Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by volcano

this is actually noting new.

u serious about marrying her when she has this kind of parents....

now not married,the debt she will bear solely.

once married and parents do same pattern,the debt becomes yours unless u gonna let ur wife work as WL again.

and btw,a plot of land as big as 9 basketball courts and inclusive of prawning equipment for 20k Sgd???......that's too hard to believe unless the land is very deep and far from the main road.

Agreed with u. Once married not the debt bcum his, other debts will start popping out of nowhere.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i agree with you bro. Land that big and with equipments for S$20K, hard to believe. Even if its deep deep down in the forest, its not quite possible too. Padi fields, which has the lowest value, is even worth more than that amount , given that size.

For land .. maybe possible ...

BUT its LAND + Prawning Farm + Equipments ... I AGree ... it's NEVER POssible ...

This type of land can fetch very high price ...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by elth

as u already mention she staying with you no worry about food and lodging... this not consider money ? money no need means hard cash. You maybe just a big tree where she can hug or a safe shelter which worth more than money

I feel you need to know more about her 1st. Sometime their story sound so true but story will always changes as time goes by but story better than mee dia cop

Totally agreed with u! To them foriegner are a safe boat or airplane out of their finanical situation. Know more about the other party b4 committing oneself into it. Just like buying an investment, do more research 1st n understand more b4 jumping into one.

BTW, wat is mee dia cop?

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i agree with you bro. Land that big and with equipments for S$20K, hard to believe. Even if its deep deep down in the forest, its not quite possible too. Padi fields, which has the lowest value, is even worth more than that amount , given that size.

Bros, its not 20k its 14k, 20k is with interest. Even so, 14k is even unbelieveable. Advise for marcopit, check 1st n observe more b4 committing into this relationship.

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Bros, its not 20k its 14k, 20k is with interest. Even so, 14k is even unbelieveable. Advise for marcopit, check 1st n observe more b4 committing into this relationship.

finally u are back frm your trip...

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by Golden question

wa lau,u dont confuse him leh,so many lord and long and i confuse him with so many k,later he go crazy how

hehe...be careful of the long word also ah...

very sensitive... hjhj...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by jf66312

finally u are back frm your trip...

Yes its good to be back.

[Hurricane88]

haha...another big story unfolding...over the years, so many newbies came and go....always similar stories...but how many remained blissful...only those who still contributing here...haha sad to say...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by vietboy

Bros, its not 20k its 14k, 20k is with interest.

It's still 20K ....

Buy things where got no include interest 1 ...

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...another big story unfolding...over the years, so many newbies came and go....always similar stories...but how many remained blissful...only those who still contributing here...haha sad to say...

NEver see him b4 ... never see him post b4 ...

suddenly POP-UP with SoB Story ... that's why listen can already ...

Like a said .. could be just some clones trying to spics up the thread


7 Jul 12

Originally Posted by marcopit

Thanks to all samster advise & comments, I'm heading to airport now, will remember the advise given & will update all once I'm back cheers

22 Jul 12

Originally Posted by marcopit

Finally im back from HCM ... im totally lost of words to mentioned about my trip

Last Post on 7 Jul and lastest post yesterday on 22 Jul .... So that means He away to HCMC for 15 Days ...

[Genomes]

pay the 20k.
u can always earn it back.
do a risk reward analysis first thought

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Genomes

pay the 20k.
u can always earn it back.
do a risk reward analysis first thought

haha...pay 20K and she will disappear...reappear again when money was spent...and follow with another bull story asking for 25k...money was spent with bf in Vn...happily screwing local sinkie monies...

[Genomes]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...pay 20K and she will disappear...reappear again when money was spent...and follow with another bull story asking for 25k...money was spent with bf in Vn...happily screwing local sinkie monies...

wah spend 20k and ask for more.
that is greedy.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Genomes

pay the 20k.
u can always earn it back.
do a risk reward analysis first thought

U failed your math badly..... There is no reward why bother about analysis?

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by marcopit

Dont worry, I just need to cleared my mind, listen to advise here before i make my final decision this coming Sept.

Many bro gave their point of view because the majority of the time, such nonsense happens.....So do let it sink into you for your consideration.

Most importantly, you know her best and we do not...but keep all these red-flags in mind when you think about it.

How well do you know her? You know best...if there are ever some tiny mini bit of doubt, then do not proceed but if you trust her, by all means do what you have to do and let her know your expectations.

At the end of the day, the money is yours and not ours...we are just sharing our experience of what we or our friends or friend's freind got themselves into.