Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Last time, i drive big car, throw big money cause of my business, then casino come into my life and bring my downfall, lost all my asserts, went into jail for doing something illegal, on the verge of bankrupt and she still stand by me. She witness my highest point and my lowest point in life where basically i live like a dog, and she never even think of leaving me. So now i have a stable job, quit my gambling, and i still got debts to pay, thats why 4k+ is not enough for me.

i have seen and heard many before that a WL willing to standby a guy even when he fall hard...

is good that you trust your bx... and she trust you...

Originally Posted by vietboy

Same here. No matter how poor, how down, I'll never let my wife go work as a WL. I'm not saying I'm very noble, I'll rather I suffer myself than let her suffer with me. If I still let her suffer after marry me, then I'm selfish, why marry her and let her suffer because of my own actions and wrongdoings?

I can see that you don't understand how WL think...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I can see that you don't understand how WL think...

Shd be he dun understand how vietnamese think

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Bros, chill it!!

Nobody is right or wrong here...

true true... everyone experience is different so everyone have a different perspective.

just like me and H88..
he don't trust WL while i trust some WL...
but we still love vb and "You'll never walk alone"

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Shd be he dun understand how vietnamese think

yah yah.... you are correct.

[asdfghjkl]

I must praise the members here who are mature enough to talk openly about these few issues.. thumbs up! motivated me to surf this forum more!

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by vietboy

There are other ways and other jobs she can go try to meet the $1000 -$1500 per month.

where can find job for uneducated and unskilled vb which can get up to $1500 per month?
the most i know is $800 in service line like beer lady and in pub.

Originally Posted by vietboy

Rent need S$200+ per mth?? That is at least 3300000VND! Maybe i snoob, i have never heard rent so high unless she stay in big houses or condos. Maybe bros can provide some info on this.

its around that value in HCMC....
6 years back i pay rent monthly for my bx is around $120 (include electricity and water) then raise to $150 then raise again but i still pay $150 bsause my bx starts to gather more sisters into the house to share rental.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by Golden question

agreed,vietnamese man is useless,i encounter before,their society is like that.Like what u say there is no right or wrong but i will NEVER NEVER allow my love one to do that no matters how poor am i.

I disagree, there are many vn guys who indeed live off their female counterparts but to say all are useless is a dangerous sweeping statement altogether bro...

I have vn guy friends and customers who are capable, well to do and are very much the MAN that we would like ourself to be and would never let their female partners suffer.

just to add: they are also very tiko...just like us...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by casannova03

I disagree, there are many vn guys who indeed live off their female counterparts but to say all are useless is a dangerous sweeping statement altogether bro...

Ya agree, useless men form part of Vietnamese. Every countries have useless men including the all mighty SG.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

true true... everyone experience is different so everyone have a different perspective.

just like me and H88..
he don't trust WL while i trust some WL...
but we still love vb and "You'll never walk alone"

haha...to each his own...anyway many dun trust WL here...u only trust some...ask bro Adguy, do you trust WL??????????

yes yes...only love VB no others...one of the best in the world...

[jklpoi]

I dont trust WL at first, even when i meet my BX, until i witness how she stand by me in my very hard times.

I admit i am no angel, and i did fool around, even have a thailand fling for a short while, no cash transaction. Weakness of the flesh, i admit.

Shd be he dun understand how vietnamese think

Hmmm, my bx dont feel that she is suffering. I told her once that i am sorry because i no good, have to make her work and no let her rest. She bloody get angry with me for the whole day. Next day not so angry but no sex for 4 days

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Its obvious you guys have not suffer giddy heights of wealth and then suddenly dropping into abyss of poverty. Poverty as in pocket dont even have a single cent and no one to help you and fucking slp underneath the bridge with a cardboard blanket. and no job cause cannot find one. Then you will understand. to all those bro who have really experienced real poverty, not those fake one like so many pple here in Singapore.

You will understand me. and why I have a different view of the world and love.

as long as no real sex is taking place, and no frenching, no harm in touching breast, leg and light kissing. Its good money for every touch.

And my wife is not supporting me. I am still paying for my flat, my car on top of my debts. Its the extra money that goes into our saving acct every month.

bro,my view is will not let my wife do it no matter what but that does not mean i disagreed with what u do.Every ppl handle this kind of situation differently with different view,nobody can say whether the things u are doing is right or wrong.Only u have the say.

As long as u dont 'makan' your wife money,i salute u for letting her do.At least she is better than those who rob,steal or cheat ppl money.

[zion1989]

Each WL has their own story and reason to work as WL. I got a friend also make one of the WL his wife. That guy fucking uselss too, having problem with the law. Waiting to be charge, the WL just gave birth to a daughter for him. He only send $500 SGD back. Still can go JC while waiting for his trials

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by casannova03

I disagree, there are many vn guys who indeed live off their female counterparts but to say all are useless is a dangerous sweeping statement altogether bro...

I have vn guy friends and customers who are capable, well to do and are very much the MAN that we would like ourself to be and would never let their female partners suffer.

just to add: they are also very tiko...just like us...

I did not want to mean all but i mean most.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

I dont trust WL at first, even when i meet my BX, until i witness how she stand by me in my very hard times.

I admit i am no angel, and i did fool around, even have a thailand fling for a short while, no cash transaction. Weakness of the flesh, i admit.




Hmmm, my bx dont feel that she is suffering. I told her once that i am sorry because i no good, have to make her work and no let her rest. She bloody get angry with me for the whole day. Next day not so angry but no sex for 4 days

To her,u are helping her and marry her so that she can work here to support her kids back in vietnam.So she stand by u.
To u is she stand by u when u are really down and into poverty stage,thats why u love her and let her go work

Am i right to say so?

So like what bro cassonava say,what is your plan for the future with her,are u just sharing with us your experience on what u have now or are u seeking some answer?

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Ya agree, useless men form part of Vietnamese. Every countries have useless men including the all mighty SG.

Now suddenly u pop up and scare me