Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Botarbolampar]

Originally Posted by bonkers69

bro singviet ,
What is "vang trang khoc" huh ?. i heard this song over youtube....nice leh Cam on

Hi bro,

I love to sing this song when ever I go KTV. Its a duet nos. Most Gals can sing too. Its "The Crying Moon" Here the lyrics.

Vang Trang Khoc

Đã không còn người yêu hỡi ngày xưa ấy đôi ta bên nhau không rời

Ngồi trên cát nhìn biển đêm hát vu vơ mấy câu tình ca

Trái tim buồn vì thương nhớ vì đau xót sao đôi ta mau chia lìa

Đời giông bão nhiều đắng cay cuốn trôi mau biết đâu tình nồng

Thì thôi em đừng mong nhớ đừng thương tiếc chi thêm đau long

Tình chúng ta đã phôi pha em và anh mỗi người 1 nơi

Ngồi nơi đây mình đơn côi vầng trăng khóc sao rơi sông dài

Tiếc cho tôi, tiếc cho người và cho bao yêu thương đã trao

Gió đông buồn

Khóc chi người vì anh biết nào ai muốn mai sau chia ly đôi đường

Tình yêu đến chợt bỏ đi mấy ai vui với nhau muôn đời

Chắc khi nào tìm duyên mới thì anh sẽ mau quên đi bao ân tình

Và em chúc người mới quen sẽ bên anh yêu anh thật lòng

Thì thôi em đừng mong nhớ đừng thương tiếc chi thêm đau long

Tình chúng ta đã phôi pha em và anh mỗi người một nơi

Ngày mai sau dù gặp nhau thì xin hãy cho nhau một lời

Để không quên những êm đềm mà tình yêu khi xưa đã trao

Giấc mơ đầu

Cheers

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Botarbolampar

Hi bro,

I love to sing this song when ever I go KTV. Its a duet nos. Most Gals can sing too. Its "The Crying Moon" Here the lyrics.

I have this MTV in my hp too...

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Ur friend 51 member?

Member??? He always go there with me

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Member??? He always go there with me

Wah... so easy to get off pass nowadays to go 51? Good life leh

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Wah... so easy to get off pass nowadays to go 51? Good life leh

ya...she busy so i free lor when u want join me?

[nitin]

Greetings Bros.

I have been hovering ard this thread for sometime....ever since i start cheonging the Joo Chiat scene....At that time i was just reading and telling myself "nah this kind of things wuldnt happen to me" hahaha....but i was wrong....

Recently i met this Viet @ JC...well 1 thing led to the other and then she is back at Viet now...Frankly i reali like her....she oso ask me to go visit her parents...i hv intention to go....i even booked my leaves etc...but then when ever i do long distance calls to her....we hv com prob....she speak little english....we do understand each other alittle bit.

she oways tell me that her family need $$ and she told me her family need to renovate the house (if i interprete her correctly). she got no choice but to start working in viet KTV...i duno wat to say...i have advice her to try workin as salesgal etc... but she say she dun speak good english and dun pay tt well...now i m reali very lost....seriously i dun hv the financal ability to support her now....i wan to marry her bt i reali cant support her....deep down i have a feelin that i may lose the chance and regret wat had happened bt to live in singapore is totalli too stressful for onli 1 breadwinner

There was once i saw a couple which i think the wife is a viet and they have a baby....i was thinking to myself....why i cant do wat the man had did??

mayb bcoz wat a bro mention here which is quite true

1. language barrier
2. not enough knowledge of their partner's culture
3. not being sensitive enough
4. too bothered with other's views

by sonice82

bt also to add...it may oso due to my financal ability now....

but i like to share my views....you all agree that viet love their husbands....take care of them....YES i totally agree.....i think the reason behind this is becoz they come frm a tough family background...they know that their children need to have a proper education inorder to make it in life....no like sg gals now who onli know about make it in life themselves and nver care abt their children if they have....

To Bro Kangtao...i may help u if u need a viet who is workin as a certified translator in singapore....

well Bros out there....if you find the rite 1 be it viet or sg or any other nationals....and everythings is rite and you feel rite and go for it........

[Botarbolampar]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

I have this MTV in my hp too...

Hahaha.....nice song, not difficult to sing too.

Cheers

[Botarbolampar]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

ya...she busy so i free lor when u want join me?

May i joined in too. Kekekekeke

Cheers

[bonkers69]

Originally Posted by Botarbolampar

Hahaha.....nice song, not difficult to sing too.

Cheers

thanks bro for the lyrics.
so you sing with your em yeu si boh.....

[bonkers69]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Crying Moon I think....dont need thanks...Just help up my friend SiaoChiongNao

up him roi.....

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by nitin

At that time i was just reading and telling myself "nah this kind of things wuldnt happen to me" hahaha....but i was wrong....

Recently i met this Viet @ JC...well 1 thing led to the other and then she is back at Viet now...Frankly i reali like her....

Hmm...all I want to say and can say is that good luck to you....

But since that you can even "hahaha" I guess you deserve it....

Just few advices for you, she can say all she want...how poor..how much she need money...but bear in mind that you may not be the only person she telling her story to...Asking you to meet her parents is nothing...although in Viet culture meet parents mean something important but I guess not in the dictionary of Viet Working Gal...

Since you have said that you have been reading alot in this thread...I believe you have also read other thread about viet & JC...there is more than enough story for you to read and wake yourself up...

But end of the day...the main actor yourself...will refuse to hear any advice...and always think that your own case is different....for eg she really love you etc....

Only the day when you get bite...then you will wake up....

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by nitin

Greetings Bros.

I have been hovering ard this thread for sometime....ever since i start cheonging the Joo Chiat scene....At that time i was just reading and telling myself "nah this kind of things wuldnt happen to me" hahaha....but i was wrong....

Recently i met this Viet @ JC...well 1 thing led to the other and then she is back at Viet now...Frankly i reali like her....she oso ask me to go visit her parents...i hv intention to go....i even booked my leaves etc...but then when ever i do long distance calls to her....we hv com prob....she speak little english....we do understand each other alittle bit.

she oways tell me that her family need $$ and she told me her family need to renovate the house (if i interprete her correctly). she got no choice but to start working in viet KTV...i duno wat to say...i have advice her to try workin as salesgal etc... but she say she dun speak good english and dun pay tt well...now i m reali very lost....seriously i dun hv the financal ability to support her now....i wan to marry her bt i reali cant support her....deep down i have a feelin that i may lose the chance and regret wat had happened bt to live in singapore is totalli too stressful for onli 1 breadwinner

There was once i saw a couple which i think the wife is a viet and they have a baby....i was thinking to myself....why i cant do wat the man had did??

mayb bcoz wat a bro mention here which is quite true

1. language barrier
2. not enough knowledge of their partner's culture
3. not being sensitive enough
4. too bothered with other's views

by sonice82

bt also to add...it may oso due to my financal ability now....

but i like to share my views....you all agree that viet love their husbands....take care of them....YES i totally agree.....i think the reason behind this is becoz they come frm a tough family background...they know that their children need to have a proper education inorder to make it in life....no like sg gals now who onli know about make it in life themselves and nver care abt their children if they have....

To Bro Kangtao...i may help u if u need a viet who is workin as a certified translator in singapore....

well Bros out there....if you find the rite 1 be it viet or sg or any other nationals....and everythings is rite and you feel rite and go for it........

Guinness Stout ad: When the bitterness becomes extreme, sweetness follows.
But, when you fall in love in the wrong place, and when the sweetness becomes extreme, bitterness follows.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Only the day when you get bite...then you will wake up....

I agree with Bro Sha Gua. If you have taken time to read all the vietnamese thread here, you will realise that the stories and tricks taken up by these viet gals are similiar. On most instances, they also offer to let the singaporean man meet their parents to gain trust. For a Viet WL, meeting the parents is no big deal and is always work out nicely with their parents. For the sake of money, the whole family is willing to cooperate (as she may the only one feeding the whole family).

But there are also WL that have been thru bad times and realised the laziness of their family. But these ladies are difficult to find. But if you can find one, she can become a very good wife.

Good Luck

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I agree with Bro Sha Gua. If you have taken time to read all the vietnamese thread here, you will realise that the stories and tricks taken up by these viet gals are similiar. On most instances, they also offer to let the singaporean man meet their parents to gain trust. For a Viet WL, meeting the parents is no big deal and is always work out nicely with their parents. For the sake of money, the whole family is willing to cooperate (as she may the only one feeding the whole family).

But there are also WL that have been thru bad times and realised the laziness of their family. But these ladies are difficult to find. But if you can find one, she can become a very good wife.

Good Luck

If you can find a good wife in those places, you're one very lucky man.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by nitin

To Bro Kangtao...i may help u if u need a viet who is workin as a certified translator in singapore....

EEehhh... why do i need a certificate translator?