Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by shctaw

Aiyo.... VB only love money.

Need some time to see and feel the "true love".

However VBs are short sighted..... always screw up before anything can bare fruit.

Not all VB love money, some just want your love only.

But I agree they are short sighted.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Not all VB love money, some just want your love only.

But I agree they are short sighted.

Love cannot eat leh...somehow money is important la...either you provide or vb has to go work...

[MIFAcafe]

"Take care" of vb means "give money".

Give them a chance; give ourself a chance.

"Time" is the only thing to reveal VB "real character".

Originally Posted by FireShark

Not all VB love money, some just want your love only.

But I agree they are short sighted.

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Love cannot eat leh...somehow money is important la...either you provide or vb has to go work...

Originally Posted by shctaw

Aiyo.... VB only love money.

Need some time to see and feel the "true love".

However VBs are short sighted..... always screw up before anything can bare fruit.

[curious76]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Not all VB love money, some just want your love only.

But I agree they are short sighted.

sigh.. why my VB do not want to reveal things to me???

[MIFAcafe]

This type a lot of secrets.

But when you are with her long enough, all secrets will surface.

Originally Posted by curious76

sigh.. why my VB do not want to reveal things to me???

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Love cannot eat leh...somehow money is important la...either you provide or vb has to go work...

Bro H88

In the past, when I dont speak Tieng Viet, yes, they want $. When I started to speak tieng viet fluently, I start getting FOC bonk. I wanted to pay them and in the end I was scolded by them instead. Why????? I had maintain such relationship with 3 of them for at least 2 yrs. I only spend on food and hotel only and maybe once in a while air tkt back. Even the food we eat, they paid for me sometimes.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Bro H88

In the past, when I dont speak Tieng Viet, yes, they want $. When I started to speak tieng viet fluently, I start getting FOC bonk. I wanted to pay them and in the end I was scolded by them instead. Why????? I had maintain such relationship with 3 of them for at least 2 yrs. I only spend on food and hotel only and maybe once in a while air tkt back. Even the food we eat, they paid for me sometimes.

Let them continue pay for you and get FOC bonk,see how long they can last

sometime we have to act like viet man,dont give a dam,the more u feel soft hearted,the more they will makan u when time is ripe.

I agreed,they only interested in short time gain and sinkee man is only a steping stone to get what they want

viet man scold,beat and f them,they still like,why?
Sinkee man normally don't scold and beat yet they take advantage

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by FireShark

In the past, when I dont speak Tieng Viet, yes, they want $. When I started to speak tieng viet fluently, I start getting FOC bonk. I wanted to pay them and in the end I was scolded by them instead. Why????? I had maintain such relationship with 3 of them for at least 2 yrs. I only spend on food and hotel only and maybe once in a while air tkt back. Even the food we eat, they paid for me sometimes.

Sure I knew...vb hv to work to live and send money home...so if vb is a wl then she will let others bonk besides you...such simple answer...

[Gentle Beast]

Originally Posted by Golden question

viet man scold,beat and f them,they still like,why?Sinkee man normally don't scold and beat yet they take advantage

I have seen, over the years there is a group of women who display irrational behaviour over and over again in their lifetimes :

They fall into these categories, which is EITHER

1) They ''abuse" the men who loves them or
2) They stayed "abused" by men whom they love.

Very strange, but true. There are incidents of women who have been abused by their men (mentally or physically or financially hurt) yet they cannot break free from them.

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by MIFAcafe

"Take care" of vb means "give money".

Give them a chance; give ourself a chance.

"Time" is the only thing to reveal VB "real character".

It's not just vb.
If u have a gf n she dun work (eg.u dun let her work), definitely u gotta give her money for everything. Here vb cant work cos she dun have authority to work unless vice trade. So bo bian u have to feed her.
If toking bx its the same, u gotta pay for everything if u dun like her to work. Chicken and eggs issue.

[sunhuan-con]

Originally Posted by Kim91

It's not just vb.
If u have a gf n she dun work (eg.u dun let her work), definitely u gotta give her money for everything. Here vb cant work cos she dun have authority to work unless vice trade. So bo bian u have to feed her.
If toking bx its the same, u gotta pay for everything if u dun like her to work. Chicken and eggs issue.

True in this world man are born to be bread winner.....everywhere u goes the woman expect guy to feed them no matter they work or not...Life is not easy as a man nowadays as things are so expansive.

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Kim91

It's not just vb.
If u have a gf n she dun work (eg.u dun let her work), definitely u gotta give her money for everything. Here vb cant work cos she dun have authority to work unless vice trade. So bo bian u have to feed her.
If toking bx its the same, u gotta pay for everything if u dun like her to work. Chicken and eggs issue.

yes... and the single most important concern is did she behave?
if yes, ok... but still need to give her $$ for fun, cafe sessions with friends, change handphone, buy new bag, medical checkup, clean teeth ... etc...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by FireShark

Bro H88

In the past, when I dont speak Tieng Viet, yes, they want $. When I started to speak tieng viet fluently, I start getting FOC bonks.

Like that must learn to speak tv fluently liao.... Where u find those foc???

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Like that must learn to speak tv fluently liao.... Where u find those foc???

Does Viet Spouse = Viet Hookers = Vice trade?

Why is it that whenever viet spouses are discussed, it is forever linked to WL and vice trade? Most Sgp man still allow their viet spouse to ply the vice trade after marriage? If these Sgp man allow that, then they should be ashamed of themselves. Your viet spouse can be a WL before marriage, but if she is still a WL or mamasan after marriage, then its a big disgrace. That's why most people look down on the viets and their Sgp husbands. Please, for goodness sake, have some pride.

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Does Viet Spouse = Viet Hookers = Vice trade?

Why is it that whenever viet spouses are discussed, it is forever linked to WL and vice trade? Most Sgp man still allow their viet spouse to ply the vice trade after marriage? If these Sgp man allow that, then they should be ashamed of themselves. Your viet spouse can be a WL before marriage, but if she is still a WL or mamasan after marriage, then its a big disgrace. That's why most people look down on the viets and their Sgp husbands. Please, for goodness sake, have some pride.

Totally agreed.
Can we have some agreed definition of the term vb? Does its WL , bx or just plain viet babes? I feel 'vb' term is too overused that its creating a generalisation on bx.