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Sorry lor, i will not help her to cleared the debts, we gotto work out with her 2 free loader brothers, if not better sell of the farms or she negotiate with the creditor about the repayment schedule & amount, as she got a full time job here.
Oh ok, she has full time job here???
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Money is surely the biggest problem. Besides the normal monthly `pocket money' for the parents, there will be extra demand. This month will be the mother is sick and need money for medication, next month will be grandma's birthday and the month after next, the brother will want a new motorbike etc. The list is never ending. Vietnamese gals are sweet, their breast are warm, their suck will leave you dry.... but think of their other demands before you fall for them. It took me more than 2 years to convince my wife that her family is truely a burden to us and we should save more money for our children's education
Bro, this is surely true for a lot of gals but there are some who are not so keen on just money. I have a Vietnamese girl who used to be an FL but ever since she has stopped and she has never asked me for a dime. She used to be one of those girls but now she doesn't want to owe anyone and after some time of talking and explaining to her she is slowly turning out to be a good person.. But there are other stuff to deal with when dating an FL... The drinking, partying, the no of guys trying to get her to bonk... It's been a difficult 11 mths but seems like things are getting better...or am I being fooled again? Hard to say sometimes
Hey hey, same scenario as me. But mine, i know its true. And i manage to discuss with my BX to not repay those loans since she is now in singapore and those "Mafia/Loanshark" there normally respect the elderly which is her mother.
Yur bx really 铁心 to leave her family in the lurch? Very un-vietnamese. Hmm...
"Mafia/Loanshark" dun care u old or young, they only see uncle ho. A vb once told me her mother got beaten up by "gangsters", i believed is those "Mafia/Loanshark"come get money, cannot get then beat her up. The vb quickly buy ticket get her mother here for "holidays". I met them n really all swollen n blue black over her mother's face.
A VB WL stay in singapore is break down like this.
SGD 15 per day. If include food, means around SGD 16-20 per day.
Laundry detergent might be around SGD10 per day.
It depends on what their landlord agreement with her. So total rent might be around 550 per month.
Laundry detergent also charged daily basis?? $550 a month per head, i also wan be landlord.
I know places where they pay only $300 for lodging only, $480 for including meals.
I sense that their gongtao getting more and more stronger, and i don't know when i could let it slip into my heart and start kanna ripped off by them. So...
That's the main reason why my ex-bx left me. Every time she comes, only get back 1.8k the max. First few times she still tells me its okay becos she loves me. Then the last few times she came, she blame me for all these.
Yur bx really 铁心 to leave her family in the lurch? Very un-vietnamese. Hmm...
"Mafia/Loanshark" dun care u old or young, they only see uncle ho. A vb once told me her mother got beaten up by "gangsters", i believed is those "Mafia/Loanshark"come get money, cannot get then beat her up. The vb quickly buy ticket get her mother here for "holidays". I met them n really all swollen n blue black over her mother's face.
Maybe she the "UN-Vietnamese" type of girl. I dont know. but other than the rent for her place and eating money, she dont ask for extra money to send back.
Maybe its also because of my financial situation. Have to see how in the future.
She did tell me that if she is here, those creditor will not come and ask her for money.
Both wife conclusion is...my BX herself, is she sincere in this relationship. And i think married is another gamble
Marriage is not a gamble. Its an long term investment. Gamble is u have 50/50 chances n u not sure the outcome n u have not done research, just take a game of chances. Long term investments are u have done research n choose the best investment n u r sure of the outcome n returns. If u see marriage as a gamble, best not marry as 90% u bound to lose. 十赌九输
Sorry lor, i will not help her to cleared the debts, we gotto work out with her 2 free loader brothers, if not better sell of the farms or she negotiate with the creditor about the repayment schedule & amount, as she got a full time job here.
U discussed this yur gf liao? Both have to agree on the best solution. No point u think this way but she thinks another. Also its good chance to "test" her. If she willing to work with u then u can consider this investment.
25-07-2012, 02:52 AM
