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Hi, for my ba xa case when i apply for LTVP, i only have her passport here, birth cert n census n highest education etc all i dun have .
My pay also not high when i apply last year around $2500 only.
Also no problem.
Just go and apply with whatever u have and it should be fine as there is nothing you should be worried about.
And further more i am a bankruptcy. Can't be worse than me right.
No , im not giving in i only give what i feel its enough based on personal experience. I told wife before our marriage, im marry her and not buying her whole family. This family consist of both of us, both of us need to work hard for this family. Im not rich, nor i live in big houses. I only have a heart that is willing to be oxa em tot suet doi, im still young now but i will work to make sure you dont starve. When time ripe i will bring you over to stay with me. I think her parents despise me because i didnt give them a lot of things when we marry, despite not being rich she still chose to marry me.
yes, u r not buying her whole family but marriage is not just 2 person thingie, it is also a 2 families thingie. it include yur parents and her parents. it is not just the 2 of u. marriage is a journey, not a transaction.
Vietnamese are very strong in their family ties, family comes 1st b4 anything. its very different from ours. u want them to give up on their family? No way bro...
i dont know what excatly happened btwn u n yur in-laws, but i believed they dont despise u, they r have happy to have a foreigner as son-in-law. it brings honour to their family. how can they dislike u?
like the bros had said, u need time to educate yur bx n including her parents.
sorry, i nhieu chuyen a bit: can i ask how long u know yur bx b4 yur marriage?
no offend bro,normally they will marry despite sg man not rich cos as long as can marry to sg,is a way for them to get out of poverty.look at those young girl marry those old man in sg through marriage agency then u will know
for them,earning 2.2k is rich to them but for normal sg standard,is consider not high if u are going to feel her,your family and next time your kids cos nowadays expenses is going up.
educate her cos she might not know and let her know that she might not get a job if she intend to if she is not highly educated,dont know how to speak any english or chinese
She understand me, no matter how much i gave her, she has no complains. As she dont spend it at all. She always use it to buy me clothes and food when i visit her in vietnam .
You can bring your marriage certificate to translate at Le Hong Phong Street at Q3, the whole street is doing it. Its a famous street in HCM for translation. Normal translation is around 80K VND per copy, if plus notorised by notary public, max also 300K VND. Nowadays, other streets like Le Van Si , Q3 also have.
Le van si or le hong phong? ... Ok ... Near the airport or bus stop .. The next visit i shall drop by and let them translate before i head for the long bus trip to kampong ... I dun really know hcm well , as i always go there for my transit to kanpong ...
yes, u r not buying her whole family but marriage is not just 2 person thingie, it is also a 2 families thingie. it include yur parents and her parents. it is not just the 2 of u. marriage is a journey, not a transaction.
Vietnamese are very strong in their family ties, family comes 1st b4 anything. its very different from ours. u want them to give up on their family? No way bro...
i dont know what excatly happened btwn u n yur in-laws, but i believed they dont despise u, they r have happy to have a foreigner as son-in-law. it brings honour to their family. how can they dislike u?
like the bros had said, u need time to educate yur bx n including her parents.
sorry, i nhieu chuyen a bit: can i ask how long u know yur bx b4 yur marriage?
Half a yr then 9 mths marriage . Very short period of time, atill have a long journey ahead...
Hi, for my ba xa case when i apply for LTVP, i only have her passport here, birth cert n census n highest education etc all i dun have .
My pay also not high when i apply last year around $2500 only.
Also no problem.
Just go and apply with whatever u have and it should be fine as there is nothing you should be worried about.
And further more i am a bankruptcy. Can't be worse than me right.
Your application pulled through? , im afraid due to my payslip unable to reflect monthly of at least 2.5. Only my yearly payslip able to show the ability of 30k and above incl. bonuses . So i maybe need some advise if any bro noes how roughly they assess then im able to match the expectation with the paperwork i can do on my end.
no offend bro,normally they will marry despite sg man not rich cos as long as can marry to sg,is a way for them to get out of poverty.look at those young girl marry those old man in sg through marriage agency then u will know
for them,earning 2.2k is rich to them but for normal sg standard,is consider not high if u are going to feel her,your family and next time your kids cos nowadays expenses is going up.
educate her cos she might not know and let her know that she might not get a job if she intend to if she is not highly educated,dont know how to speak any english or chinese
I dont intend to let her work, im thinking maybe saving 3 yrs down the road to maybe let her open a small stall or shop in singapore to let her pass her time. 50k plus a bit of loan should be able to set up the small stall and of cos i will be looking after the accounts of it. My mum can assist her as and when she is free.
Ya im looking to let her understand that life is not as easy she her family think in singapore, im handling 2 jobs. Working in out the week, any opportunity to work on part time i will do so. As for in govt eyes im just a 2.2k employee in a slightly recognised company. Clocking my accountancy experience to get my membership .
Half a yr then 9 mths marriage . Very short period of time, atill have a long journey ahead...
My vn gf I know since oct last year, did ask me when I will marry her. I says next year. She ask why so long. I told her the reasons and she also understand.
FYI my current gf know my ex gf...although in the end she know why I break up with my ex
Your application pulled through? , im afraid due to my payslip unable to reflect monthly of at least 2.5. Only my yearly payslip able to show the ability of 30k and above incl. bonuses . So i maybe need some advise if any bro noes how roughly they assess then im able to match the expectation with the paperwork i can do on my end.
Hi, don't mind I ask? The amount reflected is the basic pay or take home pay? Sorry to ask.
I dont intend to let her work, im thinking maybe saving 3 yrs down the road to maybe let her open a small stall or shop in singapore to let her pass her time. 50k plus a bit of loan should be able to set up the small stall and of cos i will be looking after the accounts of it. My mum can assist her as and when she is free.
Ya im looking to let her understand that life is not as easy she her family think in singapore, im handling 2 jobs. Working in out the week, any opportunity to work on part time i will do so. As for in govt eyes im just a 2.2k employee in a slightly recognised company. Clocking my accountancy experience to get my membership .
Well for me, I did tell my current gf that I did plan for her to work in Singapore after marriage. Suggest to let her work in the same company I workin now. Different dept though as I did mention to my director before. As long as can speak English or Chinese with some minor knowledge of computer can Liao. I did tell her my reasons for doing all these.
Le van si or le hong phong? ... Ok ... Near the airport or bus stop .. The next visit i shall drop by and let them translate before i head for the long bus trip to kampong ... I dun really know hcm well , as i always go there for my transit to kanpong ...
Thanks man.
Le Hong Phong at Q3 is good. But its not so near to the airport, but it may be on the way to the bus station at Q6 where buses to mekong Delta are situated. Btw, you shouldn't be worried about LTSVP, its the most basic one can get for a foreigner spouse.
Well for me, I did tell my current gf that I did plan for her to work in Singapore after marriage. Suggest to let her work in the same company I workin now. Different dept though as I did mention to my director before. As long as can speak English or Chinese with some minor knowledge of computer can Liao. I did tell her my reasons for doing all these.
This is a good move. Its not easy to survive on a single income for a family nowadays in Singapore. With both working, her time will be occupied and there's income coming in.
yes, u r not buying her whole family but marriage is not just 2 person thingie, it is also a 2 families thingie. it include yur parents and her parents. it is not just the 2 of u. marriage is a journey, not a transaction.
Vietnamese are very strong in their family ties, family comes 1st b4 anything. its very different from ours. u want them to give up on their family? No way bro...
i dont know what excatly happened btwn u n yur in-laws, but i believed they dont despise u, they r have happy to have a foreigner as son-in-law. it brings honour to their family. how can they dislike u?
like the bros had said, u need time to educate yur bx n including her parents.
sorry, i nhieu chuyen a bit: can i ask how long u know yur bx b4 yur marriage?
Bro, i think your wife may have come from a very understanding family. Most of the viet families from the villages will take their foreigner SIL as ATM. Most important is to educate the wife, its almost impossible to educate her family. I have heard of viet spouse with very understanding parents, but mostly, its the other way round. My wife's friend just told her that her brother is getting married in VN and she wants her husband to fork out S$6k to give to her brother. The brother is not working, addicted to drugs. But the mother wants `face', so she has to fork out the money to create `face' for her brother.
My wife's friend just told her that her brother is getting married in VN and she wants her husband to fork out S$6k to give to her brother. The brother is not working, addicted to drugs. But the mother wants `face', so she has to fork out the money to create `face' for her brother.
expensive face...hihi...
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You can bring your marriage certificate to translate at Le Hong Phong Street at Q3, the whole street is doing it. Its a famous street in HCM for translation. Normal translation is around 80K VND per copy, if plus notorised by notary public, max also 300K VND. Nowadays, other streets like Le Van Si , Q3 also have.
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19-03-2012, 11:23 PM
... I dun really know hcm well , as i always go there for my transit to kanpong ...
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