already married here?

i didnt think much when i went with her.

i agree that her $500 is quite alot in term of their standard....

nah, im not married. just feel that she's alittle too young for me. though i like young girls